Whats wrong with me people?!?!
Question: Whats wrong with me people.?!.?
I dont know why im like this. and i dont know why im writing to yahoo about it but i feel like you guys are the only people i want to open up to at the moment.
I dont know where to start, my ex boyfriend has just died and gran has been diagnosed with cancer. I've moved away from all my family and friends for uni and just feel at my lowest. Ive never had this deep feeling in my gut before. Im fed up of putting on a brave face and just want to scream to the world. Laughing it off is being near impossible. I feel so stupid. theres nothing to make me feel like this every day but those two main events are hanging in my life. When i eat, i wish i hadnt and sometimes force myself to be sick. Im a complete mess. Im giving up. =[Health Question & Answer
I dont know where to start, my ex boyfriend has just died and gran has been diagnosed with cancer. I've moved away from all my family and friends for uni and just feel at my lowest. Ive never had this deep feeling in my gut before. Im fed up of putting on a brave face and just want to scream to the world. Laughing it off is being near impossible. I feel so stupid. theres nothing to make me feel like this every day but those two main events are hanging in my life. When i eat, i wish i hadnt and sometimes force myself to be sick. Im a complete mess. Im giving up. =[Health Question & Answer
Answers:
darlin, you're opening it up to us because you don't know us, we're somewhat strangers to you and we wouldn't judge you or anything. If we really do, you wouldn't care less anyway.
You should tell someone about all this, get advice, talk to your family (sometimes it is quite hard, i have to admit) or talk to friends that you really trust. All you need is time, time to recover and heal, time for yourself and your thoughts to sort themselves out. Time to let your friends give you a good time, go do something that you're interested in, bring a few friends and enjoy yourself.
But most important of all, don't think negative thoughts, i know its hard sometimes cus trust me i've been through all this.
Eat right, sleep plenty, let time heal you, don't give up on faith, don't give up on hope, try and have the most positive attitude towards life because you know everything will be okay in the end. yes, it will. trust me.
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You should tell someone about all this, get advice, talk to your family (sometimes it is quite hard, i have to admit) or talk to friends that you really trust. All you need is time, time to recover and heal, time for yourself and your thoughts to sort themselves out. Time to let your friends give you a good time, go do something that you're interested in, bring a few friends and enjoy yourself.
But most important of all, don't think negative thoughts, i know its hard sometimes cus trust me i've been through all this.
Eat right, sleep plenty, let time heal you, don't give up on faith, don't give up on hope, try and have the most positive attitude towards life because you know everything will be okay in the end. yes, it will. trust me.
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Of course you would be sad and depressed.
I was like that too when my granpa passed away.
It felt lk the end of the world and i wanted to do nothing but i got over it as time passed.
Time is the cure.
It will be ok. If you want to let all the emotions out, you can talk to a person you feel very comfortable talking to or lk i did, buy a journal/diary. Sometimes paper is the best listener and they never disagree with ya.
Hope you will feel better soon.Health Question & Answer
I was like that too when my granpa passed away.
It felt lk the end of the world and i wanted to do nothing but i got over it as time passed.
Time is the cure.
It will be ok. If you want to let all the emotions out, you can talk to a person you feel very comfortable talking to or lk i did, buy a journal/diary. Sometimes paper is the best listener and they never disagree with ya.
Hope you will feel better soon.Health Question & Answer
Honey, please go and get help from a doctor. i know it sounds hard, but honestly it will help you. Therapy, anything. Trust me, you'll get seriously ill if you dont sort it out. I know how you feel, trust me. Last year my best friend ever died from lukeamia, and she was 15. I didnt let anyone notice i hadnt gotten over it, and it near killed me. Im over it now because i got help.
i'll pray for you every night.
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i'll pray for you every night.
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It's normal to feel grief after these loses. Allow yourself to grieve, don't try to pretend that things are ok. Find someone to talk to, even if it's just us. Sometimes it's easier to tell people on here how you feel, but if you can, find a real person that you can open up to. There are times that a hug can help a lot. Don't give up. God Bless you.Health Question & Answer
you're in depression. im really sorry about youre ex and your grandmother, try to talk to someone to help, friend, psychiatrist, anyone. depression does hurt and a lot of people go through it. i would speak to my doctor and see if theres anything he says to do, or if hes going to give you a prescription maybe for antidepressants.
with love,
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with love,
crystalHealth Question & Answer
oh no.
im soo sorry to hear all of this xx
hold on.!
