I feel like hitting someone or worse, please i urgently need help, please?!

heey, i'm in a similar situation. i find it absolutely disgusting how some teachers act, and then they scream at the students when they're the one's who are meant to be setting the exanples...pathetic...my teachers have ruined my life. i know this seems over the top and whatever, but it's true. i will remember this for the rest of my life and how it's changed me. i used to be happy, friendly, love to talk to people and smile...now i'm the complete opposite. i don't socialize with anyone, i'm generally unhappy and i don't smile anywhere near as much. to make matters worse, i don't know if i'll ever be able to change back. plus i now have a massive hatred towards most teachers. the thing that really annoys me was that i didn't actually do the things i was blamed for and they wouldn't listen...and now it's left me like this. thi may sound really pathetic, but i actually hurt myself when i'm mad, otherwise i know i'll take it out on others. oh and the teachers don't care about that either. i sit in the bathrooms crying and the teachers couldn't give a s*it...that's what i find truly pathetic. please, fight and do what you can do not to end up in this situation, it's horrible...i'd suggest telling your mum for sure and getting her to call the school and complain about this. get her to tell them the things she did and said to you. they might not listen to you, but they WILL listen to your mum. get her to go crazy at them. my mum was so outraged that i didn't even have to ask her to. when they talk to you and if you do get pissed off again (by the way i read your other question and i will answer it soon and i find what they did absolutely pathetic and disgusting...by the way pissed off is NOT swearing...stupid dumb **** teachers...) try and breathe. just take deep breaths and try not to lose your temper, although i understand 110% why you wouldn't get mad at the stupid d********. i'm getting pissed just thinking about it...imagine if i was you. plus i can relate...maybe get into a contact sport, take your anger out in a more sfae way, and NEVER hurt yourself delibretaly. i know you said it was accidently...but just in case for the future. just please don't do it. i also got a lot of people telling me to go see a counseler but i was too embarrassed to go in or see the school one, plus i thought of it to be a bad thing because the school was the thing that started the damage on me to begin with, so i felt like i was letting myself down by seeing a school counseler. but if you don't feel the same way, and you feel comfortable with the situation, i'd suggest seeing one. as long as you talk about this with someone, DO NOT battle this on your own i know how hard it can be and how hard it is to fix. talk to someone about it, but it's better if it's an adult. it doesn't have to be your mum/dad/guardian just a mature adult you can trust. i know how much this sucks for you right now, but please hang in there...i KNOW how frustrating things like this can be. well, sorry it's so long.
hope this helps and good luck =)
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the girl has jealousy issues. talk with a guidance counselor, calmly. I'd be mad too, but , it's really her problem I had someone do that at work, she was a real liar , just a matter of time it'll reveal itself. I know everyone doesn't believe her and thinks she's crazy. she was really jealous, the sick kind. don't let her get to you. be nice, ignore her, don't talk about her anymore, stay away from her.Health Question & Answer

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take up a contact sport.boxing,mma,something like that.then you can hit people and get rewarded for it,instead of in trouble.Health Question & Answer

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Well, that girl sounds like a real punk. I really hope you accidentally stabbed yourself with your scissors, and not did it intentionally. I would suggest talking with your parents, but you say you can't even tell your mom. If your relationship with her is that bad, then you should just wait till all this ugly business in school just simmers down. I mean, she won't be a little hater towards you forever, will she.?

also, you mentioned she wrote a note about you that said really offensive things. If you can get a hold of that note, you could show it to a teacher at school, since you say they don't believe you...

Just don't pick a fight with her or anything, ok.? Don't stoop down to her level. you will only worsen things.

If you want to try to cope with anger, try keeping your mind occupied with something, like a hobby. What i do, is play videogames, as a form of escapism to get away from the world.

I really hope you get better =)Health Question & Answer

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You're feelings are very valid and normal. Who wouldn't be angry in your situation. It's frustrating as hell when you feel no one is listening to you! I've got to hand it to you, though, for being able to write about your feelings like that. You're able to verbalize them, and that's the most important step is being able to put words to your feelings. Good for you! I'd encourage you to find as many positive ways to vent your feelings, such as journaling, confiding in someone whom you respect, letter-writing but not sending it to the person your feelings are about. (Believe it or not, it really does help! I thought it was a bunch of garbage at first!) But I think you're on the right track by being able to talk/write about it and asking for help/advice. Keep moving ahead!Health Question & Answer

