I hate my life.................?!

well you have admitted the fact that you don't like your life, so now you have to break it down day by day, look at what you don't like about it, and change it, see your life as a picture, the canvas represents your family or loved ones, then the rest is up to you...you can put in the picture what you want, then try to make it a reality, firstly, I would ask my friends or teachers etc, what they would put in their picture. give it a go

sometimes we have to go through life, experiencing nice things, & then the difficult things, and it can feel as though we are wading through treacle at times (struggling, and getting nowhere fast), this is apart of life... if life was easy.. it would be called easy...

change what it is you don't like, and by that i don't mean scrap everything that annoys you... what i mean is.. look at how YOU can do things differently.. trying to change things to my own desire.. can lead to frustration, adjust yourself to what is, change your picture of you, realise that you can.Health Question & Answer

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I got a suggestion, go volunteer at a soup kitchen. You'll realize your life isn't that bad. Or how bad it could be. Life is hard. Struggles produce perseverance, perseverance produces character, character produces faith, and faith produces hope. When all this is over with you'll realize that it only made you stronger for the next challenge, because they don't end.

And as far as your child's father, let me apologize for my brothers. Some of us are ignorant and childish. We want to do us and not worry about everyone else. Besides if he ever wants to make anything out of himself he'll owe a crap load of back support.Health Question & Answer

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think about all the ugly people there are, and compare how beautiful you are to them.
Think how there are people who shelter themselves in a garbage can(Those big ones, forget there names) And how you're in a warm cozy bed.
Think about how many people care about you and how many people there are in prisons who don't have anyone.


But I don't know what your main problem is which makes you hate your life.Health Question & Answer

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OMG! There are SO MANY THINGS! First, and most important, you need to keep yourself BUSY. Either join a club, take a class, volunteer, get a job or find SOMETHING that you are forced to do, at a certain time, preferably every day. Then get a hobby. Either something physical ... or creative ... something FUN! Tell yourself, every Monday (the day that you're not doing above) I'm going to ... paint a picture, roller blade around the block, whatever! also, listening to happy music really helps to boost your mood. Keep your favorite radio station on, as much as possible. I hope these ideas help. I hate to hear you say you hate your life. Things WILL get better, you just need to help things along. Take Care! <3 P.S. If it would help you to talk this out ... ask your Guidance Couselor at school if there is a Social Worker you can talk to. Maybe talking about your problems, would help. <3Health Question & Answer

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Change the things you don't like. (may be easier said than done say if you are a minor and mostly under the contro of your parents) in that case change the things you can and have heart knowing that one day you will have complete control over everything in your life. Then set goals to accomplish that more quickly.Health Question & Answer

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Begin by thinking positively. Instead of focusing on all the things that seem to be going wrong, focus on all the good. For example your good friends and family. What I do when i'm upset is go SHOPPING haha it always makes me feel better, but if your on a budget and have a dog, lay down, relax and watch a movie with it...dogs always make people feel better for some reason lol. What could also help is have a girls night out with your chick-friends. If your having trouble with friends try going out with someone in your family that your close with.

Hope I could help, and hope you feel better!

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Sweetheart you ended your notes with I've tried. You listed everything on their but forgot the most important thing. The Main Ingredient. Jesus Christ. Have you tried him.? Have you opened up to him and asked him to forgive you of your sins and repent.? Have you talked to him and walked in faith, but not by sight.? Have you committed yourself to the Lord who loves you more than any other human being will.? You are of God and not of the World, so that means that what you are of Loves you and will be there for you and what you are not of which is the world wants to see you fail and give up. The Enemy(Satan) wants you to feel unloved, unappreciated, not wanted and can't do anything so that you will destroy yourself. I don't want to see that happen. Think about your daughter. She is counting on you. You are a strong mother who has alot going for her but you just need some motivation. If you need a friend I am here for you and will be more than happy to mentor you and show you the great things that God will do in your life if you put your trust and faith into him. This is what he wants. Sometimes he takes us through the trenches so that we can see for ourselves that we can not do it without him. This is a blessing from the Lord who loves unconditionally. Don't give up. Fight off the Enemy and tell him he almost had you but it won't happen and commit your self to Jesus Christ and live a happy and joyful life. Trust me it will happen. The road will not always be smooth but if you know God has got your back and you are united with one you will be unstoppable. God Bless. Let me know if you need anything. There is a great man that I know and would like for you to meet. His name is Jesus Christ. Our Lord and Savior for Eternity.Health Question & Answer

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To make yourself happy, you need to first find out your true identity. When I mean find your true identity, I mean you need to find out your interest, what you like to spend time doing, and possibly even find friends that you can relate to. I use to have this problem to and it doesn't get any better until you find out what you like to do and how you define yourself. Hope this helps!!Health Question & Answer

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It depends on the reason why you hate your life hun. you need to do things that make your life interesting or possibly find someone to be with that makes you happy. i hated my life till i meet my girlfriend and now i love it. she makes me happy and maybe you need someone like that.

