Is it okay for a guy to experiment with men while in a relationship with a woman?!


Question: Is it okay for a guy to experiment with men while in a relationship with a woman.?
My best guy friend (who is in a long-distance relationship with his gf) is now questioning his sexuality. He asked his girl friend whether he can experiment, and she agreed that he can.
Do you think he's really gay.? he claims that he's definitely into woman but still wants to experiment with guys. He says he would only want to be on the receiving end though. (a bottom)

At the beginning of college, he had an open relationship with his long distance gf so he could have sex with other women. So he basically just used women for sex. This leads to believe that some part of him is very much straight...
so I'm thinking he's just bi.
We're in college..so I guess it's good to figure his sexuality out now.

He's not definitely going to have sex with guys..but if he finds a guy, then he will. He says he won't definitely wear a condom, but the guy must get tested first. He's gotten tested a couple times and he's fine.

i don't care that he might be gay and I think its good that he's exploring...I just feel like he's using people and has used people.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I think that people should see other options. You never what you really want, until you try it. I think couples that deal with that, should go on a break to learn more about themselves. Because this really can help save on feelings that can be hurt, if you don't do it. I give your friend props for being honest and saying something. Because most of the time, mem and women will just play behind their partner back and cause a lot of unwanted feelings.Health Question & Answer

If his girlfriend (or current partner) is okay with it, then it's fine. If the people he "plays" with know it's just for the physical and not anything else, then there's no issue.

If he digs both males and females, he's bisexual. If he loses his attraction for females (or never really had one to begin with in spite of his actions), then he may be considered homosexual.Health Question & Answer

His gf doesn't have a problem with this, so he's been given her consent to explore this, and there's no better time to find out if hes gay straight or bi.
Im more concerned about him NOT wearing a condom this is just asking for trouble.Health Question & Answer

Of course it's okay especially since they are long distance. He may be gay but he may be bisexual. He should work that out before he commits to any relationship. Real important to remind him to practice safe sex no matter who he's with.Health Question & Answer

He is using people. He is probably gay. All the sex with women makes me think he was trying to convince himself and everyone else he was straight. The gf should move on.Health Question & Answer

yes it ok... if his girlfriend REALLY thinks its ok(yeah right!)

oh and definitely BI-boy and probably leaning heavy towards Gay cause he wants to only be a Bottom.Health Question & Answer

No, it's not ok. being gay is againist gods law.

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