I genuinely hate my family?!


Question: I genuinely hate my family.?
Why.? I don't want to have anything to do with a damn one of em'. And I'm broke, so I keep on coming back for more treatment it's like a vicious cycle and until I am completely financially independent, it will be more of this. And with the economy the way it is right now, I can't seem to become financially independent. I just really dislike, the core of them. They tried to knock me down a long time ago and it worked and it's not in my head, these people won't stop trying to bring me down when I'm up. As long as I don't do anything risky or that would lead to success, they're ok, but as soon as I do, they make it clear that I should not be doing and or not have they're support, it's a complex no doubt. Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Don't expect them to support you in your endeavors. They just don't understand because you're taking high risks can be dangerous. Of course, they will knock you down. They don't want to see you get yourself into deeper trouble. They don't want you to have high hopes for nothing. That's just their mindset.

Just focus on your goals. Don't look for approval from them. If you're happy about a new idea. Don't share it with them because it's beyond their comprehension. Find some friends to share some of your ideas with.

I love my family for supporting me when i got laid off. They could have said no, go collect welfare.

Even though they don't understand because they never had to face the same things i am going through. Maybe they never took big risks and that is how they got by in life. It's not their fault that is how they view life. Somewhere in their life they learned that life was much safer by not taking risks. And that has worked for them. I don't think they mean to hurt you at all. They may prefer you not to face disappointments. At least they're being honest, rather than lying to you.? Would you prefer they lied to you.? I am sure they want the best for you and that's why they're telling you not to take risks.

It shouldn't really matter what they believe in because the choice is up to you.

You could be the one to prove them wrong that taking risks could be turn out to be a good thing.

For now, just be grateful that they're their to support you while you need it. Keep trying to follow your goals.

Yeah, i know it hurts. I hope you kind find it in your heart to forget about it. In the whole scheme what does it matter.? They love you enough to take you in and they may say hurtful things but that's just because they don't want you to fail. Love is complicated. You'll see when you have someone in your life whom don't want to see get hurt but you don't necessarily agree with their decisions.Health Question & Answer

I Understand. it may of been something in your childhood something very small it could be that made you loose you friendship , trust , love , and everything you had with them. you start to despise everything they do. you felt as if when your feeling down they just push you more to the floor. this type of hate-rid might take a while to overcome.Health Question & Answer

It seems like your family is no source of support for you.
Find other people that will help lift your spirits, people that will believe in you. Try not to see your family very often. If you must see them don't expect very much. This way you will not be disappointed.
Good Luck.
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well, i think it's time to suck it up and be an adult and work enough to get your own place and be able to pay for your own stuff.
that's the only thing you can do. Health Question & Answer

You need to set boundries and keep to it. If they try to over step them have predetermined plans on how you will react. Holding in anger is not good. Health Question & Answer

I don't think you are justified in hating your family as long as they keep giving you money when you are broke. I think you hate yourself for having to ask them for money.Health Question & Answer

ok wuts ur question here. all thats nice to kno but wheres the question im supposed to answer.?Health Question & Answer



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