How come when i got what i wanted i couldn't be happy?!
Question: How come when i got what i wanted i couldn't be happy.?
what i wanted for a long time was to be that girl that people love and want to be around. thats fun and cool. well with the one girl who intimidates me the most (she's everything i could never be) gone for days, i was able to be more myself, the fun me. and during that time i was exactly that. they wanted to be around me. i was what i wanted. so why is it that in the midst of all that i couldn't be happy.? all it did was make me very depressed. i should have been thrilled!
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Answers:
You were being yourself. It was the ego inside us that drive us mad. Ever wonder why alot of rich or millionaires are depressed.?.?.. Our ego always wants more and more and funyn thing is, it never ends, it just wants more to feed itself from something to achieve one day. The moment when you reach that goal you are probably be wuite happy temporarily then like what you said, it will flip things around after or in other words your mind is asking you, "is this it.?.?"
So just appreciate what you have, big or small, nothing much difference, they both the same - they are "FORMS". What you feel inside you, your life, your innerself, isnt really a part of form but your true nature, your very own beingness/spirit.
So when good or bad things will happen to you, always let it go, coz thats what forms does to us, they comes and goes. Nothing stays forever on this world and Acceptance is our great guidance to this. Acceptance of being the way we are, appreciate what we have got and mosst of all is to appreciate our life especially in the moment so called "Tough times".
Hope this helps for you and the inner you.
- KR
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So just appreciate what you have, big or small, nothing much difference, they both the same - they are "FORMS". What you feel inside you, your life, your innerself, isnt really a part of form but your true nature, your very own beingness/spirit.
So when good or bad things will happen to you, always let it go, coz thats what forms does to us, they comes and goes. Nothing stays forever on this world and Acceptance is our great guidance to this. Acceptance of being the way we are, appreciate what we have got and mosst of all is to appreciate our life especially in the moment so called "Tough times".
Hope this helps for you and the inner you.
- KR
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Sometimes we ask for the wrong thing. To get what we want some times we are willing to do what we would not normally do. And that makes us unhappy. Look to the inside of who you really want to be and go back to being that person. Be happy that you were able to wake up and ask this question. Be happy that you are alive and in good health. My wish for you is to be happyHealth Question & Answer
People often want what they want until they get it. Focus more on your own happiness and integrity and not on the other girl. Just be yourself!!!! She may think she wants to be more like you -- the point is, everyone is unique and has their own gifts to offer. Use yours, be yourself, be happy with yourself, and you'll be happier all around. Make sense.? :) Health Question & Answer
Because you weren't being true to yourself, you were conforming. People will love you and want to be with you if you are just yourself, not some fake, shallow, conformist.
Edit: Maybe you were unhappy because you friends loved you more when you were being fun and outgoing instead of loving you unconditionally like friends should.Health Question & Answer
Edit: Maybe you were unhappy because you friends loved you more when you were being fun and outgoing instead of loving you unconditionally like friends should.Health Question & Answer
Maybe it's because that's what you wanted, but it isn't really you. Think about the sort of person you are, and what you really want. It could even be the complete opposite of what you thought you wanted. =]Health Question & Answer
If I only had ... I would be happy: DOESN'T WORK, AT LEAST FOR LONG!!!
The topic of happiness is addressed in section 18, at http://www,ezy-build.net.nz/~shanerisHealth Question & Answer