Why does everyone overlook me? Am i not important?!
Question: Why does everyone overlook me.? Am i not important.?
Why does everyone overlook me.? Am i not important.?
At school...at home...everywhere i go! I really can;t tell who my friends are so everyone i talk to isnt aware of how i feel of somthing, they underestimate me, they forget im there. Im being myself and im not trying to bother anyone what am i supposed to do.?
For instance, today i had a basketball game and i must admit im a decent player, and the coaches know that. But why didnt they play me.? everyone else got to play at least a quarter whereas i only played 2 minutes. And its not the first time the did this! Why does everyone always look past me, and expect me to screw things up.? Ive never shown character like that in the past, i rarely ever do....just why do they expect the worst in me.? We won the game but it doesnt feel like "we" won, it feels like THEY did.
And to top it all of, i have no one to talk to in my life about this...this is very hard for me. Could i have some advice.? ThanksHealth Question & Answer
At school...at home...everywhere i go! I really can;t tell who my friends are so everyone i talk to isnt aware of how i feel of somthing, they underestimate me, they forget im there. Im being myself and im not trying to bother anyone what am i supposed to do.?
For instance, today i had a basketball game and i must admit im a decent player, and the coaches know that. But why didnt they play me.? everyone else got to play at least a quarter whereas i only played 2 minutes. And its not the first time the did this! Why does everyone always look past me, and expect me to screw things up.? Ive never shown character like that in the past, i rarely ever do....just why do they expect the worst in me.? We won the game but it doesnt feel like "we" won, it feels like THEY did.
And to top it all of, i have no one to talk to in my life about this...this is very hard for me. Could i have some advice.? ThanksHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Visit your school counselor; talk to the coaches and say you feel you are being victimised without any reason, by not getting your fair share of court time. "The squeaking wheel gets the grease". Ensure you show effort, and attention, without being overly aggressive. See section 38, on self confidence, and assertiveness, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shanerisHealth Question & Answer
no one is insignificant.Health Question & Answer