I need serious help?? what to do?!


Question: I need serious help.?.? what to do.?
Ugh..I hate my life. I'm 17. Ever since i was 5 my mom has been with my stepdad. I have hated him all my life for NUMEROUS reasons.my sister has hated him too. (shes 22) mom doesn't care. Its obviously hard to explain my whole story on here, so don't think what you read is all of it. He has called me a *****/slut/ before and he has told me i have no friends..etc. My mom doesn't care..she says 'i don't know why you hate him' 'why can't we just be happy its because of you.' I just don't know what to do..i have no job/lisense/car i cant get a job cause my mom will have to drive me..i cant get my lisense because my mom cant teach me how to drive properly..we always end up getting in fights etc. and even if i had a license, no car.

I feel like i just want to die..
I feel like im going no where in life..
I just dont know..
*sigh*


Im not trying to be 'emo' or anything just help pleasE.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
you are definatly depressed. He sounds like a terrible person! well, if your dad is alive (plz let him be and if not , rest in peace) you can live with him
but what i find effective, cause i deal with this stuff too, is that you need hang out with friends, get it off your mind, keep thinking that he called you that then that is what he is, and it sounds like has low self-esteem, so he puts u down. and if u want seek help from like a guiadance counslor of an adult that can do somthing, or you can call like kids abuse place, but thats kinda of extreme...i think you can get through it, and perphaps your school has a driving school thing.
Feel Better~
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You have what, another year or two.? You've put up with this for twelve years already, what's another two.?
Keep your grades up, ask your sister to teach you how to drive, and look for a job within walking distance of your house. As for the parent situation, try to ignore them. If you have to be social with them, be as polite as you can and try not to get angry.
You'll get through this.
And if you need to talk or whatever, you can message me.Health Question & Answer

This is so unfortunate, it sounds like you don't get support from anyone. Is your sister out of the house.? Can she be of any help.? also how long before you become 18.? That's got to be the day you look forward to sweetie, and I know it might be scary and lonely, but start planning to begin your new life. Maybe there's a bus you could take to a job.?Health Question & Answer

I'm terribly sorry to hear this. If you're really miserable, you can get a divorce from your parents. but you'll need evidence. and if it passes you'll probably get into foster care until you're 18.Health Question & Answer

Im really sorry to hear that. Sometime's women get so into these guys that they don't want to see the truth. She might be afraid she's going to lose him. It's not fair to you though. You should come first! I have a three year old and she will always come first! I would maybe try talking to her again and if that doesn't work try going to your school consouler and maybe she can talk with her. Sometimes when the advice is coming from someone else it's more effective. Your still so young and you have your whole life ahead of you. So don't go moving out just yet! Im sure alot of guys would want you to move in with them but you don't want to just run away from your problems. As long as he's not hurting you and saying that all the time that is. Me and my Dad have exchanged some pretty awfull things when I was your age, but I love him to death! Hang in there.Health Question & Answer

I see that you have no direction in life right now. I recommend signing up in the military. The military will help you out as it has for me. I learned how to drive, I learned how to be a better leader, I have money for school, I am not worrying if I will be able to eat or not. If you like it you can choose to stay in, if not then serve your time and get out and you will have money for college any, money that you didn't have before...or you can do college for free while your in. The military helped give me direction in life, and it has for many others as well. I am in the army myself, if you have any questions just write me an email...it's in my profile.Health Question & Answer

there are other people to teach you to drive.
there are other ways of gettting around. get a bike, or a moped. or walk. or bus. or train. or landyacht. or kayak. or hang-glider.
yeah life sucks for some people. mainly the black ones in africa that rummage through landfills to find food. but you have it pretty bad as well.
move out.? take some responisibility for your life and yourself rather than just bitching about how it is at the moment.?

you want to die because you can't drive.? wow. i want to kill most of the women i see driving... so maybe if we combine the two some how.. you drive.. i kill....everyone's happy.?Health Question & Answer

If I were you, I would go to the nearest "Bible" church and start attending on Sunday. If they have a youth group, even better. It's a good place to start and there is always someone willing to give you a ride to church. If you don't have one really close, call one in the nearest town and explain that you want to come to church but have no ride. You would accept a ride from a family or a woman.
This is a good place to start. If you are in high school, talk to your councelor, too! God Bless and there is one thing you can count on. You'll be 18 soon and no one can stop you from moving out.
I know you say where can you go with no car, etc.
I just helped a girl out of an abusive life and she got a section 8 housing and pays 1/10th of her rent. She got free bus passes and lives in the city and goes to online school. I wish you the best, and hope you'll first take my advice about going to church. You need Jesus in your life. I've been where you are and nothing helped until I found Jesus! God Bless You!Health Question & Answer



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