Help me - am am so lazy !?!


Question: Help me - am am so lazy !.?
i like only to bicycle and traveling...what i gonna do.? i am a student 24 years oldHealth Question & Answer


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You sound pretty confused, and thats , a good starting point-- looking somewhere to discuss this-- you like to ride a bike, like travelling but not able to make a committment to study or learn more.
Its a pretty common place in your life at 24.
So many things to think about.
Where getting on a bike and riding is almost like setting yourself free.
Maybe start to set a goal, like I will ride 10 miles, or klms etc then proceed to add a few more each day-- BUT don,t just see how far you can get.
I mean set a target- once you reach that stretch it a bit - after a month you will have become more stable, and able to commit to something-
Then perhaps take up the challenge to do a course, or ride to a library, where you will be more intereted in learning.
If not a library, somewhere you can go into a tutorial etc.
If this is a problem because of a learning disability etc, then fine, just keep setting achievable goals, then stretch a little more each week etc.
Learning to challenge yourself is a lerning experience as is travel, travel of any kind- it s not that you are lazy, maybe it's you need a reason or encouragement-- good luck, please give it a go.
Sandy THealth Question & Answer

sometimes we have to do what we don't want to do in order to do things we want to do.

YOu know that but I know at your age I also knew that yet it was of no help to always motivate me into doing what I should .

And you know and I remember knowing that when we don't do what we are supposed to do then there will be consequences...but sometimes even knowing that did't always motivate me to do what I needed to do.

I think it comes from a good place though...we see homework as trivial compared to truly doing something we enjoy....it is true and good to do what we enjoy ...it doesnt mean we are lazy it means we know what we like... but soon you will grow tired of the consequences of not doing what you should...and you will get back on track one way or the other..you are not lazy though... if you are enjoying life this is proof you have nothing to really worry about. you are ok and will be fine...it is just part of your personality...just a little bit of procrastination sometimes but it is OK in some situations...and you will eventually learn and grow from it. be kind and patient with yourself! Don't worry about it because it will only cause you stress.

if you really wish you WANTED to do homework this won't really come true untill you grow tired of the consequence of NOT doing it. whether that is a bad grade, a failed class or a feeling of inadiquacy.

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