Really stressed out. really lost, IN NEED OF YOUR HELP?!


Question: Really stressed out. really lost, IN NEED OF YOUR HELP.?
my boyfriend left me, chose drugs over me...
my lifes been going down hill a little bit.
please recommend me a QUOTE, BOOK or SONG that will calm me down.
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Quote: "Courage is the power to let go of the familiar" by Raymond Lindquist.
You are probably feeling like this is the end of an era and you are probably scared of what the future has in store for you. Let go of the familiar because things will get better in time.

Book: "10 Secrets For Success and Inner Peace" by Wayne Dyer
This book has brought me peace with my life and always picks me up when I am feeling down.

Song: One Girl Revolution by Superchick
The lyrics in this song remind you that it's okay to stand alone and you can make it on your own.

If your boyfriend chose drugs over you, he doesn't respect you enough and you deserve better! Things will get better, and you will heal in time. Take care.

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Rent the movie Pinocchio and really listen to the song,
When You Wish Upon a Star. It is a feel good movie with a lot of philosophical truth. The song is on line here:


When you wish upon a star
Makes no difference who you are
Anything your heart desires
Will come to you.

http://solosong.net/wish.html

The next and better boyfriend is just around the corner. Like attracts like. Just thank him for giving you up for drugs. It showed what and how low a person he is/was. You are destined for better things.

What you become is the kind of person you attract. Never settle for what you yourself would not want to be. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

It's not going downhill for you if he left for drugs. It's going downhill for him. His leaving sets you free from a burden and pain you don't need. There are lots of songs out there that can lift your spirits, you'll just know it when you hear it. Try to find something that interests you to keep you busy. Maybe find an event or group that does things you would like to do (in a good way) and you will find other people your age with your interests that may be very interesting to talk to. Another boyfriend will come along - trust me, they always do. Don't know what you're other stressors are, but most likely none of them are in your control. Health Question & Answer

Hi, Please know that drug addiction is stronger than love. Drugs will destroy a person and relationships. Let's hope that your ex-boyfriend will get help so that he can begin the road to recovery.
The same goes also for you. Break ups are hard because we women tend to leave a piece of ourselves behind. I am almost certain that his leaving you had nothing to do with YOU. Although I understand that you are very sad and feel lost, it just might have been a saving grace for you. I would recommend a couple of books for your own healing: SMILE ACROSS YOUR HEART by Laurie Martin (a great book) and BECOING YOUR OWN HERO by Paul Jordan. The books will have some exercises to discover your Self. Go to Amazon.com. Good luck to you.Health Question & Answer

The Alchemist by Paolo Coehlo (not sure if that is spelled right but the title is) is one of the best love stories I've ever read. It might make you feel better.

also, I always liked to listen to Bright Eyes after a breakup, but that may be too depressing. Try Belle & Sebastian too.Health Question & Answer

You can read this free ebook on how to cope with your stress, written by stress experts, cost you nothing, hope this helps:

http://selfempoweredwoman.com/stress/Health Question & Answer

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me
from Philippians 4:13 .

This bible verse has helped me during all the rough times of my life

God Bless <3Health Question & Answer



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