I don't know what's wrong!?!? HELP ME PLZ!?!


Question: I don't know what's wrong!.?!.? HELP ME PLZ!.?
So, recently I have been feeling a little sadder than usual. It all started when my grandpa died, went away a little after a month, and now the sadness is coming back. I feel like i suddenly lost all of my interests and feel like I am on the verge of crying constantly, for no apparent reason, this is not about my grandpa anymore. I am sad about him, but i've moved on a little, i think you know what i mean.

We had a school dance tonight, I usually love dancing (i am a dancer) and today i felt like i was about to cry all night, sometimes starting to tear up a little, and it is still happening. Instead, i just sat in the front of the hallway and helped sell concessions because I am in student council and was required to attend the dance.

I have also been feeling drained! By the end of the day (after sport practices and all) I barely have the energy to do my homework... and i do it anyway, but for some reason i haven't been completing it as well.

Finally, it feels like all of my friends don't care about me anymore (except a few) I mean, today my face was all red and only two asked if i was ok, or hung out with me at all, and one of them were a year older than me.

Is something wrong with me.?.?.? This happened so suddenly and i don't know what is happening!!!!!!! Thanks in advanced!Health Question & Answer


Answers:
hi... i am 13 (almost 14) and i had/have the same problem... i know it is really hard... i hate when i go through that... i was diagnosed clinically depressed in 2nd grade so... but i have been the same way lately(about 2 weeks) and idk why either... i think it helps to just deal with it yourself because when i tell people about it they just say they understand and i know they really don't and so i get frustrated so i just deal with it myself... normally when i am like that i sleep alot and cry when i am alone, and i know this sounds kinda nerdy lol but i also write poems, sucky poems... but still poems and then i feel better eventually... just know that this wont last forever.. you will get through it and as long as you dont make stupid decisions while you are depressed... you will be fine... and as the other person said dont turn to drugs/alcohol... and no matter what dont start cutting it doesnt help at all... trust me on that... oh yeah and if you have any thoughts of suicide, please please please fight them off...

good luck and i hope you get through this okay...

~CJHealth Question & Answer

I think you are still thinking about Grandpa and death in general. Talk to your Mom or Dad or close older friend. I know when my Granny died, I cried a lot and finally my Dad talked with me. I missed her, but I felt like life was changing and I wouldn't see her again. He reminded me that those of us with Jesus in our hearts, will see each other again. You might need a rX for depression, but I'm hoping that a good few talks will help you a lot. Good luckHealth Question & Answer

i can understand. i hav been through this type of condition many times. just want to cry for no good reason right.?.? i escaped from this by company of freindz. some funny freinds. slowly you will feel charged up to take challenges. hope i hav helpedHealth Question & Answer

get more sleep, and most of all try to see a phsyciatristHealth Question & Answer

Are you getting ready to start your period.? In some women the hormonal changes can be horrible! Do you think you should be evaluated to see if maybe you do have some clinical depression.? Maybe what you need is to just have a good cry. You don't need a reason to, but if you feel like it, just do it. Crying also helps rid the body of toxins through our tears. If you can't snap out of it, make a doctors appointment and get a referral to a therapist. Good luck Sweetie...Health Question & Answer

ohmygosh we are in like the exact same situation. idk i think im depressed and i keep trying to get my parents to get me a therapist (they wont). ugh i know what your going through and i know how hard it is. just dont do what i did, drugs and alcohol wont solve your problems... theylll just give you new ones. good luck, just know that someone out there is going through the same thing and you're not alone.Health Question & Answer



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