Help.. Friends Depression?!


Question: Help.. Friends Depression.?
Ok Im going to write this fast because I just need Ideas

6Months ago one of my best friends committed suicide... And I missed the signs for it.... But looking back I can see them...

Now I came home from college to visit for the weekend and I'm seeing the signs I missed in my one friend In another friend....

I cant go to a psychiatrist and I cant tell his parents... but Idk what to do... Im afraid he might do the same thing

Signs im seeing are
Deep Depression
Vast increase in Smoking
Constantly pissed or angry at people
He also said at times he just feels like killing everyone he seesHealth Question & Answer


Answers:
my dad committed suicide too, and i found him. i am so sorry to hear of your loss. not too many people really understand the pain of suicide.

it is normal to go through a period of hyper-viligence, where you are going to look back and see every little nuance, and then zero in on what is happening now, and go from there.

it is possible that your friend may be so depressed that he is contemplating suicide. however, there are a lot of signs. does he talk hopelessly, like about death.? that's a tip-off.

you could have a heart-to-heart if possible. MOST people who are thinking of suicide just want an end to their pain, and they think that an end to their life is an end to their pain. what they really need is some love and anti-depressant medication.

i hope your friend thrives and gets well. take care of him. don't neglect yourself. you've been through a lot, dealing with the suicide of your other friend. don't forget that you're fragile now too. Health Question & Answer

and he might just do that too, despression is not something you want to play with, and you of all persons should know that now if it takes taking a day off from school to help him do that it might just save his life and other people, go tell his parents his teachers, and everyone else you see passing. just to get him some helpHealth Question & Answer

sounds like my best friend right now. but thats how he normally is :). i would say talk to the guy, i mean increase in smoking is normal after you start smoking. and there are a lot of dumb people that i get frequently pissed at... so that could be normal. but if you know hes deeply depressed try to bring him out of it. why is he depressed, low on cash (cant find a job).?, women problems, whatever, do what you can to bring the guy out of it.Health Question & Answer



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