Will I go to hell if I kill myself?!


Question: Will I go to hell if I kill myself.?
I can't take it anymore! I can't take my grades, family, love, life anymore! Too much to handle. God is what keeps me living, but today was the last straw. Will I go to hell if I kill myself.? I am Muslim if that helps. Health Question & Answer


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I can't say whether anyone is going to hell or not. But I've read a lot about this and in different religions also. What I believe to be true is that the pain that you are feeling will not go away and in fact will get worse. You will also suffer the pain that you cause to other people by doing this. You are here to learn something and if you don't get through this learning experience you will just have to come back and go through the same type of situation again until you learn to master the pain. If it's not your time to go, you will be very sad because you will realize this as soon as you complete the suicide. PLEASE try to get through the pain you are suffering from and find another solution. God loves you. Health Question & Answer

Do not kill your self. Believe me things will get better, you have to go one step at a time. I always say life is like hills and valleys, when we are on top of the hill life couldn't be better and when we are in the valley life couldn't be worse. So hang on it will get better you are just in a valley part of your life now. Who knows you may meet the love of your life tomorrow.Health Question & Answer

I know exactly how you feel. I was extremely depressed and suicidal as a teenager, I even had one failed attempt that no one knew about except my boyfriend at the time. I too was failing out of school and ended up dropping out. My boyfriend was very degrading and my parents were verbally and mentally abusive to me and my dad was physically abusive to my younger brother. I wanted to run away and even did a couple of times... once for ten days- a couple years later for a week.
I left home as soon as I was able, got pregnant and married into a bad relationship. My love for God and fear of hell was the only thing that kept me from killing myself back then.
And it did get better. I had many ups and downs. Many joys came my way- the birth of my 4 children, a second marriage to the love of my life, the finding out of Bible truths which disprove the false teaching of hellfire.
At about age 29 I started taking medication for severe anxiety and I started seeing a counselor as well- once a month now for the last several years. Until about 3 weeks ago.
My children were taken from me while on a business trip with my husband, several states away. I sliced my wrists over 30 times but the blade was too dull and I did little damage.
Now I see my Counselor once a week and my medicine may be adjusted. And tomorrow, I get to see my kids for the first time since they were taken and I'm glad I didn't die.

The purpose of my story, is to show you that life DOES get better... and at times it gets worse. Place your trust in God. See a Doctor if possible. Correct the things in your life that you can, work on some others, and let the rest go until you're stronger if even then.

You CAN get through this. You may need a little help to do so. Don't be ashamed to ask for it.

(((((:::::many hugs and prayers:::::)))))Health Question & Answer

besmillahe rahmane rahim. ok yes you will im muslim too. how old are you probably below 18 don't kill ur self u will go to hell because u are disobeying god.bc he is the only one who knows when ur supposed to die so by killing ur self u disrespect him and if you want to kill ur self you have let in to wat the devil wants ppl to do and that is to cause sorrow. you know wat ur parents will think and your friends your grades will get better if you truly believe in god he will help you get back to the strait path. you will got o hell if u kill your sell. allah have mercy on u the mercifull and great Health Question & Answer

Sweetheart, whatever it is please do not do that.
It will pass no matter how bad it is. If it is even rape by a family person it will have its time, it will be later on but it will happen.
I will pray for you and you have friends here. Just keep writing us to what
ever your feeling or going through.
Love you will have and loose that is what makes us stronger.
Family will come and go like the love, I lost all my family to death within 2 years of each other. Grades come from study and clarity.
God is there. We are here too. In a way. You can take a breathe and no you are wanted and needed to us. Your imput on us is important and you just have no idea how much. Keep writing and asking.
I lost me job, another family member, and my boyfriend's mother has cancer and he never lost a holiday nor a relative so I helping in more ways then I can handle too. But, like you are seeking my inner strengths and taking a bath and trying to relax. Tomm will bring a new light and a new day. This too shall pass. Hugs to you; I care. :)
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My roomate just told me the same thing like 5 minutes ago for the dummest thing in the world (don't ask). Anyway, I'll tell you what I told him; If you think life now is bad, it only gets worse once you kill yourself cause you're going straight to hell. Oh, and don't be stupid and give yourself some time to think things over when you're in a better state of mind.

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talk to someone, she's right. don't do it. you're probably a lovely person. don't give up. just talk talk talk talk talk to anyone. even strangers. get it all out. and write stuff down. make a list of positive things in life. and make a list of negatives. figure out solutions to the negs.Health Question & Answer

Personally,i am an atheist and i think you will just dissapear if u commit suicide.Just make sure that you do it stealthily.I tried it once and was caught...not pretty XD!I really cant believe im here,typing this right now.Health Question & Answer

Every time i ever get down that low, and believe me I have been that low...I am bi-polar so i know the feeling...I say "Why even chance it.?" I'm gonna feel different in the morning, if not even in a few hours...Feelings change, and mine change fast...so just chill out and relax, it'll pass...Health Question & Answer

Yea you can't commit suicide in Islam. I would suggest talking to a school councilor, they really can be helpful. Health Question & Answer

We all have our share of troubles its not as bad as it seems talk to someone just get a grip it's all part of life.Health Question & Answer

suicide is a long term solution to a temporary problem
try talking to someone
anyoneHealth Question & Answer

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Please dont do it.
take time off school until you get settled down read quran. then god will give you the answer... but its not my choice... think about your family...Health Question & Answer

yes you will.
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