I'm honestly really depressed. What can I do?!


Question: I'm honestly really depressed. What can I do.?
Now, I'm a senior in high school and this year is completely hard for me because I all my friends were seniors in high school last year and I was only a junior. So they all left to go to college and I was left in the dust, but it wasn't all bad because we hung out after school, like go to Starbucks, Bonfires, Concerts, etc, but as the year goes by they start to feel more and more distant. I barely hang out with them at all now, which is HORRIBLE for me because I'm sorta an outcast so it's not easy for me to make new friends, and the new "friends" I hang out with at school are total jackasses and morons and there is only one person I really enjoy too there. So my older friends becoming distant is starting to take its toll on me. They barely answer on their cellphones, or the messages I send them on myspace, etc. I know there is nothing you guys can do to get my friends to hang out with me but I need ways to counter this, like something to make me happier. The only thing right keeping me from the breaking point is my music. but its not enough right now.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
You are young child, live life and keep concentrating on your school. As for your friends, they don't mean to distance themselves from you but College I'm sure is taking much of there time, as it will you when it's your time. Be proud of yourself and be proud of your friends.
Music.? That's awesome. Use that as a tool to maybe write songs about your friends and school and you may want to find people in your school also interested in music. There out there child, looking for you.
You have every reason in the world to be happy about. And people ie your family and new friends will come a long thus a new circle will begin. The circle of life.
I wish you the best of luck;. Health Question & Answer

no, listen to THIS song.
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this will help ease your pain, not strengthen it, also, if you have a bible, i suggest you read the psalms for a good half hour. You will find many helpfull scriptures there that can really redirect your life.Health Question & Answer

make new friends. keep in touch with old ones.
keep yourself busy, write, read, go to starbucks, get a drink, sit and calm down.
its not that big of a downfall. you can survive. just be confident and approach people.
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Tell your older friends that you want to try to spend more time together and then find one or two good friends. Hang out with the one person. Maybe you can start to enjoy that.Health Question & Answer

in hs i collected the other unpoular kids and for,ed our own clique wanna of those friendships has lasted 18 yrs and the dude helped save my life when i wanted to end it cause my mom diedHealth Question & Answer

Listen to this song! also, go to or rent a movie or 2!Health Question & Answer

definatly join lots of sports. it makes you feel soooo much betterHealth Question & Answer

get invloved in a church family group

go to the movies

spend time with family

good luck smile more!
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Your feelings of depression stem from your belief that you are an outcast and unimportant in your high school environment.

Here are some steps to take to improve your ideology:

1. Love yourself. Realize that you are valuable regardless of the opinions of others. Practice self-reliance.

2. Love everyone else. Show everyone around you love regardless of what they think about you. Do not dislike anyone. Do not dislike anyone's behavior. Don't require that your friends hang out with you or send you myspace messages or answer their cellphones. Love them regardless of their actions.

As you become a warm and loving person, you will notice other people being drawn to you. Remember, the earth revolves around the sun, not pluto. Health Question & Answer

You need to go to a church that is big into young people groups.
Listen online to The Crabb Family Live 2008, listen to it twice before thinking how dumb this is to yourself.
Listen to the entire thing. Even the personal interviews of the entire family. Please. Especially listnen to the last song. I know my Redeemer Lives.
Can you please do this for me.? Please. Then take a walk tomorrow, set youself a time to take a walk by yourself, and take your new songs you have downloaded and listen again.
It will work.

Ten years from now, you will realize, , , friends are not what it is all about in this life. Not at all. They all go through the same thing you are going through right now eventually.

Everything happens for a reason.

Now...go do what I said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Health Question & Answer

im an outcast too and you need to try to get into school clubs because it helps find friends that you have something in common with. then later you have something to talk about after school. if not try sports its great. it helps you burn some steam and you meet people.
i no how you must feel but try to find a good crowd its not so hard to point out the good hearted people with true feelings. think in a year you'll be a grown adult starting a new life so try enjoy this year while you can or you'll be sorry you didn't. life is too short to worry about things you have take a deep breath and relax you'll be there soon .Health Question & Answer



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