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First things First. You can not control what others do. You can only control what you do, how you respond and so on. I believe you because my daugther is in high scholl and I have seen the teachers that are now your educational providers. They Suck. I don't want you to rally against them but I do want you to take it to the next level. Go to your principle and tell them what is going on and how you feel. If you feel abused or mistreated they need to know. No one can tell you the way you feel is wrong. Then when you go always approach the situation with maturity. Speak intelligently and don't raise your voice. If you have to write a letter out so that you can read from it when you go in. No matter what they have to listen. Offer a solution that you think may work and see what they say. They can not deny you the right to be seen. Just stay calm and remember that no one hears you when your screaming. Tell them everything then they can bring her in and help with solving the issue. Good luck

P.S. I come from a place of great anger. Now that I am 35 I just recently learned how to control my anger and how better to address any situation. Believe me it feels good after so many years to voice my opinion without yelling. People actual listen. YOU WILL DO FINE. Don't do anything that you know you will regret later..it's never worth it. :)Health Question & Answer

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One of the things that you learn in school besides coursework is that some people seriously suck. I had an experience similar to this in highschool with someone who I once was good friends with who turned into a subtle "douchebag".
He would say little remarks to me and talk behind my back when no one was watching, but was nice to most other people and in front of teachers.

One day he I overheard him talking smack about this girl I liked that I was dating, to these girls during access period. Earlier I heard a bunch of rumors he was spreading around about me (he is also an amateur model and is rich and has cool cars so most people listen to him, if you know what I mean).
So I was mad and I pretty much told him he was a fake spoiled sissy pretty boy who spreads rumors, in front of all his groupies he was gossiping in front of and walked off.

I walked by and he sack taps me hard, (friends do this sometimes as some dumb masculine thing, but this was different) so I push him into the wall and into the railing and started to walk off. A few seconds later he tackles me to the ground and has me pinned (only his girl crew was in the hall at the time). So I'm pretty much pinned(hes about a foot taller than me) but eventually I manage to knee him in the side and flip over, we scuffled for a bit, both got some punches in(I got kicked) and I end up on top of him punching him in the face. At this point I got pulled off by another student, and his girl squad is holding him back(as if its actually doing anything).

Even though he kicked me in the side and jabbed me twice in the jaw, I had no visible damage, but his lip was split and his nose was bleeding, and I had his blood on my shirt, hands and elbow.

at this point I notice about half of the school is standing around as well as a teacher. It Didn't look good that I was in an armlock and had blood all over me that wasnt mine, and he was being coddled by his girl squad.

So two teachers grab me by the arms and starts marching me towards the principals office as If I was osama bin laden, and I was trying to protest, but they werent having it. So I go in the office and basically get an automatic suspension for fighting due to a "no tolerance policy". They brought in the other kid in afterward and since basically everyone got on the scene while I was punching the stuffing out of him, and his girl squad stated that "I started it" He got a warning and I got suspended.

So some time went around and my suspension was over and, the rumors about me got huge, and this kid was behind it and made it look like I was all emotionally hurt by some little thing he said, and that I attacked him. The girl that I was dating stopped dating me because her friends said I was a "bully"
I didn't even get to tell her that the whole fiasco was started with me defending her.

Anyways some of my friends and most of the girls in the clique I associated with were mad at me (remember he's a model with cool cars) except his sister who knew what a d-bag he was, because hes actually hit her before.
Among most of my guy friends(except his fan club) and all the other dudes on my lacrosse team thought I was some kind of bada**, because the coach was mad because I was suspended from play.

So rumors got even worse and I decided to go talk to my guidance counsellor " I know that sounds lame but thats what the principal told me to to if I had a problem" and she was actually understanding and believed my situation. She told me to get his sister and have a talk with the kid, his parents and the principal and the guidance counsellor about the situtation, since he was spreading gnarly rumors, and I was about ready to go chuck norris on him again. So I apologized to him before hand on my own, then later we had the meeting, I apologized to him again and his parents about the situation. So everything was cool again, and I was allowed to play lacrosse (the coach still made me run laps). Even though we were cool, I stayed the flip away from him, and If he talked crap I ignored him.

I did start dating his sister later on though which was wierd, but we were actually freinds( not close but we were cool) when this happened.

So If this girl is still giving you problems, go talk to your guidance counsellor( I know It sounds lame but it fixed my situation and got me out of some trouble). If your guidance counsellor sucks, and you are still having problems switch schools.

As for the anger you have right now, go jogging, listen to some angry music and let it burn out. Hang out with some good friends and get your mind off of it. Don't start rumors and stay away from this dumb girl.

I hope that sort of helped










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Well, you obviously feel angry because no one will listen to you. If you really feel it

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