How do I cope with my life? ?!


Question: How do I cope with my life.? .?
I am on a breaking point right now. My life stinks. My clique is made of friends who have other friends and it seems like we are different somehow. Like I have other good friends and it seems like we just ignore each other. It's weird. And my grades are kinda weird. I am an Honor Roll student which may sounds good to some, but I'm used to getting straight A's. I had two B's the last marking period. also, I get the feeling sometimes I annoy people and they yell at me for like no reason.? For example, I'll be like standing at my locker and we have cramped quarters and this kid named Dan comes up to me and starts screaming at me to move! And my bff Katrina seems a little on the pissy side. Just like my teachers too. Sorry this is a lot. But I cry and am sad. Any advice.?Health Question & Answer


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Well I would call Katrina and ask what is wrong. Confrontation may seem scary but if you put in the effort to seem that you care about what is wrong that's shows her that you are invested in your friendship. So I would say that would be step one. After making up with a friend, then you can go from there to vent to her about your other problems.

Tell Dan to f#$% off and stick some old cheese in his locker. And don't worry about grades because in the long run, will your life be drastically different whether you got a high B or an A when your 37 and am completely successful in the working world, i think not. Health Question & Answer

I'm so sorry for the way you are feeling. There is help you are suffering from depression. It could be your age and the teenage thing. Or it could be true depression. Can you talk to your mom about how you have been feeling and don't leave out any details, let her know you cry and that you are sad. It will take a psychiatrist to diagnose exactly what is causing your depression and there is help. Please talk to a trusted adult preferably your mom.Health Question & Answer

Well this is just my opinion ok.
Ever heard of looking out for number 1 (thats you) and friends they are ok you know but if your like me they only want some1 to talk about their life and when its your turn its like "oh i got to go".Now bout Dan
when he starts his screaming and he will just screamed right back sounds like he needs an earful.Sometime in life we all need to turn the table and give the others an earful even if they don't want to listen let them hear even in harsh words cause no1 said "life is easy". Health Question & Answer

You are suffering from low self esteem at the moment, relax do the things you like doing, you will be so much happier, do stuff that is good for you, you are worth it,


Remember these are just feelings, not facts they will pass!Health Question & Answer

it seems to me like you have a good life. You have a bff, healthy, and are honor roll. Health Question & Answer

Im srry i feel your pain. If you think positive things and the positive things in your life it will get a lot better. I've gone through a lot in my life-not to metion sexual abuse that trematized me at a young age, but I am ok now and I know what you mean. Most of my friends are jerks to me every now and then too, listen do not depend on your friends for happieness becaus they will fail you a lot more then once. Look at the bright sides of life-you are alive and there must "something" you take pleasure in in life. Find what you like to do-for instance I expert in the arts, and when I feel depressed I work on something that gives me a challenge so I will work harder and I often get pleasure out of doing the things I like. Most girls are extremely mean at this age, I am a teenage girl and I have learned if you make friends with some really nice guys, and stay frinds not date and dump, but friends they often are behind you more then girls are. I'm srry you are depressed, I am too, I cry a lot too, and I have been getting a couple C's when I have been used to A's. Plus I believe in God and have been struggeling with life and school and God. I would personally suggest that you start a belief in God, (if you havent already)-please understand I am in no way suggesting you have to follow Christianity to make you happy- I am suggesting that you should discover some things about yourself. Find a hobby and take a moment at school, at home, in life to realize you are not the only one, and there is always hope so do not be afraid. All people go though only strengthens them for their life ahead. Going through all I have has strengthened me, I used to have panic attacks, but now because of the trials I have gone through, it has made me stronger and nmore stable in this area, now I am completely calm in situations. Hey I feel your pain, if any questions or comments please right back. Hope you feel better,and ps please dont worry about your grades, you are trying and that's what matters. :)Health Question & Answer

Listen, your thing in school you have to put in perspective. You are smart and its just school. You will not even see half of these people the rest of your life. You have goals. Ya, you want some fun and things are said and done ya.
Whether is teen is 15 or a person 25, if you have grades that are good that's your gig to make your life . You are your own and in your ways.
You better keep up the positive thing or I will kick your butt.
Second, School is nothing but hormones and put that into perspective.
ya. Later it maybe called meno but it is the same there and the same.
So, go with the flo and the bites, and grow. Ignore and just go do your thing . I loved Pink Floyd at your age. Still do.
A momentary lapse in reason; a yes.
Be good, be real, be you, and yes there idiots. You love , you will marry and have many jobs and meet many others and at a different age
when you and them will have a different perspective.Health Question & Answer



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