Are you afraid to get old or die?!


Question: Are you afraid to get old or die.?
I am. I get freaked out and stress that one day I will die. Getting old also gets me twisted..Is there a way I can make these feelings go away. How do you cope with it.?Health Question & Answer


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I have just accepted that I am going to get old and die. I have accepted the fact that when I kneel down my knees are starting to pop. I have accepted the fact that even at a young age I have arthritis in my ankle (due to an old injury). I have accepted the fact that once in a while I will catch myself let out an "old" sigh when I bend down to pick something up.
I have also accepted the fact that I can start to watch my nephews grow into adults, my son, grow into a "big boy" and my cousins to start their own families. I have accepted the fact that my husband and I will soon be able to spend a little more alone time, as our son begins his overnight outings with his friends. Family (mainly my parents) will start asking the teenagers/young adults to move heavy things, run errands, download the virus protection, and program cell phone numbers in.
With old age comes great wisdom. We all will get old, but you have to look at the positive things in life. I too am afraid of loved ones dying, but I have to continue to focus on what old age can bring rather than what it will take away. With everything, there will be give and take which one of those you focus on will determines your happiness.
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i'm not so much afraid of me dying, well i am. but i'm more afraid of my loved ones dying. there have been some nights where i cry a lot about it. i even cry when i see animals dying. what i do is try to not think about it. so all i can tell you is to, try to not think about it. maybe you should talk to a therapist about this. everything and everyone do die eventually. yes, it's hard to cope with that and accept it. it's really hard to stop thinking about it once you do think about it. i hate death. there's nothing i can do to stop it, so i just don't think about it, or it will hurt even more.Health Question & Answer

just think about it. EVERYBODY IS GONNA DIE..

NOT JUST YOU...


i believe all man is equal when death occurs.

do not fear death... because if u do it will stop u from living your life.. you just have to live my friend and don't worry about it.. it may take time to get it in your head that your gonna die, but once you convince your mind to stop worrying about... you will live freely

just live life.. ITS GONNA HAPPEN ANYWAY... worrying wont stop death... but it will stop you... if you continue to fear itHealth Question & Answer

its GOING to happen. Theres NO way around that.
But as for the feelings..

Just try and realise that youll be much happier just accepting it. Get over it and live the life that you have right noww =)

Why worry your whole young life about getting old.? And then you are old and wish you didnt..

Good luckss.Health Question & Answer

Actually i'm looking foward to it :) No i'm not a depressed freak. I'm a catholic. Check this out :http://www.artakiane.com/akiane_art.htm#
She is a child prodigy who gets visions from GOD. SOme of these paintings are of heaven.(God showed her them)
I'm so excited!!!Health Question & Answer

Well like all living things we must age and then leave room for the younger ones. Laws of nature, better to accept for are inevitable.Health Question & Answer

you're going to die...and get old...
the sooner you can accept this the happier you'll be...Health Question & Answer

Do something that will make you be remembered long after you're dead. Then you'll always be on Earth :)Health Question & Answer



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