I think I'm going to send myself to a mental institution because if i get mentally abused 1 more time....?!
Question: I think I'm going to send myself to a mental institution because if i get mentally abused 1 more time.....?
I can't take it anymore. 21 years is way too much of this craP. I just fought with my mother FOR THE 600000 time. I think I'm going to go mentally insane............I'm so sick of her and this family. Everything I do is wrong and all the good i do is never seen. Im shaking like a leaf right now and need someone to talk to. oh guess what i don't even have one of those.......please help me.......tell me this will be better.........tell me any advice........please just help me....i beg you. im so sick of being called immature when im not, a liar when im not, and being said its always my fault and it's all about me when its never!!! I don't even know what else to say......Health Question & Answer
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If there is something negative in your life you need to get away from it. I know what you're talking about and i moved over 11 hours from my family and my life is tons better. I mean i love my family but i would literally lose my mind if i had to talk to them everyday. I still call once a week visit once a year and now things are just fine. Health Question & Answer
I sometimes feel the way you do.
I think you should just break ties with your mother.
You should just leave and go find a better life for your self.
Then it will be better.Health Question & Answer
I think you should just break ties with your mother.
You should just leave and go find a better life for your self.
Then it will be better.Health Question & Answer
I know exactly how you feel.
Sometimes I feel that no one believes in me.
Trust me.
It is not as bad as it seems.
Stay strong.Health Question & Answer
Sometimes I feel that no one believes in me.
Trust me.
It is not as bad as it seems.
Stay strong.Health Question & Answer
Sometime for some people life is just hard, Period! If you are 21 are you holding down a job going to school , sleeping in too much, are you doing your share around the house to help out.? The wrong answer to any of these could drive a mother batty.
Then again perhaps the issue is really that your mother has problems and for some reason takes it out on you. I have a mother who yells a lot. I call her toxic. It is best if we do not spend a lot of time together. I show her respect as my mother and honor her as such but I don't have to subject myself to mistreatment. Are you living at home, maybe it is time to move out. Hard I know but sometimes you just have to make the hard choice. Health Question & Answer
Then again perhaps the issue is really that your mother has problems and for some reason takes it out on you. I have a mother who yells a lot. I call her toxic. It is best if we do not spend a lot of time together. I show her respect as my mother and honor her as such but I don't have to subject myself to mistreatment. Are you living at home, maybe it is time to move out. Hard I know but sometimes you just have to make the hard choice. Health Question & Answer
Hon why do you give them that power.?
Go get a job, stop in when YOU want. Make new friends, there are a gazillion people out there "mother" like. make new friends some of them will have normal families.
And stop giving them the power to do this to you. If it's not your fault. Say nope it's not, hey got to run have a good one.
If you are called immature say ok then, there it is... Whooo I got to go to my own place.
If you do something good do it someplace like your job where it will get you raises, if you do something bad, own it.. oooops wow that was my mistake.
This situation WILL NOT get better, you need to take steps on how to teach people to treat you. Set up your own place, put up no whining or complaining allowed in your new digs. And set some boundaries.
Once after I moved out I was driving my mom someplace and she started the same crap I moved out of home to be away from, so I gave it back.
"Mom if you don't stop complaining about the way I drive you need to walk"
Mom, I hated when you did that to me when I lived at home you are going to have to take it someplace else because this won't happen in my home.
Beleive me mom never did change but my home was a place of peace and rest.
Go get your own place, your dream job and if mom and others behave they may come over. If they don't when you are there YOU can leave.
All the best.Health Question & Answer
Go get a job, stop in when YOU want. Make new friends, there are a gazillion people out there "mother" like. make new friends some of them will have normal families.
And stop giving them the power to do this to you. If it's not your fault. Say nope it's not, hey got to run have a good one.
If you are called immature say ok then, there it is... Whooo I got to go to my own place.
If you do something good do it someplace like your job where it will get you raises, if you do something bad, own it.. oooops wow that was my mistake.
This situation WILL NOT get better, you need to take steps on how to teach people to treat you. Set up your own place, put up no whining or complaining allowed in your new digs. And set some boundaries.
Once after I moved out I was driving my mom someplace and she started the same crap I moved out of home to be away from, so I gave it back.
"Mom if you don't stop complaining about the way I drive you need to walk"
Mom, I hated when you did that to me when I lived at home you are going to have to take it someplace else because this won't happen in my home.
Beleive me mom never did change but my home was a place of peace and rest.
Go get your own place, your dream job and if mom and others behave they may come over. If they don't when you are there YOU can leave.
All the best.Health Question & Answer
Hey Madison,
Buck up sweetheart! 21 years old you need your own space, Try not to take everything to heart, because it'll only bother you that much more.
Talk to your mom, especially next time you fight and just let her know that what they say REALLY does hurt you.
Get close to some people at work or.. go out for drinks, grab something to eat to together... network. Get involved in some activity at they gym or take courses at school...
Email moi if you ever want!
:)Health Question & Answer
Buck up sweetheart! 21 years old you need your own space, Try not to take everything to heart, because it'll only bother you that much more.
Talk to your mom, especially next time you fight and just let her know that what they say REALLY does hurt you.
Get close to some people at work or.. go out for drinks, grab something to eat to together... network. Get involved in some activity at they gym or take courses at school...
Email moi if you ever want!
:)Health Question & Answer