I think I may be falling into depression again .. help? . .?!


Question: I think I may be falling into depression again .. help.? . ..?
Ok. . so, lately I have been feeling very down, I think I may be becoming depressed again. .
I used to be really really depressed. .
I don't want it to come back.
I am only 14. .
I think I have a clue why. .
You'd laugh. . but I think it's because my boyfriend is very unhappy. .. it makes me worried & @ the same time, I am falling back in love with someone. .
Is this normal.?
What can I do.?
Thanx, everyone. .. Health Question & Answer


Answers:
hmm... i know what you are talking about... same thing happened to me
i got through it eventually
if your boyfriend is unhappy and it is causing you to be unhappy, try and make him happy im sure it would work
try and keep your close friends close
if your boyfriend is unhappy, seeing you depressed will probably tear him apart
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I feel the exact same way all the time... minus the boy friend thing...
I'd talk to someone about it. Boy friends are perfect for that. But before you talk to him about that, I'd ask him personally about the unhappiness. Let him know everything that's going on, the insecurity and worry for him... He'll hopefully let you know what's going on with him...
And if he's a good boy friend, he'll resolve your insecurity problems as well. He should brag about your beauty to the gods!
I just stopped caring what people thought, laughed along with them at myself, and bottled everything up. I would not suggest doing this. Although it's a fix, it's an immediate fix. Once the heat of the day wears off and the sunshine from my friends leaves my side, I slip into the depression. Everyone has their own way of dealing with things like this, and it's up to you to try out a few methods.
Good luck, and stay happy.
ps: Beat the ever living sh!t out of your boy friend if he says anything at all bad about you! He's absurd! If he says anything bad, he doesn't know what he's talking about. =]Health Question & Answer

You're 14 years old and shouldn't have to face such feelings at such a young age. You need to get away from this boy if he is the root cause of your problems, no matter what the consequences may be. If you stay the way you are now, you'll be feeling this way for a VERY long time. And about feeling ugly and unattractive, of course you do, you're a teenager and most of them(although very rarely admitted) hate the way they look. You just need to relax and take things a little less personally and serious.Health Question & Answer

i know the feeling trust me. i say tell your bf what is going on with you. why is he vex, try to fgure that out first and talk to hm about it and if he really cares he'll try to understand and help you out (unlike my boyfriend-ex) and every time i go out i feel that exact same way so try to boost yourself up and give yourself some esteem. find people who you can talk to and understand you. find a friend who will help you out (like me if you want) and boost you that's what i did and i have improved alot now i'm @ur level no offenceHealth Question & Answer

thats something u need to fix, work with a therapist on. U have to do most of the work if u really want to change. U have to limit your time around negative people. You have to learn to be thankful develp an attitude of graditude. U must learn to love yourself.. U need to get that fixed or u will have health problems later on, i dont mean to scare u but i was once like u. If u cant afford a therapist get some good self help books and do the exercises it recommends. Health Question & Answer

Only Jesus can take your pain way, bring to you the happiness that no your boy and no your ex does GoodbyeHealth Question & Answer



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