What do i do to stop wanting to die?!
Question: What do i do to stop wanting to die.?
I really don't know whether I should bother going on or not. I'm trying really hard to not want to die.
The one person I love and care for more than I have for anyone is going through depression as well and making it really hard for me to keep going.
It really hurts.Health Question & Answer
The one person I love and care for more than I have for anyone is going through depression as well and making it really hard for me to keep going.
It really hurts.Health Question & Answer
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You really need to take control of your life, if your thinking and feeling this way i suggest you seek council ling from a mental health doctor. i know this may sound a little hard and cold but you need to stop worrying about this other person and think about your own health at the moment, you certainly don't need any negativity around you. Life is very precious and has a lot to offer, you just need to take control and reach out, make the most out of your life. You can't help this person if your not in control of yourself. i don't know if your on medication or if you have a mental illness or not, i'm not going to judge you, so if you have make sure you always take any medication that is prescribed for you, eat well and healthy,regular exercise, get plenty of rest, for goodness sake don't ever get involved with any types of drugs, keep your mind busy with a hobby so your mind dosent have time to wonder and be feeling depressed. Think positive, there is a lot of available help for people suffering from depression, but you have to want that help and you must because your seeking it here which is a good start, but please seek council ling from professional medical people, remember life is what you make it, so dont be afraid everyone deserves a happy fullfilling life and you can have that if you really want it.Health Question & Answer
Whats the point of dying.?
Youre already here, youve lived some time in life, why quit now.?
Theres no use, you just gotta look in the positive, and think of all the people you'll hurt if you die, and dont tell me no one cares for you because honeslty somebody is gonna care, and that person will feel as miserable as you do.
And yes Depression does suck, so does cancer, anorexia, old age, and other mental or illnesses that are not curable.
Do you know how selfish you really sound like when you say something like that.? Theres people out there who would give ANYTHING just to spend a few extra days in this world. And for you to just want to throw it away is a bit selfish.
You have your health, people who care for you, an internet. And thats more than most people have.
Good Luck!Health Question & Answer
Youre already here, youve lived some time in life, why quit now.?
Theres no use, you just gotta look in the positive, and think of all the people you'll hurt if you die, and dont tell me no one cares for you because honeslty somebody is gonna care, and that person will feel as miserable as you do.
And yes Depression does suck, so does cancer, anorexia, old age, and other mental or illnesses that are not curable.
Do you know how selfish you really sound like when you say something like that.? Theres people out there who would give ANYTHING just to spend a few extra days in this world. And for you to just want to throw it away is a bit selfish.
You have your health, people who care for you, an internet. And thats more than most people have.
Good Luck!Health Question & Answer
There shouldn't be any reason for you to even consider that. I once had thoughts like that, but I understood that I wouldn't be helping anyone by killing myself, but would be hurting those who care about me.
Maybe you only care for that one person, but a bunch of people might care for you, so don't do it because it's not worth it.Health Question & Answer
Maybe you only care for that one person, but a bunch of people might care for you, so don't do it because it's not worth it.Health Question & Answer
Recognize that there are differences between a thought, a feeling and behavior. "I want to die" is a thought. Sadness, loneliness, hopelessness are feelings. Harming oneself is a behavior. It's fine to acknowledge thoughts and feelings. In fact, if more people would admit to times in their lives when they don't want to live, others would not need keep the thoughts secret. The more open each of us can be about our thoughts and feelings, the more likely we are to clear up distorted thoughts and to distinguish feelings from thoughts. Feelings can be changed by changing thoughts and beliefs. And, you can choose to feel angry, sad or discouraged without acting on those feelings. Thoughts and feelings change like the wind, for many of us they shift with the context in which we find ourself. For instance, I feel more depressed weekends, because I don't have the structure of work and I sometimes feel overwhelmed with not having that on the weekend. But, as soon as Monday comes and I'm back to work - even on days when I hate my job - I find I think more clearly and have more energy and motivation, simply because work gives me a focus and boundaries to help manage my day.
One of the most effective ways to cope with times of shear discouragement and lack ot desire to keep pushing forward, is to find another person(s) less well off than oneself, and focus on helping that person(s). That is a way to immediately shift your thoughts and feelings, finding gratitude in the "little things" we] take for granted. Health Question & Answer
One of the most effective ways to cope with times of shear discouragement and lack ot desire to keep pushing forward, is to find another person(s) less well off than oneself, and focus on helping that person(s). That is a way to immediately shift your thoughts and feelings, finding gratitude in the "little things" we] take for granted. Health Question & Answer
Seek help beyond here. Take a nap when feeling down (cranky baby syndrome).
Best cure for depression/anxiety: Tons of exercise (physical fatigue) and breathing exercises (breath observation) seek Dr. Andrew Weil's guides on breathing. Eat well.
