A lot has happened in just this past week, how do i deal?!
Question: A lot has happened in just this past week, how do i deal.?
Well last tuesday i totalled my car. Parents were upset but obviously glad i and the other person was ok.
My parents went away that wed to sun, for their 25th anniversary. During that time:
1) i got into a fist fight with my best friend (hard alcohol was the cause)
2) i had a friend speed past my neighbors house, where he then called the cops on him, and some how its my fault according to my parents.
3) when all of the drinking had gone on, lots of people in my house were the cause of a lot of things to be out of place and broken, a lot of stuff was damaged and i have no idea how it all happened.
so my parents come home to deal with this whole neighbor problem, there house being destroyed, and all i can say to them is i dont know.
i didnt desrtoy the house but it is my fault, but i cant tell them i had a party(not that they dont already think it) because they are very religious and do NOT approve. on top of this all i have my other neighbors telling my mom that my friends are drug addicts (not the truth, ide be one too if that were the case dont you think.?).
well right now im just tip towing around on broken glass, and just dont know what to do anymore.
on top of this all, my one friend that got the cops called on him is persuing legal matters against my neighbor and his sister (he is involving his sister because she is my friends high school teacher and she invovled herself in this and decided to text message him inappropriate things)
i just dont know what to do anymoreHealth Question & Answer
My parents went away that wed to sun, for their 25th anniversary. During that time:
1) i got into a fist fight with my best friend (hard alcohol was the cause)
2) i had a friend speed past my neighbors house, where he then called the cops on him, and some how its my fault according to my parents.
3) when all of the drinking had gone on, lots of people in my house were the cause of a lot of things to be out of place and broken, a lot of stuff was damaged and i have no idea how it all happened.
so my parents come home to deal with this whole neighbor problem, there house being destroyed, and all i can say to them is i dont know.
i didnt desrtoy the house but it is my fault, but i cant tell them i had a party(not that they dont already think it) because they are very religious and do NOT approve. on top of this all i have my other neighbors telling my mom that my friends are drug addicts (not the truth, ide be one too if that were the case dont you think.?).
well right now im just tip towing around on broken glass, and just dont know what to do anymore.
on top of this all, my one friend that got the cops called on him is persuing legal matters against my neighbor and his sister (he is involving his sister because she is my friends high school teacher and she invovled herself in this and decided to text message him inappropriate things)
i just dont know what to do anymoreHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Hmmm well, only thing i can think of is my friend a few months back had a party when her parents went away, and so so many people turned up that we didn't know and the house got completely trashed. Her little sister room got completely ****** over, someone was sick in her wardrobe (which i had to clean out lol mm), put fags out on the carpet/walls and the room stank of weed. Various other parts of the house got trashed and she couldn't tidy up before her parents came home, so basically she told them she'd had a few friends over from school and that somehow some random chavvy/trashy girls had heard about it and completely trashed the place. She had to get the police involved as well as someone had taken her backdoor and car keys (resulted in someone trying to take the car a week later), but after a few weeks of being pissed off at her her parents didn't really mention it again, they just don't really trust her.
So i suppose you could make up the same sort of thing.? Your partly telling the truth, it just doesn't come out so bad on you. Say people you didn't know trashed it.?.? To be honest, i don't really get how your parents can stop you from seeing your friends... dunno if thats just being "rebelious" or w/e you wanna call it but seriously how can they stop you.? Just walk out the house.?
Meh to be honest, parents who don't really expect that kind of thing from their kids are just plain ignorant. I mean really now theres being religious and having views and morals on things... then theres just plain controlling you. Good luck anyway, and if all else fails... run away.? haha jokee, worked quite well for my friend the first time she got in proper trouble with her parents.Health Question & Answer
So i suppose you could make up the same sort of thing.? Your partly telling the truth, it just doesn't come out so bad on you. Say people you didn't know trashed it.?.? To be honest, i don't really get how your parents can stop you from seeing your friends... dunno if thats just being "rebelious" or w/e you wanna call it but seriously how can they stop you.? Just walk out the house.?
Meh to be honest, parents who don't really expect that kind of thing from their kids are just plain ignorant. I mean really now theres being religious and having views and morals on things... then theres just plain controlling you. Good luck anyway, and if all else fails... run away.? haha jokee, worked quite well for my friend the first time she got in proper trouble with her parents.Health Question & Answer
Sorry mate, but it's time to 'fess up and take responsibility for what happened. Trying to deny the party aspect shows you are still a child, and will be treated as such.
By owning up and taking responsibility for what happened - even though they may hit the roof (and rightly so) at least shows you are capable of growing up fast.
The other option is to bluff your way through, and wait for the sh*t to hit the fan. Which it will. Big time.Health Question & Answer
By owning up and taking responsibility for what happened - even though they may hit the roof (and rightly so) at least shows you are capable of growing up fast.
The other option is to bluff your way through, and wait for the sh*t to hit the fan. Which it will. Big time.Health Question & Answer