Im in love with him but he only loves me as a friend. What should I do?!


Question: Im in love with him but he only loves me as a friend. What should I do.?


I'm always going to want more than friendship. I want us to be boyfriends.

He's my first think thought when i wake up in the morning and the last thought before bed...not to mention that i think about him all day long.

i want us to be "together" and "official".

I want us to be dating.

i want us to exclusive. i want to be a couple. I want to be in a committed relationship.

i want to go out with him and i want to be "his.".

It hurts to much just being his "friend"

But seriously, what am I supposed to do, tell him since he;s not in love with me i cant be his friend because it hurts too much.?

Just think how bad Im going to feel when he starts dating someone else. God this is horrible.

I am in love with him and he tells me "I love you but I'm not in love with you."

My dilema SUCKS either way.

What should I do.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Listen to lots of Morrissey and The Cure and hold yourself while gently weeping.Health Question & Answer

He doesn't love you in the same way you love him. You can't change that. If it hurts too much to be with him as a friend, you'll have to tell him you can't be "just a friend." As long as you remain in his life, you'll experience pain. If it's that painful, you'll have to make a break and not be around him at all. Only then will you be able to move on and look for someone else. Good luck.Health Question & Answer

Only two things you can do: accept it or don't.
You can be thankful you have a friend that is so awesome, you've fallen in love with them.
Orrrr
You can decide you can't be in love with a friend and leave.

Yeah, I know it sucks (been there), but you can't make someone fall in love with you. Maybe there's hope for the future, but if not, you'll always have a great friend. (:

Good luck, hope it works out!!Health Question & Answer

lmao!!!
haha a guy sayin i wanna be his juss sounds so wrong.
suck a dickHealth Question & Answer



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