How do I deal with the after shock of meeting and departing from the person of my dreams?!
Question: How do I deal with the after shock of meeting and departing from the person of my dreams.?
I recently had a short term "fling" with someone that I was VERY attracted to. Even though I am very attracted to this person our lives are so different and the person is quite a bit older also, the situation didn't seem healthy or like it would really ever be anything but physical so I cut it off.
I am now in day two or three of telling this person we shouldn't be around each other anymore and I'm having trouble with it. How do I deal with the feelings.? Everyday seems to get a little easier, but it really sucks. Anyone have any advice.? ( PS, I think I was starting to fall in love...but I knew the feelings wouldn't be reciprocated)Health Question & Answer
I am now in day two or three of telling this person we shouldn't be around each other anymore and I'm having trouble with it. How do I deal with the feelings.? Everyday seems to get a little easier, but it really sucks. Anyone have any advice.? ( PS, I think I was starting to fall in love...but I knew the feelings wouldn't be reciprocated)Health Question & Answer
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you weren't falling in love. you were falling in lust. you're just infatuated right now and it sucks but you will get through it eventually if you just keep away from her. did you know that when you are around someone you are attracted to, your brain actually releases chemicals that are very addictive. when you are away from this person you actually go through withdrawals and it sucks bigtime. the best thing to do is keep AWAY! keep yourself busy. workout, that's probably the best thing.Health Question & Answer
Just the fact your posting this question tells you your true feelings. I would call him back and apologize and ask him to date.
Life is too short to play games like this. And life has taught me that you NEVER know who will reciprocate your love, regardless of age.
Go for it. Whats the worst that could happen....nothing worse then what you dont have now.Health Question & Answer
Life is too short to play games like this. And life has taught me that you NEVER know who will reciprocate your love, regardless of age.
Go for it. Whats the worst that could happen....nothing worse then what you dont have now.Health Question & Answer
You should talk to the person and get everything out thats been going on inside your head. Then you wont regret not saying what you needed to, it will help later on.Health Question & Answer
Why not just go with it.?Health Question & Answer
You're doing the right thing to break it off.
From my experience, if you are around this person even as"friends" or go back to them, life will be more miserable.
One thing to help is to write down or tell a friend all the ways this person did or would mistreat you and why the relationship is so unsuitable.
you can do some symbolic things like having a friend use imaginary scissors and go around you cutting all the ties to the unsuitable person.
As a last resort, in the lonely night, write the person's name on disposable paper and dispose of it.
Okay, to be nice, you might have an "ending the relationship" ceremony with the unsuitable person.
God blessHealth Question & Answer
From my experience, if you are around this person even as"friends" or go back to them, life will be more miserable.
One thing to help is to write down or tell a friend all the ways this person did or would mistreat you and why the relationship is so unsuitable.
you can do some symbolic things like having a friend use imaginary scissors and go around you cutting all the ties to the unsuitable person.
As a last resort, in the lonely night, write the person's name on disposable paper and dispose of it.
Okay, to be nice, you might have an "ending the relationship" ceremony with the unsuitable person.
God blessHealth Question & Answer
When i was 17 i was dating a 24 year old, we both lived in Cincinnati but he had to move to Seattle shortly after we started dating. He ended things with me, but he wasn't kind about it. He was my first love..and my first..well you know. That was something very special to me. Once he moved he never called, his texts slowed down, and it got to the point where he didn't talk to me at all. I don't know exactly what to tell you...but please be gentle with this person and don't make this person have to go through what I did. Don't mess with their mind or lead them on..be honest and do it as soon as possible, not slowly over time.Health Question & Answer