I feel lost and alone and like nobody gives a crap about me.?!


Question: I feel lost and alone and like nobody gives a crap about me..?
I have tried on several occasions to kill myself because I know I wouldn't be missed by anybody. Does anyone have any help.Health Question & Answer


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Darling, please don't do anything rash like that. I totally understand where your coming from, I swear I do. Invest in a journal and write it all out. Write until your hand falls off. I know the pain on the inside hurts more than the pain on the out, but just think about it throughly. If it makes you feel any better, since you asked this question and I answered, I would miss you if you did kill yourself :(

But call a therapist. You honestly could have some sort of chemical imbalance, and medication could fix that in a jiffy. If you are ever in need of someone to talk to when your feeling low, please email me and I will help in any way I can.Health Question & Answer

I care - I've been there. I was on Lithium and heard voices telling me that nobody cared, nobody would miss me, they would all be better off, etc. I believed the voices. It wasn't the first time I tried either. The first time was in 8th grade. I had heard about Tylenol having been "polluted" and took 32 of them in school. All it did was make me sleep through several of Mr Fishers' history classes and then I threw up when he came over to wake me up for the bus. I figured nobody cared, and I guess that time they didn't. The second time I took a bunch of pills, ended up in the ER then ICU in a coma, then - well...I'm here still and feeling better. I got a different therapist and am on better meds and I feel much better mentally. It WILL get better. It may look hopeless now, but things change when you do things to help yourself. A year ago July we lived in a camper and were not happy in our marriage. Now.? We are in love again about to have our 16th anniversary and because I pushed myself to make things better, we are in a better living situation.
If you will get with a therapist and tell them exactly what is wrong, they will get you the right help. You should be able to find some income based treatment and be able to pay as little as $5 copay depending on where you live and what programs are available.
Good luck and God BlessHealth Question & Answer

Albert Einstein is quoted as saying that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Because of my physical healthy I know how you feel, but once I started to accept that whatever I was doing over and over again wasn't working for me, or as albert says insane, I started to change the actions I made one at a time. It took awhile but all those little new actions added up to changing my life around. I still get sick at times, but I feel like I am more in control now. Start making new healthy choices, one at a time and see what happens. Some call it controlling your karma by the actions you make.Health Question & Answer

The first guy that answered needs reporting, very sick in the head and probably has no one who cares about him, hence him trying to put his own issues onto you.... so first of all people do care about you, they probably dont show it to you in a way that you recognise, i think that you should see your doctor and explain how your feeling, there are lots of reasons why you might be feeling this way and there is lots of different methods of help available these days. Why do you feel that you should end your life just because no one would miss you.? why dont you want to live your life for your own reasons.? Try and have a think about where you would like to see yourself a year from now and then set a goal to acheive them, one at a time, if you try to take on too much at once it will all go wrong, but start with something small that you want to change and progress, good luck..Health Question & Answer

Talk to people, you don't realize it now, but people do care. It's a matter of recognizing that they are truly there for you. Don't kill yourself, think of everyone you know. You can tear so many people apart from doing this. Call 1-800-Suicide, and talk to a proffessional if you would like to be anonymous and recieve help. Or see a doctor or therapist if you want more contact.
I realized this when I was in the hospital.Health Question & Answer

Find a physciatrist or take some anti depressant medication... if everything fails, i say you do what you wanna do, i have so much to say and so much to counter people that are against suicide and the individuals decision but i dont wanna type it all in here.

But remember, its YOUR decision nobody else has the right to tell you what to do. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem but it is also a solution to a unlimited hard problems in life.

Im suicidal and right now im locked up in this mental hospital shi t... What a fcked world ey lol... How come smoking cigarettes is allowed even though its bad for your health.? How come gay marrieage has been approved even though its against religion.? And suicide isnt.?! LOL!! We live in a world of slavery! We are slaves of the law, slaves of the government, slaves of the media! We listen to what people teaches or taught us what to do... slavery... and yet people say we are free.? *sigh*

If you wanna kill yourself, just do it and dont let religion interfere. After all, it says in the bible that god is a forgiving father and that he will know how much pain youve gone through in life.. You did NOT choose to be born in this world but instead FORCED to be born in this fcked world... but in my point of view, in my belief, religion is fake but created by the human mind and the human words...

ok enough typing already. I have soo much to say to counter people's points against suicide but my hands are getting tired and im getting tired of saying this stuff all over again (Takes 12 pages to write all of it...) So remember, if everything you did failed (like physciatrist, therapists, medication, books and tips how to prevent suicide, etc) then the choice is left to you. If you think suicide is the last thing you have, let it be done...

Suicide has 3 stages: Want, Need and Goal. Your at the second stage my friend so if I were you, I'll seek help because once it reaches to the "Goal" stage... it cant be helped. Suicide never exists in the world, but we become smarter and made the world more complex. Why is life hard.? Why is there suicide.? Answer: Its because of people and that is a FACT!

"Suicide is a selfish act" most people that aren't suicidal would say this but dont you think its also selfish for letting someone live in pain (emotionaly/physcially) to live just for the sake of others.? Would you rather see the person go through a painful fcked life or see him sleeping in a quiet peaceful manner.? also suicide isn't a coward thing to do... it takes "balls of steel" ALOT of courage to do suicide..

Its your decision my friend ONLY yours...Health Question & Answer

yeah, seek help. even if it's true that no one cares about you (which is doubtful) why would you care.? live your own life, enjoy it. if people are drawn to you fine, if not equally fine, so long as you're cool. quit caring about everyone else. go climb a mountain or bungee jump or something. do something interesting, since you don't care anyway. might as well have a cool story.Health Question & Answer

i know how you feel, ive been like that before. people do care. life has its trials and tribulations, just come out smiling. please see your doctor too, they may give you antidepressants and they do make you feel better xHealth Question & Answer

We don't care about you, and we wouldn't miss you if you ended it right here and right now. Just be sure to air it on web cam.Health Question & Answer

On the contrary, you're meant to live out a destiny, helping people in ways you cannot comprehend.

This will pass. Accept what's happening and you will transcend your problems.Health Question & Answer

you really need to go see a doctor =] they give a crap about you and they can help you! no harm in trying xHealth Question & Answer



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