Why does everyone i know seem to die?!


Question: Why does everyone i know seem to die.?
Why does everyone i know seem to die.? Like seriously.
First my mom died and then very shortly after my best friends sister died. Then about a year and a half later my cousin died, and then 1 month later my sisters best friend died, and then today my exboyfriends brother died.

I am i killing these people.?.?.?.?.? I just need to reassurance...thats a whole lot of death for a 15 year old!
It is also causing me a lot of stress and sadness...what should i do about that.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
You're not the reason these people are dying.
Look at all the factions in why they died. What did your mom die from.? Did they die from a disease, accidents what.?
Life happens this way, you're born, you live and then you die. No one knows how long they have on this earth. You just try to live, eat and once again live to correct the wrongs that person did in their life to make yourself more healthy. Death is not in your control unless you're the one that physically caused harm to that person.Health Question & Answer

well everyone on our planet dies eventually so i don't think its you that's causing it, it is just something that everyone has to deal with

(two years ago) My grandmother (from my mom's side) had a stroke the day before Christmas, then my grandfather (from my dad's side) died the day after Christmas, then four months later my grandfather from my mom's side committed suicide, in august my great aunt died, then in april a very close family friend committed suicide, and then my great uncle died in june

i had never been to a funeral in all my life before my grandfather's and I was 15 when he died and now i've been to all these

see, it happens to all of us

i understand what you are going throughHealth Question & Answer

I know it seems that way sometimes but it simply isn't your fault. When I was your age the same thing seemed to be happening all the time... It was like this endless stream of tragedy. Your are not killing these people. It just isn't your fault. But it might help if you went to a support group or grief counselling for a little while. Talking to other people who have been in a similar situation can make a world of difference because they understand. It can take years to resolve the death of a parent (or other family member) so I think you should talk to someone.Health Question & Answer

So sorry to hear people that you know are dead, especially those who are close to you. It's not your fault. Think on the bright side - if there are so many people that you know are dead, then you must have a large circles of friends. This means that you are loving and friendly person. News of friends or relatives died can be stressful and sad, of course, but cheer up! They are in the goods hands of the Lord. Isn't it better.?

Try to divert your attention to something else! Do something that you like. This will help you to forget about the sadness.Health Question & Answer

It totally isnt your fault! My mom passed away too, and soon after that my grandmom. My uncle passed away just recently, leaving behind four little ones... Even though I loved my Mom more than anything, my uncle passing away hit me the hardest because he meant everything to his kids and his wife never even graduated HS and how is she going to support them all.? I know life sucks-- but it does make you stronger. Do what I did and start to write your feelings out, no matter how it comes out-- it will make you feel better in the end and you'll understand yourself (and life) better too. Trust me, Ive been there...Health Question & Answer

Accept the fact the death is inevitable and that no human can stop it.Health Question & Answer



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