Im so emotional!!. serious answer please?!


Question: Im so emotional!!. serious answer please.?
hey everyone..i had a call from a doctor, who wanted to talk to my mom and i eavesdropped hearing that she got some kind of bump on her left shoulder, *bottom of shoulder* and my mom told me that like most of the percent would just be fine but she is going to get checked again at dec 2nd. and she said if its bad, she need to go to Taiwan (where i used to live) and get an operation to get it out. she told me its a really tinie chance of cancer or something. and I am seriously, really senstive, about 2 years ago, my mom had to go to the hospital and get this useless organ which i dont know out. and I had to stay at my grandparents, at night I was crying so much (without noise) I cried for atleast 6 hours during the night and did not get any sleep, that time i had an cold. so I couldn't go visit my mom at the hospital. but i found out it wasn't serious. but now..I'm like crying as i am typing this, . I wanted to pray for her that nothing bad would happen to her. My mom is like everything to me.
sigh. can anyone help me with this problem.?
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I'm pretty sure it's nothing serious..... Look..they did a scan on my mom recently and they said they saw some abnormalities in her bladder..they were thinking it was cancer.. So I freaked out..and cried as well. Well..she went in for surgery..cuz they did a biopsy and they found out that it was nothing....Your mom can probably have a cyst on her shoulder..and it's nothing serious..they can just take it out..she'll be fine.. I know you love your mom...and she loves you too...awwww..you're so sensitive..!!! But don't panic and cry so much ok..., I really don't think your mom wants to see you suffer like that... Just be there for her..,encourage her that everything is going to be ok... I'll pray for your mom...Health Question & Answer

im pretty sure everyone as your sympathy, i know i do, you should pray, and just remember how much you really love her and how much she realy loves you and even if it is cancer, she will probably be ok :(
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YOU LOVE HER, IT'S FINE TO CRY. ALL YOU CAN DO IS HOPE SHE IS FINE AND SUPPORT HER EVEN IF SHE IS NOT BY YOURE SIDE. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU AND I HOPE YOUR MOM IS OKAY. I'LL PRAY FOR HER.Health Question & Answer

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The only thing you can do is pray. You know why.? Because if you trust in God Almighty he will answer your prayers. I know, it happen to my sister, the doctor said that my sister was diagnosed with vulvar cancer. We were all really shocked. The olny thing that we could do was to pray. I was just like you was really emotional I cried nonstop. It was a real heart breaking. Two days later the doctor that checked on my sister said that her cancer was gone. I was really happy I cried because it was a realy big miracle from our Heavenly Father. If you believe that Jesus was rosed from the dead you will be saved. If you trust in God, he will reward you in many ways. Beyond the human Comprehension.
just BELIEVE HAVE FAITH.MAY GOD BLESS YOU TODAY AND ALWAYS. CONFESS WITH YOUR MOUTH THAT YOUR MOM IS HEALED. IF YOU DO GOD AND JESUS WILL HELP YOU. GOD BLESS.Health Question & Answer

I can understand your emotionality since the medical industry has made such a big thing of possible cancers over the past few years. They have driven the scare to profound heights in order to get better business (more money), and they're doing the same thing to men with the pumped up scare tactics on prostate cancer. I'm not saying that the cancers are not significant, but I am saying that the medical industry is much like car salesmen in their hustle to sell you anything so they can make more money, regardless of what their sales tactics do to you. I can say that my wife found small lumps on her breasts years ago, and she went to have them removed and she's been fine ever since. I also know a woman in town that I used to date long ago who also had lumps in her breasts and she has followed up with whatever minor surgery was necessary and she's been fine for decades. Again, I'm not telling you that the potential for serious cancer in your mother is not there, but I am saying to just wait to see what is actually found before you get too upset. There are too many cases in both breast cancer and prostate cancer that are barely worth a doctor's visit, so, take a deep breath and relax, and then see what the doctors find when they actually do an exam. My doctor finally decided to take a serious look at a mole on my neck and recommend that he remove a piece of it for an exam, as did another doctor I see sometimes. I looked at the first doctor and told him that it's nothing more than the other moles he found and sent to the lab years ago which came back benign, and so since it took him so long to give a serious look at it in the first place after I had told him about it months ago, just forget it. The second doctor I reminded I didn't have insurance or money, so forget it. I'll do fine, and if it's a melanoma and I die, God's there waiting for me, and I'm certainly in better hands with Him than with the medical industry. God Bless you.Health Question & Answer

The same thing is happening to my mom. Tomorrow she goes to the doctor to find out if the test came out positive for cancer. I've been trying not to think about it. The more I think about it the sadder I get. In a situation like that, I think we need to be supportive and strong for our mothers. If my mom saw me crying, it might make her feel worse, and that's the last thing I would want, because as tough as it is for me, it is even tougher for her. So, just calm down and hope for the best. Help your mom out through this time. Be there if she needs anything if you're there with her. Be thankful that they are finding it now and not later.Health Question & Answer

im not sure what you want me to say, so here goes. what you need to do is show your mom that you love her in the best way you know of. relax and dont worry too much, i know its difficult to do that, ive been through many health issues and the best thing you HAVE to do is relax and take a deep breath. go do activities that take your mind off of your mom. pray for her and go and relax, worrying will do you no good and will cause you un needed stress which can be harmful. it will be ok, ill pray for her as well.Health Question & Answer



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