How can I stop? please help me.?!
Question: How can I stop.? please help me..?
I am 14 years old and I have a problem. I can't ever just like something, I either hate it or I am obsessed with it. Music, Movies, Books whatever. I am super obsessed with TWILIGHT and I know I am not the only one but I still am sick of this cycle; I find something then i love it and then i watch/listen to it a million times and then in few weeks i am over it and dont wanna watch it or hear it again. How can i just enjoy something without enjoying it too much.? first it was a tv show called life with derek, then high school musical 1 and 2, then i fell in love the jonas brothers and now ( and the best EVER) twlight. it isnt even real! none of that could ever happen and yet i want it to be real so bad that it is actually depressing. With TWILIGHT, for example, I wish I was Bella. Bad. I want to be. Just.Like. Her. That's bad bc I cant just be happy with my life and who i am. I dont know what to do. Please give me your advice. Health Question & Answer
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My advice is that you need to remind yourself there is no Bella, there is no Edward.. and although I am 29 and sure would like me a piece of that vampire too,we must remember it is not real. Find something original that you can do. Write something or draw or whatever you are into. At least be obsessed with something that YOU do.
However, I am pretty sure it is something you will grow out of. I think you are normal for your age. And knowing that you do that... half the battle. You'll be fine.Health Question & Answer
However, I am pretty sure it is something you will grow out of. I think you are normal for your age. And knowing that you do that... half the battle. You'll be fine.Health Question & Answer
your still young its just your hormones. don't worry everyone goes through this. just be happy and go with the flow. there are several trance c.d's on ebay that will help you relax and wind down. check them out punch in
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Who cares if you love things that is what makes good people in the world, people who appreciate things! The entertainment buisness is out there to make people love and enjoy it! Theres nothing wrong like loving somthing!!Health Question & Answer
Well I guess you're just the healthy, average everyday teen.
Don't worry, you're fine.Health Question & Answer
Don't worry, you're fine.Health Question & Answer
you have to lock yourself in your room or you can compose some songsHealth Question & Answer
i can c where ur coming from i think if u love something for example the jonas brothers dont always watch them all the time beause like any normal problem ur gonna get sick and tired of them.try not to watch or listen to the stuff u love the most tooo often and then u wont hate it soo much.and ur not the only one honey so many people want to be there movie character its natural and u really want to be them thats not hating ur life it just loving a movie its nothing serious and at first i wanted to be vanessa hudgens because she wwas so pretty and everything but then u just get over it hope i helpeed:)Health Question & Answer
I LOVE TWILIGHT TOOO!!!!
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but yeah you should know that the people in movies, music, books (like bella) arent real. thats not how they really are and thats not really exactly how they look either. you should be happy with who you are, because you know that it could of been a lot worse. dont be depressed, look at yourself in the mirror before you wake up and go to sleep that youre beautiful and you like who you are. it'll work trust me. and know that people like you for who you are and your friends like you for who you are. do you think that theyd still like you if you were some fake kind of barbie like bella.? :) they probably wont. so be your self and be happy.
hope i helped
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but yeah you should know that the people in movies, music, books (like bella) arent real. thats not how they really are and thats not really exactly how they look either. you should be happy with who you are, because you know that it could of been a lot worse. dont be depressed, look at yourself in the mirror before you wake up and go to sleep that youre beautiful and you like who you are. it'll work trust me. and know that people like you for who you are and your friends like you for who you are. do you think that theyd still like you if you were some fake kind of barbie like bella.? :) they probably wont. so be your self and be happy.
hope i helped
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