Bullying scars ? should i seek help?!
Question: Bullying scars .? should i seek help.?
i was majorly bullied in primary school (year 1,2,3,4,5)
cause of the way i looked and spoke
(blonde curly hair, glasses & eye-patch , and a slight stutter)
i didn't dare tell any one cause my mum worked at the school (that was also another reason why i got bullied)
and today (i am in year 10) i have been getting stick of this girl and i went to see a teacher about it
i told him about the bullying before and that's how it all started before and how much i dint want it again
i just cried at all the thoughts Memory's of Primary school
i am just woundering if any of you think i should talk to someone about this .?
i am cryin while writing this
oh god :(
these memorys are effecting my whole lifeHealth Question & Answer
cause of the way i looked and spoke
(blonde curly hair, glasses & eye-patch , and a slight stutter)
i didn't dare tell any one cause my mum worked at the school (that was also another reason why i got bullied)
and today (i am in year 10) i have been getting stick of this girl and i went to see a teacher about it
i told him about the bullying before and that's how it all started before and how much i dint want it again
i just cried at all the thoughts Memory's of Primary school
i am just woundering if any of you think i should talk to someone about this .?
i am cryin while writing this
oh god :(
these memorys are effecting my whole lifeHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
the reason you get bullied is because jealous and idotic idiots try to either make you feel bad so they feel better about their selves or because they are trying to impress their mates.
ive dealt with bullying my whole life too since i was little. i got called due to me being thinner than others and i still do now. firstly whats up with blonde curly hair and glasses.? the eye patch i understand but so what, its not as if its part of your body, and it is just to train the other eye.
i bet your a wonderful girl but youre letting idiots pull you down because they got something against you. no body is perfect love, and the reason these bullies do what they do is so you feel horrible about yourself so you feel what they feel. you may not think it but bullies hate their selves thats why they do it. i understand why your upset but just realise what rubbish it is listening to these jealous *** heads. ive realised that long ago but still i'd get help because some cannot cope with it. but please, you have to say something to others and dont let this go on, thats the worst thing you can do. by the time you leave school you will realise that bullying stops at the work place as it is illegal to bully at work and also after pubity has ended you will not feel so sensitive about these things. so go too school and keep your head up, get help, and if i was you, get even and if you get called by someone call them back and humiliate them. you will feel better i promise love xxx. good luck!Health Question & Answer
ive dealt with bullying my whole life too since i was little. i got called due to me being thinner than others and i still do now. firstly whats up with blonde curly hair and glasses.? the eye patch i understand but so what, its not as if its part of your body, and it is just to train the other eye.
i bet your a wonderful girl but youre letting idiots pull you down because they got something against you. no body is perfect love, and the reason these bullies do what they do is so you feel horrible about yourself so you feel what they feel. you may not think it but bullies hate their selves thats why they do it. i understand why your upset but just realise what rubbish it is listening to these jealous *** heads. ive realised that long ago but still i'd get help because some cannot cope with it. but please, you have to say something to others and dont let this go on, thats the worst thing you can do. by the time you leave school you will realise that bullying stops at the work place as it is illegal to bully at work and also after pubity has ended you will not feel so sensitive about these things. so go too school and keep your head up, get help, and if i was you, get even and if you get called by someone call them back and humiliate them. you will feel better i promise love xxx. good luck!Health Question & Answer
Yes there are plenty of places you could go to talk someone such as kidscape and the anti bullying alliance if you wanted to do it anonymously over the phone, or else talk to your teachers or see someone. It is National Anti Bullying Week this week so your teachers should be able to put you in touch with someone who can help or ask your doctor.
I hope you feel better soon, don't let them get you down! xx Health Question & Answer
I hope you feel better soon, don't let them get you down! xx Health Question & Answer
Yeah, you should definatly talk to someone!
Like, maybe you have a teacher you can really trust and talk to him/her. Or maybe a best friend.?
You shouldn't let them ruin your life.
And I'm year 10 too, doing the same essay as you :D
Nearly finished now :]Health Question & Answer
Like, maybe you have a teacher you can really trust and talk to him/her. Or maybe a best friend.?
You shouldn't let them ruin your life.
And I'm year 10 too, doing the same essay as you :D
Nearly finished now :]Health Question & Answer
Definitely you should-your mum and dad may get angry, that would be the normal affect of most parents. But at least if you tell them you have got it off your chest and your parents may seek help for you.
Otherwise stand up to this girl and tell her what you think! I'd do that myself!Health Question & Answer
Otherwise stand up to this girl and tell her what you think! I'd do that myself!Health Question & Answer
If you're bothered by the memories this much than you could possibly benefit from counselling. I do NOT recommend medication (if anyone suggests that) because this isn't clinical depression, it's situational/memory induced depression. The best fix for this is definitely therapy. :)Health Question & Answer
Yes i think you need to talk to someone you don't know like a councillor they will be able to help you through this trauma that has happened and help you and what you say to them will strictly be confidential .Health Question & Answer
I think you should talk to someone, i used to get bullied too, but it was a verbal bullying. it only lasted a while before it got sorted! talking to someone takes a weight off you!Health Question & Answer
Talk to your mum & ur teacher.When u tell ur mum she will probably want to go with u when u tell ur teacher.If u take ur mum with u then anything that the teacher says by way of promising to help ur mum will hear too.Then u teacher will have to help u as ur mum will be a witness to anything he says he will do to help u.If uv told ur teacher b4 then he should already of taken steps to help so by not helping hes not doing hisjob properly.Ur mum can tell him this.A problem shared is a problem halved so by telling ur mum she can support u & help u when u tell ur teacher.These bullies cant be allowed to get away with it but u have to tell people & demand the help ur entitled to.If ur mum knows then she can help & support u aswel.U could also find out if there is an anti-bullying policy at ur school becoz if there is there that would mean that it would include a set procedure 4 this to be dealt with(most schools have them)& ur teachers or whoever u tell will be supposed to follow a set procedure to help u.Makesure u get the help ur entitled to.Good luck.Health Question & Answer
I'm sorry to hear you was bullied. I was bullied for most of Primary and some of secondary. I never told anyone and even when the bullying stopped I was still affected by it but after I talked to someone about it I felt better about what had happened, I'd still never want to go through it again. Has the bullying stopped now.? If it hasn't you need to speak to your teacher again or another teacher and let them know it is still happening, If it is still happening do your best to avoid this girl. I think you should talk to someone about the bullying that you went through, Talking will help you to deal with what happened. You could talk to your parents, a teacher a school counsellor a friend, you can even talk to me if you like.
