How do I stop STRESSING and re-assuring myself that I DID NOTHING WRONG?!


Question: How do I stop STRESSING and re-assuring myself that I DID NOTHING WRONG.?
Recently, in student residence, I met a girl. We exchanged numbers. She called me the next day.

After a few days, I called her. We met, had a coffee together, and talked for almost 2 hours. I gave her a text saying that I had a good time. She replied that she had a good time. She mentioned having phone problems and at times, being unable to identify who is calling. She said her mom was worried and tried contacting her for almost 2 days.

She asked for my facebook contact and email. She added me on facebook. Then the next day, I wasn
Answers:
The first step is to stop trying to reassure yourself. Instead of focusing of this situation, be patient. If you continue to try to contact her repeatedly, you will appear obsessive and frighten her. Wait for her to call you or email you. If she does not call by next Wednesday, try calling her again. If she does not answer, leave a message or text her and ask her out for the weekend. Don't contact her in person and try to avoid resorting to contacting her via email or facebook. For women, phones feel more comfortable and safe. If everything fails, send her one message on facebook.

If she truly is interested in you, she will call you when her phone starts working again or she will reply to your facebook message. If she never responds, accept her answer as a no.

Remember these two things:

1. Love yourself. Remind yourself that you are valuable regardless of the opinions of anybody else.

2. Love everyone. Show everyone around you love regardless of what they think about you. Do not dislike anyone. Do not dislike anyone's behavior. Love even the women that don't respond to your phone calls.

3. Be confident. The most attractive attribute in a person is confidence.

4. Failure does not exist. No does not mean failure. It only means she is not interested. Keep searching until you find your yes.Health Question & Answer

Stop being so hard on yourself, you said yourself that you know that you did nothing wrong, so why not go on your words.? You have to stop listening to your brain sometimes, the brain isn't a good thing to listen to when your stressing, because all it will do is make you think about it, which will make things even worse. Don't think on it much. I know its hard, do some yoga, or meditation, then think on something else.
God blessHealth Question & Answer

give her a little time to call or tex you .im a girl and trust me if she is interested she will contact you .you know you did nothing wrong so have confidence in your self ,,ok,good luckHealth Question & Answer



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