Is it weird to prefer solitude?!


Question: Is it weird to prefer solitude.?
I would rather go out alone, i dont mind sitting in a restaurant by myself or shopping, hiking, and I dont wanna be in a relationship anymore. I have tried but I just couldnt give it a try again.Health Question & Answer


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I am like you. It has nothing to do with fear of being in a relationship. It is just that I am very comfortable by myself. It has nothing to do with not liking myself or others. I just like my own thoughts better. I actually pity people who always need to be in a relationship, who never really go it alone. They go from parents house, to roommates, to relationship and then maybe back to parents house (if relationship doesn't work) to start the process all over again. They never had anything of their own, 100% their own. It is a very liberating experience and once you experience it and you find you actually like yourself alot, u don't need someone always there to make u feel good about yourself. You can do that on your own and lonely doesn't really even factor into it. Health Question & Answer

You aren't weird unless I'm weird. Relationships are getting to know another person, being the uneasy stranger at someone's family gathering, being subjected to the eccentricities, smells and appetites of all the people connected to the other person. Being alone can be lonely at times but it can also be utterly glorious freedom. A comfortable friend can fill in the gaps w/o all the blah-yuck stuff. You aren't weird. Honestly, you aren't.Health Question & Answer

I am very extroverted and outgoing. I love being around people. But, I still make time for solitude every day. I think I might have to kill somebody if I were constantly around people ... even though I love people and being around them, that doesn't change the fact that many of them are ridiculous and sometimes you just need a break from the absurdity.

If you are naturally introverted ... then it would be perfectly normal for you to prefer solitude as much as I prefer being around people.

P.S. I love hiking alone too. I just take my dog and the whole time everything is quiet and peaceful and I can just think. Meanwhile my dog is having a blast smelling the whole forest. Health Question & Answer

Not for myself right now. I've been on disability for about 5 years now and it's a slow recovery. Being alone has been a big part of it. I go out to eat sometimes, but, rarely now because of food sensitivities and the cost. I have gone to the show alone during cheaper afternoons when there's hardly anyone there to annoy me. In my condition, there's no reason to bother with a relationship when I can hardly afford myself.

Even if I could, my health is far more important than a distraction like that. She would almost have to be a nurse. Hiking.? hell no. It's enough for me just to go shopping or for a one mile walk in one day. It sucks when you feel like you're dying and they won't even tell you. If only that was just a delusion.

It's quiet mostly now where I live with little to no drama with neighbors....for now. It's kinda annoying when it seems like some cashier girl is hitting on me.(as if) I just think, if only she knew what a loser I am, she wouldn't bother.

I also think that maybe they're a single mom just looking for some guy that works to help them pay the bills and take care of their kid.(so sad) I live on a fixed income and have doubts I'll be working again very soon either because of my low energy etc. (I know, too much weird boring information)Health Question & Answer

well if it is, I'm in the weird group with ya. I realize we are social creatures but I hate dealing with people. I've currently reinstated a relationship with an ex-girlfriend. When we dated back in the day she had 2 kids now 4 (#3 is questionable if mine). They are so predictable and complain about any and everything I introduce to them that's new or different to them (food, diet, culture). It's like that's not how you suppose to do things. Last night I slept in a men's one piece p.j. outfit. The oldest daughter responded and stated I'm not suppose to wear that 'you're too big".
summary point - when you're by yourself you don't hear those crappy, unsolicited responses.

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Baybee, you done got me started. I like sleeping alone. I like to stretch across the bed. Child #4 has just made 1 year old and for weird reason sleeps with us in the bed. Okay. You're probably going where I want you - right no hanky panky with a child in the bed. Heck, if I'm gonna give up my aloneness, let it be some kind of pay off.Health Question & Answer

HI and I don't think that there is anything wrong about being alone. But, you will have to face your fears sooner or later. Once you are comfortable with yourself, you will find a guy who is comfortable with you , too. I have done this and found wonderful guys and other friends , too. My best to you and I hope that you find what you want out of life! Peace out!Health Question & Answer

i hope not because i am the same wayHealth Question & Answer



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