I think i may be depressed, how can i tell my mom i want a physcologist?!


Question: I think i may be depressed, how can i tell my mom i want a physcologist.?
I have been having a really hard time lately, i have recently moved from a place i hated, but now im missing it so terribly and i want to run back to it and never leave again. I love where i am now, but i mean...i miss where i came from, i've burned my bridges with my best friend and now i want her back, recently i was thinking about running away to the farm i used to live on and stay there for a couple of days, by the help of her. But she wouldn't help me, i told her and one other friend i was going to kill myself because i was so upset. The old friend said she didnt care (honestly, her email was "mIA. I don't care, go do it and see where it gets you. I'm not your friend anymore." I used to be this really happy person, until my parents started fighting and we moved to this new place.

My mom recently broke her phone, so she was checking her on messages on my phone, it was on speaker phone, and there was one from this man and it was like, "HEY BABY ITS CARL,--" and my mom freaked and turned the phone off. do you think she is cheating on my dad.? I've had a hard time showing her any respect lately cuz im so mad that she might be cheating.
Should i talk to my dad about it.? do you think shes cheating.?

I'm so confused, angry, and upset. I think i may be suicidal/depressed but im not sure. How do i tell my mom all of what i just typed.? Do you think i need a physcologist.? How do i tell her.? Health Question & Answer


Answers:
There are many ways to talk to her. Tell her you really need to talk and it is very important. Sit down at a table or on the couch or in a quiet room. Tell her how you feel and ask if you could see a psychologist. If she says no ask why and make sure she gives you a firm and accurate answer other than because I said so. It can be possible your mom is cheating but don't tell your dad because it will make things worse. You are depressed, I wouldn't say suicidal unless you have tried to commit it but failed. The psychologist will ask if you would like to be on medication and all you need to say is no. While talking to your mom, tell her why you lost your respect to her. I was diagnosed with depression when I was 5yrs old. I have been in therapy for a long time and I am on medication. So try to talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. Good Luck.Health Question & Answer

sweetie dont kill yourself everything will be okay. Just go talk to your mom and tell her that you feel so upset about alot of things lately and youd like to go talk to someone and see someone. If she asks you what your upset about or anything just say I dont feel like talking right now I just would really like to get a phsycologist to help work out my feelings =]Health Question & Answer

First, I would talk to your school councilor, they are there to help and you don't need to talk to your parents and they can't talk to your parents about anything you say by law. They may be able to help you talk to your mom. And they will be able to help you in general. I'm 18, I have a councilor but I did it on my own, I'm in college right now so my mom doesn't know. But I've gone through a lot of what you have stated too. 7 different high schools and now college. I've had those thoughts too, but it's not worth it because you'll only hurt the ones you love. I hope I have helpedHealth Question & Answer

Wow thats sounds very similar to what i recently went through im 15 and i been there before first and formost i you feel sucidial there are help lines and there is a crisis unit usally at your local hospital i was depressed and didn't know where to turn 2 my dad started noticing a big change in me and i finally felt so lousy and told him how i was feeling i was then taken to the hospital it was all confidental and a counsler talks to you to see wats wrong then from there they decide what would be the best thing for you the can set you up with counsler,phsycologist,or they can admit you in the short term unit which they keep you for about a week and provide groups and counseling to help you and when you get out of there they usally set you up with a service like a place to go to like everyweek and talk if they start you on medication the also have med monitoring to prevent things like what happen to your friend to happen . i myself take antidepressents i go to the phsychatrist for them to moniter my meds to see if theres any thing wrong. I hope i could help and life is precious please don't end your life even if it feel like it cant get any better it will soon enough you'll see to put a perment solution to a temporary problem i know that sounds corny but its true and mabey look to religon i belive in God and looking to him helps me alot even though i may not go to church a lot and dont always read the bible . well i wish you best and i hope God blesses you and i hope you can get the help you needHealth Question & Answer



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