Am I depressed or is it all in my head?!


Question: Am I depressed or is it all in my head.?
Everyday...I wake up and go to school...there is always that sudden urge for me to give up and just slack off here at home...

This is because I am just not comfortable on how I go to school...its like I feel that I'm treated badly, treated differently, and moves away from me...for unknown reasons...I found some friends (or are they real friends.?.?.?), they just told me it was all in my head...but I thought that everytime I confess to them about my problems...I notice that they are always fed up of me...which is kind of embarrasing...:(

I want to confess to my parents and family...but i can't seem to...my problem is: NO ONE UNDERSTANDS, EVEN IF SOMEONE WANTS TO UNDERSTAND, THEY DON'T LISTEN, IF SOMEONE LISTENS, THEY JUST MAKE FUN OF IT...

I get sick always...I dont know how to channel it...I want to write it..but I lose my ideas...I wanted to compose music...but I dont have a piano, my parents dont want to buy one...I wanted to do well on my academics...but some people become jealous and speak rubbish about me...

I want some help...I want to end my problems...I know my friend is ryt when he said I make my own problems because I wanted answers...

But my question is...I know its my problem, but if no one wants to even listen and help me...it builds up inside of me...affecting me physically, mentally and socially...what should I do.?.?.? How would i channel this emotion.?.?.? I really feel giving up...

Please Help...Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Look who ever you are, i have the best way to get rid of this.
before i was like you, well lets just say a loner. (not that i am calling you a loner)
now if you follow this you will see some change.
there is this movie called "the secret" you seen it. well if you've not then let me tell you:
it says that your thoughts attract other things, for example you got a bad mark and you started thinking bad mark, bad mark, then the world will listen and next time will give you bad marks. now if you got 33%, then think better than 0%, better than 0%, and you'll see that next time you will get better.
now for your depretion, if someone teases you, forget it, and start listening to music or think about some good joke you heard, what works really well is to read a book like (Brisingr).
and the more happy you feel from inside the better it gets, and soon you will have loads of friends.
if it works then be happy and you may send me a message at pulkitdabest@yahoo.com (obvious)Health Question & Answer

you might do. i would suggest you go speak to a counsellor or doctor or someone who is trained to understand you and give you help and advice that is constructive. people around you like family and friends don't always understand just how bad things are or how to deal with these sorts of issues. don't just let it go, you want to tackle the problem before it gets out of hand.

good luck :)Health Question & Answer

love yourself. :)Health Question & Answer

If you are depressed one way to get out of it is to join a group of people in a field you like. If you say like music, than mix with people who also like music, or if you are sports minded, why not join a team or play a sport to help lose those built up pressures inside you. By doing something you enjoy with others, it helps to ease your problems & you can also make some friends at the same time !Health Question & Answer

This is like listening to myself a few months ago.Your feeling of discomfort and wanting to give up is very familiar to me.I used to think no one really liked me,that I'm not good enough and all my friends started ignoring me when I talked about my problems for the millionth time.
The thing is,no matter how good your friends are,they do get fed up with your bursts of emotions because they keep telling you it's all in your head in order to help you but you just can't quite believe them.That's when they start thinking there's no point in comforting you so much any more because you don't listen.I used to do that.I would shut everyone out and sit in my room alone thinking if I'm a bad person.
What I eventually found out is that if you process your problems a bit and start thinking that with every bad comes a good you will start developing a different,more optimistic view on life.Of course,this will take some time because it's not easy to confront your problems and decide that they won't bother you anymore.In time you'll learn to raise your head up high and you won't let those feelings of despair put you down.When you do that you'll see that much more people will aproach you and you'll be much happier with yourself.
Just remember that you are the one that's most important to yourself and that you shouldn't build your character based on the opinions of others.People can sometimes be mean but the fact is that we're all basically the same and those who are mean just do it to cover up their own insecurity.Be fair to everyone and treat them as you would like to be treated and it will get back to you as it has for me.
It's normal that sometimes a crisis will come up and you'll feel a bit miserable.It happens to me too from time to time,but it is much more rare than before.There's a latin saying that goes Post nubilam phoebus which means after the clouds comes the sun.And that is true,good things do happen after the bad and that's what keeps life in balance.And those few clouds AREN'T worth you giving up.
Don't forget that no one is worth your tears.And those who are won't make you cry.Good luck!Health Question & Answer



The consumer health information on youqa.cn is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2012 YouQA.cn -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Q&A Resources