is there anyone you can turn to...best friend maybe or boyfriend.
talkto them...cuddle up in their arms....tell them how your feelin
your obvs gettin upset by everythin thats happend...thats a lot to handle.
talkin to someone will help a lot and havin someone to run to is great to :)
in the mean time maybe talkin to a counsllor bout the bulimia thing
you will get through this...talkin is best way :)
yahoo answers and people like me are always here to :)
xx
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im soo sorry to hear all of this xx
hold on.!
is there anyone you can turn to...best friend maybe or boyfriend.
talkto them...cuddle up in their arms....tell them how your feelin
your obvs gettin upset by everythin thats happend...thats a lot to handle.
talkin to someone will help a lot and havin someone to run to is great to :)
in the mean time maybe talkin to a counsllor bout the bulimia thing
you will get through this...talkin is best way :)
yahoo answers and people like me are always here to :)
xx
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I'm sorry. Listen, everyone's talking about the grief of your boyfriend and gran but no one noticed that you have an eating disorder! Being Bolimic CANNOT solve anything just make it worse. Please see a doctor or tharapist or support group about all this. Good Luck and your in my prayers!Health Question & Answer
Find a place where nobody is around for miles and let it out! Scream at the highest pitch and loudest volume for as long as you can and when you stop cry for as long as you will! That is what you need to do. Health Question & Answer
I am so sorry. I hope things turn out ok. You're one of those people who really deserves it. Not just those people who complain about their lives all the time with no cause. I wish you luck. Health Question & Answer
The best thing to do is curl up with someone who loves you can cry your heart out!Health Question & Answer
Life's struggles aren't easy and you've just entered a new phase and you haven't had time to develop any close friendships yet. Death comes to everyone, but it's hardest when you are facing big changes in your life. What you are going through is normal. Go ahead and mourn and look around you for new friends. Going away to college may be lonely at first, but for most it becomes one of the greatest adventures of your life if you get involved in it. Don't hide from problems. Talk to the school counselor and stay in contact with your gran. Cancer isn't necessarily terminal. she may recover and be her old self again and she would want you to make the most of your life. Make her proud of what you accomplish and it'll give her more strength to be there for your graduation. God bless you.Health Question & Answer
There's nothing stupid with how you're feeling at all, but I can tell ya now, giving up ain't what you wanna do.
I know this is gonna sound a bit strange, but it works for me when I'm feeling really down about something like this. Its kinda like an indirect self-realisation.
What I want you to is to think carefully of who else would be affected by these events, someone in the same position as you right now. Even if its just dealing with one of the things at a time. Try to think of someone who might be taking one particular event a little harder than you might.
You should go and talk to these people, try and make them feel better and comfort them. Sounds weird, but believe me, it will make you feel better talking it out with somebody, helping them will be indirectly helping you. Its focussing away from yourself and this getting your mind off it and helping other people through it will make you feel stronger.
And here's the extra bonus, if you feel that its getting to be too much, its these people that will be back to comfort you.Health Question & Answer
I know this is gonna sound a bit strange, but it works for me when I'm feeling really down about something like this. Its kinda like an indirect self-realisation.
What I want you to is to think carefully of who else would be affected by these events, someone in the same position as you right now. Even if its just dealing with one of the things at a time. Try to think of someone who might be taking one particular event a little harder than you might.
You should go and talk to these people, try and make them feel better and comfort them. Sounds weird, but believe me, it will make you feel better talking it out with somebody, helping them will be indirectly helping you. Its focussing away from yourself and this getting your mind off it and helping other people through it will make you feel stronger.
And here's the extra bonus, if you feel that its getting to be too much, its these people that will be back to comfort you.Health Question & Answer
hey, you should feel lucky. all i feel is neutral. like theres nothing. no point to being here no point in anything and its depressing. people dieing all around me and i dont get upset i just go meh it happens. why couldnt it have been me.? .. so feel lucky. bf's will come and go, understand that. cancer can be prolonged and with the technology these days i guarantee they'll have a cancer soon . but in the meantime its kemo therapy and it'll help her alot. i would ask your principle about a possible transer to a closer uni to home. sometimes this is not possible i must warn though. the deep feeling in your gut it your bodies way of telling you .. you need help. you need to talk to someone a doctor, friend, or parent. so give it a try, be sure to remind them of your love for them. Dont give up. life goes on and if it cant get worse, it has to get better. right.? good luck, keep us updated. mattHealth Question & Answer