You can also stop thinking about sad/negative things (i know it sounds stupid) - anytime you find yourself thinking bad thoughts, just stop and force your mind into something happy (takes LOTS of practice and time, but its the same as weight lifting, just with your mind, not muscles)Health Question & Answer
Best cure for depression/anxiety: Tons of exercise (physical fatigue) and breathing exercises (breath observation) seek Dr. Andrew Weil's guides on breathing. Eat well.
You can also stop thinking about sad/negative things (i know it sounds stupid) - anytime you find yourself thinking bad thoughts, just stop and force your mind into something happy (takes LOTS of practice and time, but its the same as weight lifting, just with your mind, not muscles)Health Question & Answer
it seems as if you're really going through a hard time in your life, first you need to control yourself, if you really love someone whose depressed you actually need to be strong to support that person and help him/her get through it ..
while you are depressed you may not realize but you may be actually increasing the pressure of depression on that very person you care for soo much!!so first, get a grip.. take a walk or a run in the fresh air...
with friends and then come home.. get into bed, grab a pencil and a copy and start writing all the good things in life WORTH living..!!!
hope this help.. and don't forget to pray to God..
if anybody is there for us in the hard times, its God!!
Cheer up sweetie!!!
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while you are depressed you may not realize but you may be actually increasing the pressure of depression on that very person you care for soo much!!so first, get a grip.. take a walk or a run in the fresh air...
with friends and then come home.. get into bed, grab a pencil and a copy and start writing all the good things in life WORTH living..!!!
hope this help.. and don't forget to pray to God..
if anybody is there for us in the hard times, its God!!
Cheer up sweetie!!!
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OMFG I feel just like you... I just wanna kill myself and I have started to get kinda emo i hurt myself with several thing just to see blood "/ and I care more about the love of my life than my life.. I would suicide if she left me and I only known her for 5 weeks that's crazy and she is depressed for several things and that makes me feel like sh!t as well.
If you ever gonna die tell me and I will probably go with you you are not alone <33Health Question & Answer
If you ever gonna die tell me and I will probably go with you you are not alone <33Health Question & Answer
make some goals, give yourself a purpose. if you don't like the way your living, no matter how hard it may seem you can change just like that in 1 second. Such as the movie "the pursuit of happiness" once you have a goal to attain that you have your heart and mind set on , it will give you a sense purposeHealth Question & Answer
Maybe in order to deal with it you need to talk to someone about it. You could go to therapy or something. If you're not a fan of that even just talk to someone you trust and think is a good listener.
The fact that you want to not feel suicidal is good. It means you're willing to work on it. If you're feeling desperate and you have to, think about how it would hurt the people around you who love you. You obviously know what that feels like unfortunately.
Best of luck :)Health Question & Answer
The fact that you want to not feel suicidal is good. It means you're willing to work on it. If you're feeling desperate and you have to, think about how it would hurt the people around you who love you. You obviously know what that feels like unfortunately.
Best of luck :)Health Question & Answer
well man its nowtworth it think about t you have an average of 70 or 80 years on this earth..... and if you die u dont get a second chance.... theres always something to do keep yourself moving ..... your future,,, and if your girlfriend is depressed and it makes you feel bad thats a good thing cause u know what u love her... would u want to leave her behind with even more depression i know how u feel man and it sucks alot but keep on moving ur just at a low point in your life it can only get better but u have to want it to be better take to ur girl about why shes depressed and start from there
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Everyone stop!
timstop and think a second about all the good times you have had in your life and think about the things what once made you laugh!!!!
and try planning something you coud do like an adventure holiday or something to try take your mind off of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And if your ever feeling down just sing a song you like (not a sad one)
or try blocking it . i feel for you . for sure this will work good luck xHealth Question & Answer
timstop and think a second about all the good times you have had in your life and think about the things what once made you laugh!!!!
and try planning something you coud do like an adventure holiday or something to try take your mind off of it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And if your ever feeling down just sing a song you like (not a sad one)
or try blocking it . i feel for you . for sure this will work good luck xHealth Question & Answer
DAMN...DATS SUM DEEP **** 2 SHARE. I DNT KNOW U BUT IMA REACH OUT ANYWAY, LIVING IZ THA GREATEST GIFT 2 MAN, TAKING UR OWN LIFE IZ WORSTER DEN TAKIN SUM 1 ELSE'S. I REMEMBER HURTIN SO BAD INSIDE AT 1 POINT I WANTED 2 DIE 2,INTILL I REALIZED HURTING WAS APART OF LIFE. IF EVERYONE WHO WAS HURTING TOOK THERE LIVES WEN THEY WERE HURTING EVERYONE WUD B DEAD. 2 EVEN SHARE WAT U SHARED TAKES ALOTTA GUTTS, AN BY THAT I CAN TELL UR A VERY STRONG PERSON. IT SEEMS UR BETTER DEN THAT. I KNOW UR IN PAIN RITE KNOW AN I KNOW IT MITE SEEM LIKE UR GOING 2 B IN PAIN FOREVER, BUT TRUST ME U JUSS GOTTA LET IT BURN RITE KNOW, BUT EVENTUALLY DAT BURN IZ GONA FADE, TRUST IVE BEEN THERE ITS NOT WORTH IT. Health Question & Answer
Look around you,do you ever wonder what might be in the future.The world is your play ground,to go out and help and enjoy others.
