How can I become more "mature"?!
Question: How can I become more "mature".?
My boyfriend is REALLY immature. He's 19 and just gets along with his 15 year old brother way too well. I know that may seem like a good thing. But it really gets on my nerves. He is the one annoying his LITTLE brother--ALL the time. They hang out and he hangs out with his brothers friends. When I was 15 and my sister was 19. She was always being annoyed by ME. It just doesn't make any sense. He's just really... I guess you could say goofy and over the top sometimes. I'm not sure how to put it.
Then he and my best friend and family call me immature because I have ADHD and forget a lot of things and am really clumsy. It's hard for me to focus a lot and I am sick of being called immature and blamed for everything.
How can I fix this.? Because talking to them evidently doesn't help.Health Question & Answer
Then he and my best friend and family call me immature because I have ADHD and forget a lot of things and am really clumsy. It's hard for me to focus a lot and I am sick of being called immature and blamed for everything.
How can I fix this.? Because talking to them evidently doesn't help.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Hate to tell you but that boyfriend needs to go-he needs maturity-you don't-you need help-which he can't offer. He is bringing you down and you will have a difficult time getting over your other problems with someone like him in your life.
Be strong lose him and work on yourself.Health Question & Answer
Be strong lose him and work on yourself.Health Question & Answer
Get rid of the boyfriend and start working on yourself. There are ADHD meds that do not decrease appetite, talk to your doctor about this. Then FOCUS on taking responsibility for yourself and your choices, and get some help with your depression. Maturity usually involves making hard decisions and forcing yourself to do the right thing. Go make an appointment with your doctor, ASAPHealth Question & Answer
Think before you talk..... That will make a big difference. If you think about what you are going to say instead of just blurting things out then you will come across as more mature.Health Question & Answer