Does anybody feel this bad?!


Question: Does anybody feel this bad.?
Okay, well everyone says you are a teenager and a female thats why you are like this. Is it seriously that common to hate everything and cut daily.?.? Should I be worried or is this normal.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
it is a lot more common than you'd think =/ That does not mean it's 'normal' or that you shouldn't worry.

You should definitely be worried, mainly because if you cut that often it's really difficult to stop and you are actually doing more than just physical damage to yourself. Believe me, I've been there and I know. >_<

Talk to a counsellor, a friend, a parent, or someone you can trust with how you're feeling. Get the emotions out there, that can help. There are also a whole lot of sites out there that help self-harmers or give you further information. I will link to the myspace page, but that page links to a whole lot more sites which you could also check out if you want to. Health Question & Answer

You don't need to worry cause that just makes the problem worse. Its normal to have intense feelings when you're sixteen cause you're learning how to cope with life, you're becoming independent. There are a lot of ways, a lot of tools to dealing - yours just happens to be cutting. Only thing is that cutting isn't actually productive, its actually self destructive. Furthermore, the things that are bothering you will still be there after you finish cutting, so you're back where you started.
It'd be great if you could see a therapist because they have great tools. Its not because you're crazy or anything, rather the sessions can enlighten you about who you are and how you are so you become self aware. From there you can decide how you'd like to deal with difficulties in life and empower yourself. Choice is power. Cutting isn't a choice, its a reaction and its dis empowering. Ask your therapist about your options and what sorts of techniques they can teach you that are better than cutting.Health Question & Answer

First, DONT CUT YOURSELF. This can be very horrible to your health in the future. If you cant stop, talk to a counselor in your school or your parents.

Second, Hating everything in the world is pretty bad to do. So when feeling like this try to laugh. Maybe call your friends or think about them and the good times youve had.Health Question & Answer

Depends how old you are.

Ps; Don't cut. Do you really want to live with scars
forever.? Just wait until somebody sees them. That's
what happened to me, and it was the worst day of my life.
I was asked by my teacher to roll my sleeves up. The whole
class saw, and they even had the nerve to ask to see them
closely. My parents were called and i made up some crap
about how our cat did it. Let me just say i still havent learned
my lesson, but i seriously hope you do.. before you go through
what i went through.

Best of luckHealth Question & Answer

you should be worried. of course it isn't normal to cut at all. you might want to talk to someone and figure out why you cut in the first place. you like pain.? Health Question & Answer

i was out to agree with you but then realised its not going to help u or me to be negative so as much as i am advising you i am advising myself LETS be positive, look at the bright side of life. Be happyHealth Question & Answer

Find someone you trust - another adult - whom you can talk to about this. It's eating you up and not good for your well-being.Health Question & Answer

i barely know any people like that.Health Question & Answer



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