If your that sad and it is so wrong, then it just could be something that can be corrected.Maybe a chemical imbalance or a sad time happening now.Look at the big picture and find out what your purpose is.Health Question & Answer
If your that sad and it is so wrong, then it just could be something that can be corrected.Maybe a chemical imbalance or a sad time happening now.Look at the big picture and find out what your purpose is.Health Question & Answer
whether u are now going or not is still not yours to decide...Do you really want to die,ask this question first..1)what happens after.?..if u cannot answer this your in serious trouble..i mean eternal trouble..those who give a negative answer is surely hell-bound.know why.?bec it only means that you haven't received Jesus Christ yet.John 14:6 tells us that He is the only way to heaven,not religion or any other but Him bec He is d only one qualified-Matthew 1:21.We need Christ to enter heaven.there is no such thing as dying then having a bliss in heaven.a Bible verse says that if anyone who doesn't have the Spirit of Christ is none of His..and if you're not His,you don't belong in heaven..don't assume that u hav Him already inside u bec in Romans chapter 8 or i think 10..tis very clear that u say it..please,if u haven't done this yet,.go to a room and with all your heart,trusting d Lord,in prayer repent for all d wrong you've done,ask for forgiveness,next Believe that Christ thru dying on the cross is the Only One that can save you,tell Him that,and then ask Him to come into your heart as Lord and personal Saviour..John 1:12 says that if u have Him u are now His child.then u can claim His promise of eternal life in heaven when u face Him.Having done that,u are ready to face Him.Health Question & Answer
Most times, when people want to die or feel that they can not go on any longer, it is not a real death wish but more of a wish that pain would go away. Most times, pain can be so severe that we "feel" like we want to die but that is not the truth.
Every natural human being wants to live. That is why even those who attempt suicide reach out at the last minute and "change' their minds. Everyone truly wants to live. But everyone truly wants to be free of extreme pain.
So let those thoughts of yours be aware that your wish to not go on is simply a wish for pain relief.
Now you can go about doing something that can relieve that pain that you are feeling. If you are feeling lonely, then go out and do things with people. Get into some hobby or organization groups. Join a hobby club or go visit a church.
IF this is a physical pain, ask a holistic doctor how you can relieve this pain. Go online and see what other depressed individuals do for depression and only follow advice that helps and that does not harm.
Be connected!. The biggest and best way to relieve any and all types of pain and hopelessness is to stay connected to the world. Reach out at a local, national and international level.
Get your mind occupied with good and great things. Go promote a cause. Take a walk; see a movie. Do book or movie reviews on line or in person at your local newspapers.
Talk your problems over with someone you trust.
And keep on living, even with the pain, just keep on living.
Feeling suicidal, here is a site:
http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html
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Every natural human being wants to live. That is why even those who attempt suicide reach out at the last minute and "change' their minds. Everyone truly wants to live. But everyone truly wants to be free of extreme pain.
So let those thoughts of yours be aware that your wish to not go on is simply a wish for pain relief.
Now you can go about doing something that can relieve that pain that you are feeling. If you are feeling lonely, then go out and do things with people. Get into some hobby or organization groups. Join a hobby club or go visit a church.
IF this is a physical pain, ask a holistic doctor how you can relieve this pain. Go online and see what other depressed individuals do for depression and only follow advice that helps and that does not harm.
Be connected!. The biggest and best way to relieve any and all types of pain and hopelessness is to stay connected to the world. Reach out at a local, national and international level.
Get your mind occupied with good and great things. Go promote a cause. Take a walk; see a movie. Do book or movie reviews on line or in person at your local newspapers.
Talk your problems over with someone you trust.
And keep on living, even with the pain, just keep on living.
Feeling suicidal, here is a site:
http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html
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the one person you love and care for will be even more depressed once you die..and this is a case where suicide is extremely selfish..you don't want to personally see her/him depressed, so you want to die and leave them more agony..oh, but you don't have to witness it...so it's okayHealth Question & Answer
Start Laughing. I love laughing and believe laughter is the best remedy. If it gets extreme, talk to a professional. But you have to be willing to talk or you'll feel like dying more...
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Seriously get some sort of therapy.Health Question & Answer
How old are you.? if you are young and healthy,the world is full of joy waiting for youHealth Question & Answer
Jesus.
repent your sins
and confess Him as your Savior
He will heal you.
i talk about salvation not about religion etcHealth Question & Answer
repent your sins
and confess Him as your Savior
He will heal you.
i talk about salvation not about religion etcHealth Question & Answer
talk to someone!
maybe it's best to see a shrinkHealth Question & Answer
maybe it's best to see a shrinkHealth Question & Answer