What is the reason of my shyness?!


Question: What is the reason of my shyness.?
I am a very shy person. Because of my shyness I can't talk to people, because I am afraid of what they are going to say or think about me. I am afraid of what they are going to answer, and also that they could make a foul of myself! I am also very nervous when I have to speak in front of many people, but VERY VERY NERVOUS, as well as when I speak to a guy that I like... Please help me...! I really want to get rid of this! Nobody is as shy as I am... Thanks in advance!Health Question & Answer


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you need to relax and stop caring so much about what people think most of the time they wont even think anything, to tell you the truth, your getting your self to wound up about things,most importantly be yourself. Life is to short. i am a little shy my self but over time i have learned that if you never put yourself out there you will never know what could happen.

..and if you think 'what if' alot or think about how everything is going to happen before it even starts, your just driving yourself crazy. trust me things never happen the way you think they will.

you need to learn to except yourself how you are, and others will too.Health Question & Answer

Hey, I am not a professional in this but I can tell you from my experience that the shyness will dissapear when you even can not notice it...

I was very shy when I was younger, I was always afraid of talk with people and do others things, but when I found out that I was not able to move without my own help and I was forced, then I begun to see the world from other face... I started to build my own steps little by little until I finally was able to see I was not so shy as before.. Today I can tell you that even I have not a lot of friends, I can talk with my teammates very good and do other things with all them

You must practice it and never forget this: "Just be Yourself"Health Question & Answer

man i am just as shy as you. maybe more.

the way to start is to have self-confidence. YOU don't judge every word people say, do you.? you usually forget it like 20 seconds after they say it and never think about it again.

its scary to not have control of what people are thinking.
let me just give you this tip. most facial expressions mean nothing when people are having a conversation. so a dirty look may just be the person thinking, "oh crap, what did i just say." people are just as nervous as you, except they have confidence.

trust me, i've been on both ends. the popular side, and the shy side.
all you need is confidence!Health Question & Answer

Wow, you might be my female twin.
I know exactly how you feel. Talking on here is somewhat easy, but face to face with people is tough. I couldv'e asked this question myself.
I wish I could give you a better answer but I never found out the reason for my shyness. I guess it's just how you are or how you grew up. People's minds work in different ways and some of us just have these kind of frustrating problems.
I hope you can get help and enjoy life. Good luckHealth Question & Answer

The only thing you can do is practice!
Talk to everyone you can!
Make conversation. It will really help if you have more self confidence.
Your going to have to start from the inside out.
I recommend reading the book: BeYOUtiful by Jessica Costeines
good luck honey!
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Dont worry
Talk to one person that has many friends
Then you will get to know the others on behalf that person.
Its easy because you slowly get to know other people by only talking to one

Good Luck
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