Why am i so unhappy all the time ?!


Question: Why am i so unhappy all the time .?
i am always unhappy mad or just mean to people i don't mean to be but it seems lately i have been getting mad at every one so easy and after i am unhappy i always get mad at my mom for almost anything she does please help if u canHealth Question & Answer


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You're asking the WRONG QUESTION. How to be happy. How to change the thoughts. I am happy all the time. buy the book "The Power of Positive Thinking" By: Norman Vincent Peale. This will help. Read Positive thinking Books like The Magic Of Believing, Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude. Read them more than once Like rubbing a magnet on a piece of steel will turn the metal into a magnet so reading such material by repetition will slowly rub off on you. I didn't always used to be happy I was very negative until I did this. also If you can hear this:Read The New Testament Of The Bible and Pray: Ask God(assuming U Believe in Him) To Give You The Gift Of the Holy Spirit Which he has promised to ALL who BELIEVE in JESUS. THE Holy Spirit will give you the right mind and teach you self control, You must Wash your mind with the Word of God Yes "brainwash" IF you REALLY WANT TO clean up your thoughts. That Is How I did it so i know it works. The Greatest Happiness I know and the greatest change came when I came to KNOW Him I mean REALLY REALLY KNOW. To those who believe and keep his word Jesus PROMISES he will love that person and He and The Father will come to that Person to Live with them. The Holy Spirit is called by Jesus The"Paraclete" literally someone who walks beside you. He fulfilled that promise to me because I saw Him.
So I speak as someone who knows God personally. Not like many preachers who know him by heresay, or as most Christians who are more like celebrity stalkers who "Know all about" Jesus but Jesus himself would say He dosn't know them.I hope this helps you.Health Question & Answer

I used to be very much like you. I took every little thing anyone said, or did personally. I got very upset, usually to an extreme, when things didn't go as planned. I thought everyone thought badly of me, whether it was my appearance, my attitude, or my intelligence. I thought my life wasn't ever going to get better, and I was doomed to be unhappy forever. I had friends, loving family members, and even some pretty cool neighbors and co-workers, but I was still unhappy. It took a lot of inner strength and commitment to turn my feelings and life around. I made lifestyle changes, found better friends, went back to school so I could get a better job, and convinced myself that I didn't have to be unhappy. You can get yourself out of this hole you are in. Make a change or 2 in your life. Talk to someone besides your mom. You have to talk to someone who understands what you are feeling. Someone telling you to stop thinking something, anything, will not help you. Medication could help with anxiety or depression, but you have to try as many as is necessary to find one that really works for you. They all do different things for different people.Health Question & Answer

Assuming that you are between 12-18 years old, you could have plenty of reasons to be unhappy. Or, even between 8-90 yrs old!
It's normal to start to try to 'un-stick' yourself from whatever mould your parents try to put you thru, or your peers. Figure out what you like to do, in a creative or academic or physical way.. then see if there are clubs/groups you can join so you can keep on doing it. There are art clubs, math or literature clubs and so many sports at school now, one could keep quite busy there and not let yourself think about how bored or unhappy you are. Health Question & Answer

you're probably stressed and you dont mean to get mad at everyone, but you're stressed and frustrated. and when the headache or pain doesnt go away, you get "depressed" because you probably think about it and compare your life before you got unhappy and it's obviously affecting you. wat are you talking about.? there will always be people who cares to listen to you. I would suggest you talk to your counselor, dont be embarrassed to do so because this will only help you. this is wat came to my mind..lol.. hoped it help some how. lolHealth Question & Answer

If you can find someone (guy or girl) who shares the same charicteristics of your personality, then that would help. I've gone through depression and unhappyness and took medication for it, however I don't think that was the best choice. I needed a friggin girlfriend that thought like me or a best friend that had better traits.Health Question & Answer

If you are a teenager it is normal. well, being moody is normal for teenagers. You are stuck between wanting adult independence and wanting to be the same. the sadness might also be hormonal changes, which is also normal. However, the best way to get rid of the sad feelings is to acknowledge them (which u did by asking) then let them flow and think this will pass. dont focus on them. Realize they are there, but think of the good things in your life (sounds lame but be creative and count even little things) my point is think positive and dont let neg feelings or sad feelings control you. you control them. when they pop in your head say stop! then make yourself think of something positive . exercise btw is a good remedy. :) take care. also dont listen to sad music or watch violent or sad shows and dont read such books. Health Question & Answer

these people suck -.-z
u probably dont want to admit it
especially to some random strangers onlinez
but if uve gone through something
thats gotten u really pissed off
or maybe sad,
then that could be affecting u
or maybe ur thinking of something
thats been bothering u for a while
even though its not all the time
it may be at the back of ur mind
if its nothing like that
then there might b something wrong
go see ur doctor
depression IS a sickness too
just dont do anything stupid
i dont know u
but any life lost is a shameHealth Question & Answer

HONESTLY im the exact way cause I get annoyed easily,I hate stupidity,can't stand dumb a** questions..& I get pissed off when im being talked to like if im a child!! But I knw thts my PROB!!but I grew up with a mom tht has the worst attitude..my attitude is my protection almost .. But if u wanna change.it doesn't matter what any1 has to say!!! They don't knw how u live..everybody got problems.!don't put blame on urself. I knw its aggrivating cause it feels like ur always the TARGET!!!!Health Question & Answer

some people are just never happy, myself included. things come and go but the general feelings will likely be a constant in your life. perhaps it is better to try to deal with it and learn to live like that than try to change or fake it.

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Somewhere within you there is a moral compass. You know the difference between right and wrong and to act angrily to ppl for no good reason is wrong. Try using the Golden Rule. Treat others as you would like to be treated.Health Question & Answer

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