Do I need help or get out more?!


Question: Do I need help or get out more.?
Ok, so I have been wondering for the past year if I need help.
On Facebook I take a glance at the people that I know.
There are kids who go to parties that do University (as in Canadian University) and still mange to do well.
Now, there are College kids who some go to parties also.

I don't go to parties because no one ever tells me of any.
Whenever I see anyone on Facebook with 700 + friends, I say to myself "I hope they never succeed"
Simply because I am jealous. But I just want to know if I am jealous or I need help. What do you guys think.?
Thanks a lotHealth Question & Answer


Answers:
First, those people with 700+ friends on Facebook, do you really believe they have that many "friends".? I do not. There are a lot of people who hunt for people to join their friends list. I receive request all the time from friends of friends of friends of mine... people that I do not even know. They probably have less of a life that you imagine.

Yes, you do probably need to get out more and make some real friends. There are a lot of open, public events on a university campus. Get involved and you will soon start getting invitations to parties.Health Question & Answer

you don't need help for your jealousy, you need to help yourself and become more outgoing. treat the cause not the symptom. as to how you do it that's up to you. just start doing crazy **** so people ask "who's that kid" or be friendly to the people who have the parties. but those are quick fixes. you simply need to work on your flaws , what's your personality like,and ask yourself what turns people away from me.?

join a club or something to meet people.also start thinking more positively , how you feel will reflect how people see you, smile more and be happy no-one wants to be around someone who's miserableHealth Question & Answer

Yeah, it's jealously.
Every week people I know on Facebook have been to another party and there are photos constantly being updated.

I have been to a few of those parties. You get stupidly drunk, act like a fool and wake up with a hangover. Maybe I am just getting older but I feel they are wasting their lives.

Ask people to invite you to a party and try it out for yourself.Health Question & Answer

people can still go to parties and do well at school. going to parties doesnt mean you have to get totally trashed either. take me all my friends call me a nerd because i do well get good marks... but still i go out with them on say saturday nights and sometimes fridays. there is still time to study in there.

still i dont think you need help maybe just go out with your friends sometime and if no one tells you just ask...most of the time thats how people find out about parties is by asking...

hope it all works outHealth Question & Answer

It sounds like you talk to the people around you a lot but never really have a friendship with them. I know this sounds weird, but maybe you should ask them to hang out some time. Then when you meet he/she you'll probably end up meeting one of their friends and have another friend, and so on.


Have a good day!Health Question & Answer

do you have no friends
or do you just have less friends
cause the answer depends
and do you go on your pc alot
cause if you have msn live or hotmail ill talk to you on there
(chris_molly_robert@hotmail.co.uk)Health Question & Answer

Well, seems to me like you have no life. You are more into the online "world" than you are into the real world. You need to stop getting online and make real friends. You need to get out. =]Health Question & Answer



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