If you were in my position would you feel humiliated?? ? ?!


Question: If you were in my position would you feel humiliated.?.? .? .?
Okay here's the thing... I have a problem and the worst thing that happened was it affected "my image" towards everyone! well not everyone since i can still somehow cover my uneaseaness.. i started doubting myself and i know i acted weird, self consious, quiet, and everything.. and i feel like everyone's impression on me now is weird and the person who is loner stuff.. i know there's nothing to be worried if im the only whose thinking the negative stuffs but what would you do if ppl noticed it and kind of dislike you now... pls dont say that what do u care.. i just want to know if its humiliating to know that the ppl who looked up to u before now looks at you in a "nothing" way.. and the person who is weird.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Speaking from experience, this type of situation can be a bit awkward, yes. But you need to remember that everyone is on their own path, exactly where they should be. This is going ot mean that from time to time you will encounter people that you recognize yourself in a certain relation to, the same as you recognize people in that same position relative to yourself.

So say you were walking down the street one day and some really awkward person was walking in the opposite direction; and you're thinking "Wow what a weirdo". Then suddenly one day you're walking down the street, feeling completely antisocial, just having a crap day; then you notice the person walking in the opposite direction has a funny look on their face and they are looking right at you. At first it can be a bit embarrassing, like "geez I'm a spaz" or something, but when you realize that role must be filled by everyone in their lifetime, and that sometimes your role may change as you do, it gets easier.

There have been many situations lately where I see myself in that position, as "that person", and sometimes it is hard not to feel let down, ashamed. But it is completely normal and nothing ever stays the same. As you find yourself growing and changing, you'll see people's reactions to you changing as well. Some of it will be good, some not so great, but it's all a part of being human. Just walk your path as best you can, and try not to get caught up in the awkwardness when it hits. It'll pass, and you'll get where you're headed. Health Question & Answer

I was/am in your position. What helps alot is to learn the secret/way to happiness. I suggest you go to youtube and watch the secret(movie about the law of attraction) and a new earth webclass(oprah and eckhart tolle speak of spiritual teachings). Hope this helps.Health Question & Answer



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