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take some "me time"
recently ive been going to this pond about a mile from my house, just to be alone and think..and its really refreshing.
start writing if you dont already-get those feelings out, and it really works.
also, find some good people to surround yourself with.having a good friend can really make a difference.
i hope this helps!Health Question & Answer

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First of all if your avatar picture is really you I'd say you're very pretty. Of course, looks don't always equal happiness. For me, I had to seek God and become a Christian to find true happiness. Everything else fell into place once I became a Christian and started reading my Bible. Try it...it certainly can't hurt. God loves you and will never leave you.Health Question & Answer

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Ok. well first have a positive attitude. i kno that sounds stupid. but its true. if your positive about yourself you'll feel a lot better. also, try doing something u've never tried.itll make u feel like u have something to improve. also, if u keep yourself busy all the time. u dont have to think about being depressed. just remember to be positive about lifeand be thankful for wut u have! hope this helped!!!
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be thanks ful for what u have. life is so fragile it can be taken away just as easiely as it was givin. do u have fresh water whenever u need it .? do u have food on the table. think of things u like. like hobbies and such. and if u don't have a hobby GET ONE.

hope i help and feel betterHealth Question & Answer

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What is the problem that causes you to be unhappy.? I can't tell you how to be happy if I don't know the problem. Perhaps you can pray about it, and believe Jesus will help you. Other than that, I can't give you the right advice without knowing the problem. Sorry.Health Question & Answer

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Girl you are too young to have such thoughts I think you should be more outgoing with friends and go out and forget about any family problem we all have our problems but we should be happy and living our lives just listen to music, dance, jump, sing! be exited so don't be down be happy!Health Question & Answer

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Stay busy, exercise, do hobbies, volunteer at a nursing home, take college courses. The community college here even has classes for high school students.

Going to Prayer and going to church makes me happier.

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I like to make rude signs out of metal and bury them in the sand on a beach where people are known to comb it with metal detectors :)

Alternatively search youtube for "Neg's urban sports" and "Annoying Devil"Health Question & Answer

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i dont know how religous you are but pray. maybe a therapist. but really you have to be able to appreicate and make the most of what you do have. being satisfied will help. are there specific problems going on.?
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dont be sad, ive even gone to the extent of running away and killing myself cuz i hated my life. Just be happy, u know things will get better. Sadness and Sorrow gets u know were.Health Question & Answer

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Why do you hate your life.?
Find the simple things that make you happy like a starry night. I sometimes wished I could kill myself, but life is better than you think . Health Question & Answer

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find something you love to do and do it do it do it! also see a therapist, they will help you and make you be happier.Health Question & Answer

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do something you enjoy. i don't like my life either but hang ot with your friend, date someone or have a pet that would cheer you up at all times.... find better friends who would help you till the endHealth Question & Answer

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Write *67 and then someones phone number and the person you called phone will say private call and you could prank call your friends.Health Question & Answer

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myspace :DD
instrument :D
anything i dont hate your life :DHealth Question & Answer

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first find out why your so unhappy,then thank god your alive,and healthy,you look beautiful too,try and get involved in something you enjoy,keep us posted,Health Question & Answer

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Exercise more eat right and make sure that you don't have any physical reasons why you feel bad.Health Question & Answer

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Just think about the positive things in life, or get a boyfriend go out with your friends.Health Question & Answer

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Maybe you're depressed.? Find a website about depression and see if any of the symptoms fit you. Health Question & Answer

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It would help if you provided some information as to why you hate your life.Health Question & Answer

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Disneyland Happiest Place on Earth

At least that helps me when I'm down not matter how far I have to get there.Health Question & Answer

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think of all the good things that happened in your life and get a day of your self like a spa day Health Question & Answer

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