My mom died 8 years ago i still miss her a lot what can i do?!


Question: My mom died 8 years ago i still miss her a lot what can i do.?
My mom just pass 8 years ago and i miss her a lot my dad work in other state and my bros all of them are married so im alone , i got a lot of friends but i haven't been able to surpass his dead i feel so alone i been smoking weed and i think im becoming alcoholic but that solve the problem just for a little time i don't know what to do im starting to hate my life HEEEELP please someone i feel sooooooo alone in this misery world.
BTW i love motorcycle riding soooo muchHealth Question & Answer


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Thats normal,missing your mom. The word missing is kinda a bad word and its a bad feeling,so quit missing her...some of the most powerful men in history,had a picture of there mom,everywhere they were,and openly talked to them,after they passed, if you havenet tried this I suggest you do.Put a picture on your desk,in your car,in your wallet and when you feel that bad word creeping in (missing) tell your mom whats on your mind,and you will see,how much it helps.Somtimes I have the same thoughts and then I relize if rolls were reversed I wouldnt want my mom missing me id much rather her grab one of my photos and just talk to meHealth Question & Answer

I am sorry about your loss. I missed my dad for a few years and then my mother has Alzheimer's. I basically lost her 8 years ago because she cannot communicate. But when you look at your problems, you can always see someone else who is worse off than you. You know, when you help someone else, it gives you a great feeling which would be a much better feeling than smoking weed and using alcohol. Are you in position to help other people.? If so, look around and do something for an older person or a needy person. You will soon forget your problems. You say you lots of friends! If they are the right kind you are rich.
Go ahead and ride the motorcycle. Have fun!Health Question & Answer

Motorcycles are cool.
I recently got my license and have rented a few bikes.
I'm sorry about your Mom.
Smoking weed and drinking don't solve anything though and certainly you don't want to be under their influence when you ride your motorcycle.
Maybe you could join a sports team or a start exercising to get into shape and hang out with your friends who don't use drugs.
Save up and get yourself a motorcycle and ride with friends.Health Question & Answer

PLZ dont smoke weed or be an alcoholic that is not good! I am very sorry to hear that ur mom passed away, you know my grandpa passed away and whenever I felt like that i thought of him and said"Would he want be to be like this.?" and ur mom will always be in ur heart 4 eva!
Im sorry bout ur mom hope this helpedHealth Question & Answer

As you probably know, alcohol and drugs just mask (numb) the pain. They may make you feel good in short bursts, but sooner or later what you are trying to suppress will come out and bite you on the rear.

Can you join a motorcycle group.? I don't mean gang-related, but enthusiasts. So you can get away as a group on weekends or just put the gas in the tank, a small pack on your back, and go... anywhere.

As for your mom, talk to her. Like she was still there. Seriously. Not in a loud voice, but quietly, or use your 'mind' voice in your head. Whilst you are at it, ask for some kind of sign to know that she has heard you.

IF you want to talk, let me know.Health Question & Answer

Hi, sorry to hear about you Mom.
It is soo hard to lose a parent when you were so young, especially your Mom.
think of her as with you in spirit all the time. I believe our lost loved ones are an angel on your shoulder, still there. still loving you.

I know lots of people probably think that sounds nuts.
I have lost too. It never really goes away, but you will learn to get on with your life, and think of her and smile.

it's good you have interests like your motorbike.
when you meet the love of your life, that will help you too. don't think you wont, It happens when you are not looking. believe me, I know,

don't do drugs & stuff, that will ruin you.
Your Mom wouldn't want that.

take care of youHealth Question & Answer



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