I am so very confused, what is wrong with me?!
Question: I am so very confused, what is wrong with me.?
What's wrong with me.? I am 13 years old. I always feel sad, frustrated, or hopeless. Or, which is the worst of all, empty. Completely empty, which I feel quite often, like I have no emotions. And I also find myself really wanting to cry, for no reason. It's not like anything worse than usual has been happening to me, besides a lot of school work and tests/quizzes. I often feel lonely, or detached from everyone else, even-ESPECIALLY- in a room filled with people. This has been going on for almost 2 years now. I also get really angry at my family, for stupid things. I have so much trouble trusting people, and nobody knows how I really feel. I have tons of friends, and I feel like I know alot about them, but that they know absolutely nothing about me. I hate doing things that I once loved, I don't like being around my friends or family, I can hardly sleep, I am always exhausted, and normal things seem like a lot of work. I also have trouble concentrating. I often find that I'm thinking thoughts about how much I hate myself. Or how I hate being here. Here as in home, school, life in general. I can't tell my family about anything that happens, so I keep everything inside. What is wrong with me.? I know something is wrong, but what.? Health Question & Answer
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What happened to you two years ago.? Did someone you love pass away.? Move away.? Did something happen to you that should not have, and if it did was it by someone you trusted.? If any of these things happened you need to talk to a counselor. Are you sure there is no one in your family that you can confide in and trust, This would include grandparents, aunts and uncles, even cousins. Another person could help you, even if you can't get professional counseling. You need to open up to someone and get to the root of what's going on. I know your going through a rough time just to be changing from a girl to a young lady, but not this drastic and not since you were eleven. Please find someone to talk to soon. Health Question & Answer
awwww... I think u are fine! Maybe it's puperty. You are going through a period of change and things can get pretty emotional. Don't worry about it. Just relax. Be calm and get socialized. Go out with friends often and have fun. Forget about the sad things.Health Question & Answer
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i feel similar to you.Health Question & Answer
i feel similar to you.Health Question & Answer
Get a doctor.You have all the exact symptoms of depression.Health Question & Answer
you sound like me- well i do that sometimes you should see a doctor Health Question & Answer
well yea i was reading some of the answers down there and i would like to talk to you to.. you can email me too tagnejay@yahoo.com i use to go through the same things last yr (wen i was 13) and i still do but i guess i just know how to handle it better...it's not just something you should push to the side it depends on if you can handle it on your own or if you need someone to talk to i had some people here and there but mostly i handled it on my own and it was never the rite way... so email me and if you want to hear my story i dont mind i would love to help you out more ..i know im just a stranger but i care cuz i know how it feelsHealth Question & Answer
You are perfectly normal. You may just be a little depressed. You should really make an appointment with a counselor. You may have a chemical imbalance that can be cured with medication. If thats what it is then a pill a day can restore your happiness.
I understand the lonely feeling completely. You can be in a room full of people but still feel all alone. The best cure for this is to spend a whole night with someone who knows you and can connect with you really well. This person has to be the person that can complete your sentences or make you laugh like no one else can. This will make you feel connected with someone again and thats a good start, even if it is only for that one night it will be a break away from the misery you are living now.
Hang out with people that make you feel good about who you are. If you dont feel like hanging out call and talk to someone on the phone. If you just feel like sitting home and doing nothing then you are going to have to force yourself out of your mood. Just get out there and try something i guarantee it will be funner than sitting in the house all depressed. You really should see a counselor though, just to be sure your hormones and the chemicals in your brain or in tact. Otherwise it may get far worse before it gets any better.
good luck.Health Question & Answer
I understand the lonely feeling completely. You can be in a room full of people but still feel all alone. The best cure for this is to spend a whole night with someone who knows you and can connect with you really well. This person has to be the person that can complete your sentences or make you laugh like no one else can. This will make you feel connected with someone again and thats a good start, even if it is only for that one night it will be a break away from the misery you are living now.
Hang out with people that make you feel good about who you are. If you dont feel like hanging out call and talk to someone on the phone. If you just feel like sitting home and doing nothing then you are going to have to force yourself out of your mood. Just get out there and try something i guarantee it will be funner than sitting in the house all depressed. You really should see a counselor though, just to be sure your hormones and the chemicals in your brain or in tact. Otherwise it may get far worse before it gets any better.
good luck.Health Question & Answer