I really need help with this. What should I do?!


Question: I really need help with this. What should I do.?
For the past week I have turned off my phone because I don't want to talk to anyone. I've been going to school and the days I had off for Thanksgiving, I am with my family. I don't feel well at all and my depression is getting worse everyday. I can't stop thinking about a girl I love so much. I dream about her and I miss her so much. I have to move on from her since there is no hope (she made this clear). Sometimes I don't see meaning in my life without her. I just want to die and rest in peace. I want her memory erased and I no longer want to suffer from this. It's been a year and half that I have been going through this. I have seen two therapists. I am seeing one currently. I am not on medication but I'm thinking of taking them lately. What should I do.?

Sometimes I act like she is next to me and I have conversations with her. I want to hold her and be close to her. I stopped any contact I had with her a while ago but I see her sometimes and it hurts me to know she is with someone else.
For the past month, I had been going out a lot and spending a lot of money. Now I don't want to go out anymore. It really doesn't make a difference for me whether I stay home or go out. I end up looking for her everytime I go out somewhere.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
It sounds like you are getting into a severe depression, and I dont know how your therapists are not seeing that. You need to talk to them about this kind of stuff, unless you already are im not sure. I would definately reccomend you trying a low dose of some depression medication and seeing how it works. I would try celexa first and if that doesnt work then maybe lexapro. There is also prozac and paxil that alot of people have luck with. Another very mind one is zoloft, that would probably be what they start you on, they ususally start everyone on that. Health Question & Answer

Let me get this straight. You are so obsessed with a girl that wants nothing to do with you, that you make pretend she is there and have fictional conversations with her.?

She needs a restraining order and you need to be heavily medicated.Health Question & Answer

I think you should just be her friend if you desperately need her next to you. Maybe you can ask her out latert but then if she breaks up with you it'll make things worse. Just think of other things your interested in like hobbies that you have. You can try to memorize the song's lyrics by lyric if you want to think of something else. Just relax it'll be over if you just follow what i say.Health Question & Answer



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