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LuisaHealth Question & Answer
Aww hunny you shouldnt have to deal with this anymore talk to someone, you should try this,
Act more confident. If a person who bullies feels that they don't have any power over you, it takes the 'fun' out of it for them
Hang around with friends or an adult at times when you're most in danger of being bullied
Don't fight / talk back. It can make the situation worse
And tell someone.
if you want to get in contact ( dont have to add it, you can if you want for some advise ) my emails Amber934@hotmail.com.
Good luck and tell somebody a.s.a.p
xxHealth Question & Answer
Act more confident. If a person who bullies feels that they don't have any power over you, it takes the 'fun' out of it for them
Hang around with friends or an adult at times when you're most in danger of being bullied
Don't fight / talk back. It can make the situation worse
And tell someone.
if you want to get in contact ( dont have to add it, you can if you want for some advise ) my emails Amber934@hotmail.com.
Good luck and tell somebody a.s.a.p
xxHealth Question & Answer
aww dont worry hun
i used to get bullied aswell, and the mistake i made was not talking to someone.
im 20 now, and i have to say that the bullying has had a huge impact on my life even today. i cant look back and say that i have any good friends from my school years.
so dont do what i did, tell someone!dont let those insecure jerks ruin ur life!!
hope everythin goes well xx
if u need a chat just email me at azohura@yahoo.co.uk
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i used to get bullied aswell, and the mistake i made was not talking to someone.
im 20 now, and i have to say that the bullying has had a huge impact on my life even today. i cant look back and say that i have any good friends from my school years.
so dont do what i did, tell someone!dont let those insecure jerks ruin ur life!!
hope everythin goes well xx
if u need a chat just email me at azohura@yahoo.co.uk
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Hello,
(ANS) No.1 YES! YES! YES!! I strongly encourage you to talk to someone you feel close too, someone you can trust with your personal & private feelings, such as a good friend or someone in your family,etc.
No.2 Its VERY important not to try and bottle up your feelings of hurt, pain, distress, fearfulness and so on. Let me put it this way, "The more you bottle up those kinds of feelings the MORE the bully has won" why.? because they have succeeded in hurting you, if you let out your real feelings then you let go the pain & this leads to healing inside yourself >> This will help make you stronger & better able to deal with this in future.
No.3 I know this might sound odd to you but trust me I was bullied to at school and in the end I was literally forced to stand my ground. In the end I hit the bully so hard in the face he got knocked off his feet resulting in a bloody nose. I was 10 or 11 at the time, I was never bullied again by this boy or his gangster mates either. Moral of this story is that bullies need to be faced up to, you cannot run away from all bullies & fears in life, we must face our fears.
No.4 Remember, crying is very healthy & good. why.? because it leads to inner healing which in turn will bring you renewed strength to face the future again with better understanding.
No.5 Yes! I was bullied and yes! it did affect me for many years, mainly I lacked self confidence but that changed as I got older.
Take care of yourself, kind regards from Ivan.Health Question & Answer
(ANS) No.1 YES! YES! YES!! I strongly encourage you to talk to someone you feel close too, someone you can trust with your personal & private feelings, such as a good friend or someone in your family,etc.
No.2 Its VERY important not to try and bottle up your feelings of hurt, pain, distress, fearfulness and so on. Let me put it this way, "The more you bottle up those kinds of feelings the MORE the bully has won" why.? because they have succeeded in hurting you, if you let out your real feelings then you let go the pain & this leads to healing inside yourself >> This will help make you stronger & better able to deal with this in future.
No.3 I know this might sound odd to you but trust me I was bullied to at school and in the end I was literally forced to stand my ground. In the end I hit the bully so hard in the face he got knocked off his feet resulting in a bloody nose. I was 10 or 11 at the time, I was never bullied again by this boy or his gangster mates either. Moral of this story is that bullies need to be faced up to, you cannot run away from all bullies & fears in life, we must face our fears.
No.4 Remember, crying is very healthy & good. why.? because it leads to inner healing which in turn will bring you renewed strength to face the future again with better understanding.
No.5 Yes! I was bullied and yes! it did affect me for many years, mainly I lacked self confidence but that changed as I got older.
Take care of yourself, kind regards from Ivan.Health Question & Answer
Argh! if there is one thing i despise with a vengence it is bullies, i have red hair i was bullied so bad, even beaten up, i never went to school in the last few years because of it, you should definitely talk to someone about it and ease your pain a little! Sounds silly right but i got a helium balloon and wrote a letter on it of everything bad that has happened to me stood on a hill and let it go watching it fly away, i did feel soo much better, but different things work for different people.Health Question & Answer