When I tell someone "I'm in love with you" It means I'm in love with them for the rest of my life. Am I wrong?!


Question: When I tell someone "I'm in love with you" It means I'm in love with them for the rest of my life. Am I wrong.?
You don't fall in-and-out of love throughtout your life. True love is forever, for eternity. Love is not a feeling it's an action. You don't choose who you fall in love with, it happens naturally.

You may fall in-and-out of hate, happiness, boredom, etc just like you might be hungry one day and not the next. It has nothing to do with true love.

True love means you love the person unconditionally for the rest of your life no matter what. No matter how much they change. For example, even if my boyfriend lost all his limbs in a tragic accident and was reduced to a stump and lost 50% of his mental capacity...one could say that he has "changed" and therefor I have the "right" to "fall out of love".

But thats BS.

True love means you love the person for eternity. Too many people say "I'm in love with you" like patato chips or sardines. It's cheap.

What they really mean is I'm "in love with you" for 1 or 2 months while we shack up...but after we break up in 1 or 2 months they wouldnt pee on you if you were on fire.

That's NOT true love.

Love is for life, forever, for eternity. Am I wrong.?

That's why I've only said "I'm in love with you" twice in my life. The first person died, and now I have my second love.

True love is not a temporary feeling.

What are your thoughts...
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I agree with this 100% mainly the part about.. True love means you love the person for eternity. Too many people say "I'm in love with you" like patato chips or sardines. It's cheap.

What they really mean is I'm "in love with you" for 1 or 2 months while we shack up...but after we break up in 1 or 2 months they wouldnt pee on you if you were on fire.Health Question & Answer

What if that person changes, and they abuse you.? or anybody else. You can still say you love the person you fell in love with in the begin with, but do you have to love what they became.?Health Question & Answer

That may be, but there are still a few ways to kill Love. And, unless you want to get locked in a box, (which will really drive you insane), you might want to start looking outside of it.Health Question & Answer

I have been in what I thought was love. Then I met my husband and found the meaning of true-love. I think that no one is sure what love is until they have found the "one".Health Question & Answer

i don't agree but that's just my opinion i have been in love and the girl did not feel the same and over a period of time i got over it and can honestly say now that i dont love her any moreHealth Question & Answer

Totally agree with you. I just wish I had someone special to say "I love you" to!!! (Besides family) :(Health Question & Answer

After two marriages where the other party backed out, I am not sharing your feelings.

But I wish I could.Health Question & Answer

hmm wll i never feel in love like u say before so i wouldn't know haha but i think u do get to pic who u fall in love wif Health Question & Answer

i believe that but then i think it depends on the person, if their a good person or evilHealth Question & Answer

i believe the same. thats why love is such a b*tch.Health Question & Answer

When people are in the midst of feelings some find these feelings so deep they feel they are IN LOVE. And so they say it out loud to someone. In their hearts they are deeply in love and will do anything for theother person, but years down the line people can and will change drastically or not, and so can love.

Just because some people fall in love more often does not mean it is not as deeply felt as the most reserved of us who save admitting it out loud after months of pondering...

Love is not always for eternity, and if it is for some people then, that is great for them. Humans are different, the definitions of love will be different and LOVE will be different and CAN CHANGE or die.

True love is the deepness of the feeling in you at any point....not someones definition of what rules it should follow (hint hint).Health Question & Answer

My thoughts are that different people have different ideas about what it means to be in love with someone, and if you want to be sure they understand you, you should tell them what it means when you say it. Similarly, don't assume you know what they mean unless they tell you in really clear terms. When it comes to how you feel about each other and what kind of relationship you want to have, spell it out and ask them to as well. Do not assume.Health Question & Answer

No you are not wrong at all! In fact, more people should have the same outlook as you do. I totally agree with you. There are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your brother or sister...they may piss you off and there's probably tons of things you can't stand about them, but you will love them FOREVER no matter what. Same goes with being in love with someone romantically, you learn to accept their flaws and love them entirely, no matter what, forever. Infatuation gets confused for love way too much these days, especially with teenagers.Health Question & Answer

I totally agree with you but in this day, age, and society, love is one of the words that has lost meaning. A girl(especially) uses love in so many cases. " I love that purse," ;"I love that outfit."; "I love you." With all the celebrities going in and out of marriages and such people don't know what love really means anymore. Although, love isn't something that you can be like, "Yes, I am in love." It's one of those things that grows on you with time and slowly you realize your feelings for someone or something. That's why people can so easily fall "out of love" --because they don't give them selves enough time to fall "in love". Hunger and boredom are all trigger senses, meaning something else has to trigger it. Love is a true feeling. Health Question & Answer



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