I dont know what to write here to make you read this... but PLEASE I BEG YOU READ THIS!! identity issue? ?!


Question: I dont know what to write here to make you read this... but PLEASE I BEG YOU READ THIS!! identity issue.? .?
I may not be conscious during these times but i think ds is it..

I changed.. I became serious in life, ever sins i had a gf {im a girl}, the stuffs i want to tok about are mature, not like politics but more on just mature. haha.

lately I find myself that i don't know what kind of personality to portray or words to say.. for example, since i always find myself not acting "like myself" {i tend to act up} i will act in a way that i think is "me" {the jolly, goody, funny me}... however if i do that its not natural, AM I RIGHT.? {pls answer ds.} bcoz i may not be conscious on what im doing but its like dictating myself, right.?

Am i pleasing people in that sense.?.? However if i will act the "new" me the serious one its not ME. {now i dont even know if the new me is actually me} i will not get a long w/ pp if im like dt... arrrrgh! anyway, just please answer all that has "question marks" those are important. thnks for reading this.:)Health Question & Answer


Answers:
If I understand what you have written then it sounds like you have taken the steps necessary to be a mature adult. However, you're "inner child" is taking exception to this and screeching at you that something is wrong. People change and they are suppose to. It is called growing up. Clearly somewhere in your mind you made a choice and the "little ego" part of you isn't comfortable with it. So it is normal to wonder where "you" went but no worries because soon enough the "little ego" will fade away and the now you will find happiness and contentment in your life without being stressed about it. Congrats!!Health Question & Answer

You need to be yourself. Figure out who you are and what makes you happy. If you are happy with yourself then other people will be attracted to you.

There's nothing worse than a fake person. Who would want a carbon copy as a friend.?

It's our differences that make us special.

Honestly, I couldn't understand your question b/c your content is scattered - you seem to be merging sentences or something.Health Question & Answer

Just be yourself. Health Question & Answer

what is the new you.? how are you acting up.? sounds like you're not comfortable with who you are... would probably help if you had focus in your life, like a job that you found rewarding, or if you were earning money towards a goal...
Maybe you're not ready for a relationship... maybe you're finding it confining so you end up acting silly...

It's all about respect. You have to respect people in life so they respect you. If you're not giving your girlfriend respect, think about why that is.

Respect may not mean much to you right now, but believe me, one day it will... like from your employer, spouse, friends, even strangers...Health Question & Answer

This is a tricky one to answer, but never act up because its false it is doomed not to work, in life you must face up to your true self, be open in situations, just learn the hard way, like i have.

Care about life, other people infact everything, be strong so you face all situations head on, learn to be responsable for your future path in life, live each and every day, as though it is your last. Good Luck xxHealth Question & Answer



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