My ex boyfriend was an abusive prick- mentally and physically and he molested his two girl daughters (5 and 8)?!
Question: My ex boyfriend was an abusive prick- mentally and physically and he molested his two girl daughters (5 and 8).?
I didnt know this of course while i was dating him, but i slowly figured out that he was molesting his daughter and i was shocked. I was watching opera the other day and I saw a show about how these two wives pressed charges of rape and assalt against their husbands and their stories sounded similar to mine. I didnt know that I was rapped until I saw the opera show. My ex has done so much damage to me that i cant trust my current boyfriend. i knew my ex for two years and he was a major part of my life and I have been dating my new boyfriend for almost a month and I feel that I am treating him unfairly. Me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 months and I still cry almost every night just because he never cared about me and he tricked me for so long and I HAD SEX WITH A CHILD MOLESTER AND I LOVED A CHILD MOLESTER. I dont know how to cope with this **** and have healthy relatonships. Health Question & Answer
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Wow he really is a disturbed man. I can sympathise partly with you, my ex abused me mentally and pyhscially every day. You have to understand that it is not your fault. He tricked you everyday into believing he was something different. Please don't blame yourself.
I do hope he has gone to jail for what he did to you and his childrena dn that he is rotting there. If he hasn't, please I urge you to go to the police. A man like that shouldn't be allowed to live a normal life.
As for your relationships now, its hard. Trust me, but if you care for this guy it will work through.
I lost a couple of guys because I told them what had happened to me and they freaked out. Frankly they weren't worth the effort if they cannot bare to deal with someone that happened to me. Now I'm with the most supportive and upstanding guy. He's put up with all my ****, and I know he'll be around forever. Have you told this guy.? If you feel comfortable, do it. He may or may not understand. If he doesnt than you've saved yourself some heartache further down the line, if he does well then you've found a great guy. And it will help him to to understand why you are the way you are.
Please don't blame yourself hun! And if you need to rant or chat, message me. Good luck :)Health Question & Answer
I do hope he has gone to jail for what he did to you and his childrena dn that he is rotting there. If he hasn't, please I urge you to go to the police. A man like that shouldn't be allowed to live a normal life.
As for your relationships now, its hard. Trust me, but if you care for this guy it will work through.
I lost a couple of guys because I told them what had happened to me and they freaked out. Frankly they weren't worth the effort if they cannot bare to deal with someone that happened to me. Now I'm with the most supportive and upstanding guy. He's put up with all my ****, and I know he'll be around forever. Have you told this guy.? If you feel comfortable, do it. He may or may not understand. If he doesnt than you've saved yourself some heartache further down the line, if he does well then you've found a great guy. And it will help him to to understand why you are the way you are.
Please don't blame yourself hun! And if you need to rant or chat, message me. Good luck :)Health Question & Answer
Wow. You definitely need real therapy from a professional to deal with something as horrible as that. See your local rape crisis center so they can help you sort out what you should do, and what resources are available.
If the abuse of his daughters is ongoing, you have to report it, of course. The psychological burden you will bear is worse and harder to deal with than any problem that may be blocking you from taking action.
It's not a matter of dealing with his abuse of you OR dealing with his abuse of daughters. Both are linked, you are suffering from both.Health Question & Answer
If the abuse of his daughters is ongoing, you have to report it, of course. The psychological burden you will bear is worse and harder to deal with than any problem that may be blocking you from taking action.
It's not a matter of dealing with his abuse of you OR dealing with his abuse of daughters. Both are linked, you are suffering from both.Health Question & Answer
Please don't blame yourself. You need to get into counselling and talk to your current boyfriend about why you're having issues so that he can understand and help.Health Question & Answer
huney, you need to get some counciling,,,,,it will help you move forward in your future relationships,,,
remember ,,he tricked you, its not your fault xHealth Question & Answer
remember ,,he tricked you, its not your fault xHealth Question & Answer
He is cruel and thoughtless criminal..do not associate with a criminal or you may be accused of conniving.Health Question & Answer
Wow that is pretty disturbing....what a scum bag. You have to understand that you are perfectly normal and that his actions had nothing to do with you...he is a nut case and I really hope you reported him to the police because that is just disgusting. He deceived others into thinking he cared for his daughters like he did with you. He never cared about you because He's mental....don't dwell on that, the good thing is you found out before you conceived with that piece of ****.Health Question & Answer