I have a couple of questions?? thank you for the people who took the time to look and answer my questions?!
Question: I have a couple of questions.?.? thank you for the people who took the time to look and answer my questions.?
ive been giving my boyfriend the silent treatment lately without even knowing it, i was having a bad day. and one of my guy friends asked me what was wrong and i just told him i had a bad day, we were at lunch and my boyfriend was at rec outside and i can see him through the window and my guy friend pointed him out that he was flirting and hugging and literally surrounded by girls. that made me feel worse. now my boyfriend keeps calling me and annoyed me saying "come on tell me what did i do wrong.? why are you so upset come ooooooooooooooooon" and i don't want to just ignore his calls because i feel bad. how do you cheer yourself up when you're down and the people you love let you down.? my boyfriend let me down a couple of times and i made him feel bad and he deserves it even though im "the quiet girl" ive never been this silent or upset before. ive never spoken a word to anyone except for the teachers because i have to. help.?Health Question & Answer
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You say you're very shy and on the other hand, your boyfriend is outgoing. Not a really good match, but it's up to you to make it work. You have to understand that he likes talking, he likes being in the spot light. That doesn't mean he's cheating on you. He was surrounded by girls cause at this age, all the girls will levitate around the guys that seem cool. But he was worried about you, he wants to be with you...not with any of those other girls. I'm sure he could get one of them, but he's calling YOU and cares about how YOU feel. That should count for something. If you trust him, do yourself a favor: tell him you got a bit jealous when you saw him with so many girls and learn to chill out. If you don't trust him....well....i think you know the answer...Health Question & Answer
The silent treatment will not work if you want to get anywhere with him then the answer is to work through your problems and talk...tell him how you feel and try to work things out. If he cares for you enough to keep calling like that then I think he cares enough to consider your feeling and understand where your coming from with this...so give him a chance. I think it will make you feel better and him too!
Good Luck and = ) don't be so down!Health Question & Answer
Good Luck and = ) don't be so down!Health Question & Answer
There will always be women around men, and oh, the often love flirting with someone they know is taken.
He wasn't doing anything but loving the attention.
Let it go,
Pick up the phone and talk to him just tell him it all caught u by surprise and you felt worried about u and him.
He'll understand, and then u can go on together.Health Question & Answer
He wasn't doing anything but loving the attention.
Let it go,
Pick up the phone and talk to him just tell him it all caught u by surprise and you felt worried about u and him.
He'll understand, and then u can go on together.Health Question & Answer
you had a bad day and you saw your boyfriends having a great day. He wasn't cheating just hugging and who knows 100% if he was flirting. So I would TELL HIM about how you felt and you'll feel betterHealth Question & Answer
This isnt the right catagory for this but...you need to speak to ur boyfriend otherwise he wont know why you are mad!Health Question & Answer