Who is the crazy person in this family?!
Question: Who is the crazy person in this family.?
Ok so last night there was some drama with my stepbrother. First of all let me say that he has a drug and alcohol problem and a history of mental "issues". Well he is 19 he works out of town but he recently failed a drug test and is required to go to "rehab" before he can return to work. So he has returned home and was living with my mother (his stepmother). Her husband (his father) works out of town. My 19 yr old brother also works out of town but his 19 yr old girlfiend lives with my mother. She doesnt work and she sits at the house all day. Well for the past week or so since he has been home, he has just been hanging out at home with my brothers gf. My brother doesnt like him being around his gf so much because its obvious my stepbro is trying to get in her pants. So when my brother is around is gf is mean to my stepbro but when my brother isnt around his gf and my stepbro are BFFS. But neways that is just a little history. Last night my stepbrother and my brother gf were at my cousins. My stepbrother had apparently been drinking and taking pills all day. My cousin was cutting his hair and he grabbed her ***. Then when her husband asked him about it he called her a liar and a *****. Well my cousins husband broke his nose. My stepbrother then started crying and telling everyone how much he loved them and blah blah blah. My cousin then told Samantha (bros gf) to leave and she didnt listen. It was like hello get out! Finally they left. Well on the way home my stepbrother fell asleep. So Samantha left him in the car. My mother locked him out of the house. He woke up sometime during the night and broke windows to get into the house. My mother met him in the sun room and told him that she was going to call the cops. He called her an f***** bi***. She slapped him. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS CRAZY!! He ran to my brothers room and grabbed a gun. My mom and Samantha ran into my mothers room and locked the door. He broke the door down. They told him the cops were on the way. He replied that he would kill them, kill the cops, then kill himself. Then he stuck the gun in his mouth. My mother and Samantha ran into my brothers room and locked the door, then locked themselves in the closet (it locks from the inside). Finally the cops got to the house. They couldnt find my stepbrother. Finally they found him, IN THE POND!! They got him out, got him in the driveway. He passed out in the driveway. He fell down and busted his head up again! Then when he came to, he started telling the cops that he only smokes weed to get closer to GOD because Moses spoke to GOD through a BURNING BUSH!! He is now in the hospital, waiting to be transferred to a mental hospital.
Thats all nuts right, but the part that bothers me the most is that my mom has been the one buying him all the alcohol. Like she will go to the liqour store and buy him over $100 worth of liqour, and a 30 pack of beer! She buys him beer everyday. And Samantha drives him around to buy drugs. All they do all night is drive around buying pills, weed, and who knows what else.? I mean what do they expect. He has been taking Xanax and drinken Patron for a week. Even a stable person would go crazy. This is the second time my stepbrother has pulled a gun and threatened to kill everyone. The first time he was 17. If you know someone has a drug problem why would you enable them.? My mother has a long history of it. My first stepfather did meth my entire life until his heart blew up when I was 17. This is the kind of unstable enviroment that I do not want my child in (im pregnant). My mother sees nothing wrong with contributing alcohol to minors. She allows them to do drugs at her house. I told my aunt today that I didnt want my child around my mom and she of course told my mother. Now IM THE BAD GUY!!!! My family thinks Im crazy because I think they are WHITE TRASH, they think that something is wrong with ME.?.?.?
BTW I do not live with them all. My husband and I have our own house. But she bought a house .5 miles down the road after we bought our house. And she always brings my husband into all the drama because she knows that I do not approve and consider myself above that kind of behavior. Anyways what do i do.?
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Thats all nuts right, but the part that bothers me the most is that my mom has been the one buying him all the alcohol. Like she will go to the liqour store and buy him over $100 worth of liqour, and a 30 pack of beer! She buys him beer everyday. And Samantha drives him around to buy drugs. All they do all night is drive around buying pills, weed, and who knows what else.? I mean what do they expect. He has been taking Xanax and drinken Patron for a week. Even a stable person would go crazy. This is the second time my stepbrother has pulled a gun and threatened to kill everyone. The first time he was 17. If you know someone has a drug problem why would you enable them.? My mother has a long history of it. My first stepfather did meth my entire life until his heart blew up when I was 17. This is the kind of unstable enviroment that I do not want my child in (im pregnant). My mother sees nothing wrong with contributing alcohol to minors. She allows them to do drugs at her house. I told my aunt today that I didnt want my child around my mom and she of course told my mother. Now IM THE BAD GUY!!!! My family thinks Im crazy because I think they are WHITE TRASH, they think that something is wrong with ME.?.?.?
BTW I do not live with them all. My husband and I have our own house. But she bought a house .5 miles down the road after we bought our house. And she always brings my husband into all the drama because she knows that I do not approve and consider myself above that kind of behavior. Anyways what do i do.?
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The best thing that you can do is nothing. Your family is not going to change. Your mother likes to be needed and she is making sure that she is. Your brother's gf is just a mooch and will never amount to anything as long as she is given a free ride. Your stepbrother is a loser that will end up dead at a young age. Tell your husband that you do not want anymore drama in your life and you do not want anymore contact with your family at this time. If and when they clean up their act you might reconsider your position and have some limited contact. Make it clear to him that neither one of you should buy into this circus act again and that you want him to cease listening to your mother complain about you. He does not have to be rude, just firm about what subjects are off limits if he insists on maintaining a relationship with her. And if he does remain in contact with her, knowing how you feel, ask yourself if he is any good for you too. You need to protect your child and it sounds like you are the only real grown-up in your family. Good luck to you. You are going to need it. Health Question & Answer
the whole house
but mostly
the brother mom and gf
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but mostly
the brother mom and gf
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no one uses the term crazy anymore. you need to stay away from your mother and consider moving if you have to. if your mother has a drug problem, the only way you could help is if you talked to a counselor on her behalf and ask what can be done for your mother such as rehab. Health Question & Answer
Geez...from all you've said, the whole HOUSE needs to be in therapy of some kind or another. My advice to you is...find a place to go, and stay as far away from this mess as you can! And don't look back!Health Question & Answer
WOW! get as far away as possible, if you continue to be around them and the way they live their lives, all they will do is continue their behavior. you can't change what they do, but you CAN change what you do for yourself! my concern is that they will try to hurt you and your unborn child. just get away! i wish you all the luck in the world. Health Question & Answer