Talk my parents into getting me into couseling ?!


Question: Talk my parents into getting me into couseling .?
ive thought about it and i need it but im only 15 so i need their permission and insurance haha , needless to say my mother would be the most apposed to this because shes an ice queen who thinks that theirs no such problem that couldnt be solved by a parent . help .?Health Question & Answer


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My father was much the same as your mother, I realize now, years later It was him that was needing counseling......Old S**t
Trust your instincts!!
There's loads of help on the net, and that's where I find all the help I need and it doesn't cost a penny!!
Try looking up Codependency, Its very interesting xxHealth Question & Answer

I think you can be frank and feel free with your parents at least, who are your closest. If any other elderly person is there in the family like grandmother, etc. you can divulge and seek their help. There must be some reason when your mother confidently says that there is no such problem that could not be solved by parent. It is true, if your parents are good and really intelligent and mature enough.

You can also try to make a genuine self-analysis about this issue thoroughly with all your background and see whether the problem can be solved by changing your life style, your habits, your traits and mind set. Health Question & Answer

I have been in your situation before and it is very hard to cope with. But what I can recommend is that you talk to your school nurse or counselor, or even a teacher you trust. I know that sounds like an after school special kind of answer, but if you feel you can't talk to your parents, then talk to someone else you can trust. Plus, your nurse should be able to help evaluate you. And maybe if another adult helps you talk to your parents, it will be better. Or, here's another thought, if you have a general family doctor and if you can see him or her, they can help you too.
Just remember to be truthful... no one can help you if you hide some of your thoughts and feelings. A lot of people get counseling and nurses and doctors have heard every situation... there is nothing to be bashful or embarrassed about.
Schools have to deal with this more than most people think and there are people trained to help students.
I hope this helps somewhat or is at least a little comforting. Good luck and I truly hope things work out for the best.Health Question & Answer

Give it a try, really sit own and talk to your mom. Explain calmly, and maturely why you think this will help your life.

I've been through what your going thru.

good luck.Health Question & Answer



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