Do you think it is time to end it all when pain exceeds the pleasure that you are getting from life.?!


Question: Do you think it is time to end it all when pain exceeds the pleasure that you are getting from life..?
when you find yourself in dark tunnel & your are desperately looking for some light, u try but you fail to find it , do you think that is the best time to say goodbye & find the peace which you are desperately looking for .or is it selfish to harbor such thoughts which will provide peace & solace to you, but betray your near & dear onesHealth Question & Answer


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Suicidal depression is an illness that has the distinct characteristic of building a wall between the individual suffering with it....and the reality of everything else outside that particular loop.
Three rapid points for your consideration
1. Life is a combination of pain and pleasure. At times any individual may experience a long hard run of painful experiences but this is no true indication of it being all that will be... it can just simply SEEM that way.
2. This "peace and solace" that you speak of as a target that you seem to be SURE of as a result of such an action.... is yet again... an assumption on your part and could be a total miscalculation from which there would be absolutely no returns.....
3. Depression at the level of one considering such actions has already reached a point to where the individual is definitely in need of a "guide" out of the loop or the illness will drag them under and cause them to believe any number of things that are simply not so.....

Take this situation to a professional immediately and get it all out on the table.... for, before this imbalance of thought processes literally takes what brighter future you have.... you must act to save that future for yourself with a bold, brave act of courage !!

Hope this helps
for it comes from a sincere desire
to bring LIGHT to your darkened corner

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If your speaking of suicide then yes it is very selffish. In U.S every 30 seconds someone is preparing to comit suicide, and every 1 min someone actually does, more women try to comit suicide than men, but more men actually follow through. All I can say it aint worth it, you are an individual who has its place in this world, everyone has their role. If you feel like ending your life stop, and instead go save someone elses life, once you save someones life and see how thankfull they will be then you will realize how much life is really worth. Iam a lifeguard and there is nothing better than saving someones life. So if you got nothing else to do, go save some lives, instead of ending your own.Health Question & Answer

I think it would destroy people who love you, and they would never recover from the loss.

Life is not necessarily about pleasure. Sometimes the challenge is to simply exist through the night (been there, done that) till the sun shines again. It will. It always does. The rain stops and spring comes.

Once you have fought your way out of the tunnel, you will experience a sense of accomplishment. Life is very beautiful, but you only really appreciate that beauty if you have suffered and survived.

As humans, we suffer. As intelligent beings, we learn and recover.

God bless you. You are a child of God.

Take care.Health Question & Answer

See i get like that sometimes, but life is always throws curve balls and you never know what going to happen. i don't feel its the best idea just because it will end on its own one day. And its a sign of weakness. And yes it would hurt your loved ones. I would say it is betraying them. But you just have to imagine the pain they will endureHealth Question & Answer

Okay man im not being mean but you need to call 911 and get some help thoughts of sucide are never a good sign the pain might seem unberable now but fight through and you will see a light at the end of the tunnel. if you still doubt yourself think of the pain your experincing now. Do you want your loved ones to blame themselves and experince the same pain Health Question & Answer

If you've tried every medication and therapy including ECT and are in the pit of dispair shuffling in and out of the psych ward for an extended period with multiple docs saying there's nothing that can be done... then maybe. If you haven't made all these efforts, stop being a chump.

You're romanticizing instead of getting help for yourself.Health Question & Answer

do not be so selfish that you put yourself above everyone else. this time will pass. life will get better. i went through a tough time and considered ending it all but i didnt want my family to suffer. my life is absolutely wonderful now! get somebody to listen and hang in there! Health Question & Answer

the solution to your problems is never saying goodbye, but fighting till the end till darkness disappears, or be patient until light comes out.
there are always people there who will help you, give you strength and give you a push to go on.Health Question & Answer

it is never time to end it all. no matter what you are going through there is always someone, somewhere going through something worse. you just have to appreciate the things you do have. things may look dark now, but they will get better. just give it time. Health Question & Answer

get a flashlight for the tunnel.

when you say "end it all," you do mean press stop on that awful movie "pearl harbor.?"

michael bay totally missed the point in that film.Health Question & Answer

that sounds pretty selfishHealth Question & Answer

Its selfish!

Please don't do anything crazy. Call a suicide hotline or 911 :(Health Question & Answer



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