Help Me!! I'm overly-sensitive?!
Question: Help Me!! I'm overly-sensitive.?
Whenever people say the slightest remarks or even look me in the wrong way...I take it as an attack and gets all defensive about it. I know this is all in my head.
How can I change the way of how I think.? I do not like being like this. Health Question & Answer
How can I change the way of how I think.? I do not like being like this. Health Question & Answer
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Aww archy... Do you feel more sad or mad about this.? What I usually do is start exercising or punch a punching bag. Watch funny things.. If someone makes a nasty remark, laugh at it. Make it into a joke or something. Or if someone looks at you in the wrong way, smile at them or wink.. it's like saying to them "F*ck you, I love myself." Whats your hobby.? Do you like drawing, painting or taking photography pictures, or a sport.? Do those when you are feeling down. There are people out there who are going through the same exact thing as you... *wink wink* Don't let ANYONE make you think different about yourself. Just laugh at life, and be you're wonderful self. Tons of people love you! And if anything else is bothering you, you always have us on Yahoo! Answers.. :) lol
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i have to go through that every day. i get nasty remarks about my style or about my personality. they all look at me like im some freak. what i do is think that all life has value & how wonderful i am. think about all the positive things about yourself. those people obviously have problems and try to bring people down to their level. make a snarky remark back at them or give them a dirty look. blast sum music and get the anger (or) sadness out. write a poem or song about how you feel. write a mean letter to the person who made u feel bad and do you have any pets.? do you know pets make you overcome these problems.? mainly dogs. people suck sometimes. just be yourself... good luck.Health Question & Answer
Your cancer moon huh .? and the defensive part is Mars square Pluto...
But you already knew..
Anyway , loosen up a bit Arch, not everyone is out there to be against you. This is more about self-conciousness. When the people who truely care for you and whom you care for give constructive but honest advice without bad intention, take it to advance yourself hey. And always remember though, not all the nice remarks are of good intentions hey . They can be lies , or aact as distractions so you stray aaway from your own path , at the end, they would reach the goal that you have set out to reach first.
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But you already knew..
Anyway , loosen up a bit Arch, not everyone is out there to be against you. This is more about self-conciousness. When the people who truely care for you and whom you care for give constructive but honest advice without bad intention, take it to advance yourself hey. And always remember though, not all the nice remarks are of good intentions hey . They can be lies , or aact as distractions so you stray aaway from your own path , at the end, they would reach the goal that you have set out to reach first.
Relax ok .? Be your own lovely self Health Question & Answer
i used to be like that too but then i just got it in my head to just take it in one ear take it out the other b/c most of the time people are just kidding. i tried not to take anything seriously. and now im hardly sensitive at all.
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It's going to be OK but perhaps you should visit with a professional counselor to gain some life tips to help you deal with situations like that. Health Question & Answer