Abusive older brother please help ?!


Question: Abusive older brother please help .?
my older brother [hes 13] is totally crazy and my mom has tried to put him back in a mental hosp and they wont take him because my father wont pay his half of the bill for his last stay [my parents or divorced] my brother is always hitting me kicking me ect. my mom is trying to stop him and the cops in my city are morons and psychopaths we have called them like 20 times and they won't help i have two small brothers and he hurts them to he also hurts me mom what should my mom do he is bigger that me and my mom he cant live with his dad because his dad is really abusive so any advise is welcomed thank you Health Question & Answer


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She can petition the courts without ever having a police officer called. She can go to court and have it ordered, that way the state will pay for his care.

If he is so uncontrollably angry and violent then the courts will rule on behalf of the well-being of the family.

Deadbeat dad should get his act together, too. I presume you are not his child from the way you write about him. Just call him the ol' deadbeat can't take care of his own son.

But she has good grounds if he has been committed before, there is surely a psychologist somewhere who would be willing to testify on your mother's behalf.

Good luck to your family. If the boy needs help, the hospital should not be turning him away because of lack of payment. That sounds so unethical to me.

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Talk to your teacher, principal, school counselor, or school nurse. School personnel have to report child abuse. They can contact children's services in your area and get help for you and your little brothers. The police should help, but if they aren't helping someone in your school should be able and willing to help. If you have bruises or other signs of abuse, please show them to the person at school who is helping you.Health Question & Answer

Sorry you going through this. Your parents need to protect you and they are not doing that sufficiently. Is there a family member or friend you can stay with.? Do you have a trusted guidance counselor or social worker you can speak to.? Get yourself safe and some help. Health Question & Answer

go talk with your counselor or if you have a officer who stays at your school. It doesn't hurt to talk to someone. You need to so you or you little brothers don't get hurt. You can always call 911 of things get to bad at home. that's what they are for. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

PLEASE talk to your guidance coun. @ school. you might feel alittle embarassed or awkward to go to them but you need to recieve help... but most of all anyone in the home being abusive needs to get help more. Health Question & Answer

Really I could not be scared of any of my family members that live with me.

Your Mom needs to whip his *** and tell him to cut the BS or get out of her house!Health Question & Answer

Call a domestic violence agency in your area and maybe they can help.Health Question & Answer

send him to a youth hostel for a while. or like a military kind of thing u kno.? Health Question & Answer

Ask your School counselor.

Your Mom is going to have to make some really hard decisions. Based on this, she would need to protect you and your siblings as well from him. No one has the right, not even your brother, to hurt you like this. You have the right as an innocent bystander to take it to the next level. If you have bruises, your school counselor will need to see and document them so that this can be forwarded to Childrens Services.

Can you and your young siblings stay with family members or friends.? Her main priority should be to protect you guys first and then take care of your brother.

You NEED to speak up to someone. Health Question & Answer

you said your dad abusive ok your brother has seen your dad probably abuse your mom and yaw two he lernt it from your dad and if your mom dont do somthing now for instance a child will push to see how far they can go till they get in trouble or wooped well from what he lernt from the past from yaw dad you your mom got to be strong and get some help for he get s worse and yes it can get worse he needs a good but wooping if you or your mom need any advise i i try my best to help cause i know what yaw going through Health Question & Answer

Go to a Domestic Violence Shelter! That will bring the attention of the state; and then the state will get involved and the school as well. If you can't get protection from the police, your Mom, then go to the Child's Protective Services in your city. DVS will give you the protection you need from your brother, and will help your Mom get the help she needs., If he hits her too, she also needs to go to the shelter with your siblings, and just let him be there by himself.
As long as you and your Mom stays, that is telling him it is OKAY to beat you and her up! You both deserve better than THAT!
Mom.....as long as you stay there, you are teaching your other kids it is okay to live that way. YOU need to STOP the behavior by going to Domestic Violence Shelter and begin to heal and to teach your other kids is is not okay to beat on other people.Health Question & Answer



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