How do I keep going and not give up...to a certain extent i keep going...but i think i give up too easily?!
Question: How do I keep going and not give up...to a certain extent i keep going...but i think i give up too easily.?
what can i do to change that.? i get depressed quickly and feel stupid when someone says something smarter than me. i need more confidence...i know that...(i was bullyed A LOT)...so now im just like hangin on by a thread. i don't want that anymore...i wanna just forget about what people think and just do. how can i do that.? Health Question & Answer
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I completely understand where you're coming from. Willpower is a funny thing sometimes. Personally, I consider myself to be a person who refuses to quit. I know alot of people like to say that about themselves, but I really do believe it, and that's where it starts. Believing in yourself.
I know better than most that that can be difficult at times. But think of it this way: Anyone can take the helm when the seas are calm. It takes a special person to to never give up and stand up for what they think is right.
Sometimes, and bullying is a perfect example, when the whole world tells you to move, sometimes you have to stand there and say "No, you move". Don't doubt yourself. Quitting, no matter what the scenario, never gets anyone anywhere. There are tons of stories where people were told their entire lives what they could and couldn't do, and they made successes of themselves. If you take one thing away from this answer, let it be this: Don't ever, and I mean EVER, let anyone tell you what you can't do. No matter what the situation is, never back down from anything.
I know by reading over my answer that your probably thinking something like "how does he know.?". I've had my share of problems, and I really know what it means to be holding on by a thread. Even now, it often feels like I am at times. Ready for a personal example.?
For the past five years, I've been really in love with this girl, and she's never loved me back. I stopped trying, even when ideas would pop into my head, and it was the worst decision I've ever made in my life. I've never regretted anything more. Because the feeling never went away, and I still can't get over her.
That's why I developed this attitude of never giving up, no matter what the situation is. I firmly believe that if you want something bad enough, and you work hard enough, you'll get it in the end.
I hoped I helped.Health Question & Answer
I know better than most that that can be difficult at times. But think of it this way: Anyone can take the helm when the seas are calm. It takes a special person to to never give up and stand up for what they think is right.
Sometimes, and bullying is a perfect example, when the whole world tells you to move, sometimes you have to stand there and say "No, you move". Don't doubt yourself. Quitting, no matter what the scenario, never gets anyone anywhere. There are tons of stories where people were told their entire lives what they could and couldn't do, and they made successes of themselves. If you take one thing away from this answer, let it be this: Don't ever, and I mean EVER, let anyone tell you what you can't do. No matter what the situation is, never back down from anything.
I know by reading over my answer that your probably thinking something like "how does he know.?". I've had my share of problems, and I really know what it means to be holding on by a thread. Even now, it often feels like I am at times. Ready for a personal example.?
For the past five years, I've been really in love with this girl, and she's never loved me back. I stopped trying, even when ideas would pop into my head, and it was the worst decision I've ever made in my life. I've never regretted anything more. Because the feeling never went away, and I still can't get over her.
That's why I developed this attitude of never giving up, no matter what the situation is. I firmly believe that if you want something bad enough, and you work hard enough, you'll get it in the end.
I hoped I helped.Health Question & Answer
When you're not reacting to your feelings and just accept that it has happened and you havent done anything wrong. In fact, you actually tried before and still failed and losses confidence due to other people's behavioural reactions to you.
Firstly, it is not their fault because they overcome you. Some people brought up like this and some arent. not to say.. worst than you..
Most important thing is, just to accept things are just is. If someone did that to you again, try doing Nothing. When this happens, usually the other person felt something isnt right and good thing is, there is a chance he/she wont do it anymore...
Take care and past is just past. There is always a New You or New Me, it is just a matter of experience.. When.?.?.? "Now" is the chance to excel it.
- KRHealth Question & Answer
Firstly, it is not their fault because they overcome you. Some people brought up like this and some arent. not to say.. worst than you..
Most important thing is, just to accept things are just is. If someone did that to you again, try doing Nothing. When this happens, usually the other person felt something isnt right and good thing is, there is a chance he/she wont do it anymore...
Take care and past is just past. There is always a New You or New Me, it is just a matter of experience.. When.?.?.? "Now" is the chance to excel it.
- KRHealth Question & Answer
I know things can seem hard at times and sometimes you wonder if it is all worth it - and mate, let me tell you, it is all worth it. Look within yourself and you will see a brilliant, talented and unique individual. If others cannot see that, than the problem is theirs, not yours. Every day you will make a difference to someone. Make sure you make a difference to you too.
If you feel that low my friend, go talk to a professional. They can help a lot.
Stay strong and smile.Health Question & Answer
If you feel that low my friend, go talk to a professional. They can help a lot.
Stay strong and smile.Health Question & Answer
By being the True You.
It is not the thoughts of others that should concern you.
If you know you are a Good person, then you can hold your head high, shoulders back and keep looking forward.
You will only ever Fail, if you Stop trying.
Cut the Thread and replace it with a Rope. Remember Bullies,of what ever age, sex or creed are very sad people, and You Will always be one step in front of them. Providing you keep your dignity and Calm.Health Question & Answer
It is not the thoughts of others that should concern you.
If you know you are a Good person, then you can hold your head high, shoulders back and keep looking forward.
You will only ever Fail, if you Stop trying.
Cut the Thread and replace it with a Rope. Remember Bullies,of what ever age, sex or creed are very sad people, and You Will always be one step in front of them. Providing you keep your dignity and Calm.Health Question & Answer
You might need to get a mentor. I'm sure there are people out there who would be willing to be a wonderful mentor. I have been the same way in the past but not as much anymore. I think it changes with maturity but sometimes we need an extra boost.
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
Good luck!Health Question & Answer
stay strong and dont be a push over... do what you have to do but never give up. people that give up to easily end up being trodden on by others and/or in horrible situations!Health Question & Answer
Refuse to back down. Health Question & Answer